I met a guy recently on the net . I've met him in person also. We've casually been out a couple of times (just for lunch/coffee/shopping). We know each other quite well & I know I can trust him. So please..when you answer my question, don't tell me not to trust people i have met on the net :)
So anyway, he has had 2 "online/phone" relationships with girls who are overseas...far away...whom he's never met in person. When he was in that relationship they had even considered marriage! One of these two girls is now engaged to someone else but this gal is still VERY GOOD friends with him. They are VERY close. Mind you, they have never met in person but yet they are very close (platonic)
So my question is, we've been on 2 "dates" so far & 3e talk very frequently on the phone. He still has not made any "moves" on me. So do you think he just wants friendship with me or is he scared to make the moves on me? We have known each other for about 6 months now.
Pls give me ur opinion. Thanks!
2007-10-01 21:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When i say "moves" I DON'T mean anything physical.
I just mean that he has never said anything to convey that he likes me in that way or that he finds me cute etc.
2007-10-01 21:33:39 · update #1
"scared" is unnecessarily critical. It's just as likely he's "cautious" or "considerate" or "gentlemanly". You've also given a lot of evidence he's at least somewhat shy.
2007-10-01 21:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How close can that girl b w/ him? She's NOT even here in this country !!! HEEeeeeellooooo....
U just had 2 dates w/ this guy n u want him 2 put the moves on u already? How desperate r u? The fun thing about dating some1 is 2 get 2 know them n even if u have ur 10 thousand dates w/ that guy or any guy, u'll never find out how they r on the inside...
PS: Long distance relationship DON'T work....Long distance love r 4 suckers.
2007-10-01 21:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Gambit-Xeneise 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't trust people you meet on the net!!! ;-)
A guy who has more online relationships than real relationships (yes, that's a slam at some ;-) has some insecurity issues. ANY normal guy will be thinking about more than friends...at least until he has sex...then he'll be thinking "just friends".
I'd suggest you get to know him better IN PERSON. However, hold off on a physical relationship for a while. You need to really get to know what he's about before you jump to that one! He may be into online relationships for a good reason...until you know for sure you are better off being quite conservative.
2007-10-01 21:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you've only been on 2 dates, and a having a relationship with someone close seems to be a new thing for him (lol)
Um.
It's hard to know what he's thinking, but I think you should just give it more time, arrange more dates, get to know him better in person.
But be careful with people you meet online in future.
2007-10-01 21:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by SuperKylie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rearrange the following into a well-known phrase or saying:
LIFE
A
GET
2007-10-01 21:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by 2kool4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to know him first ... don't be hasty
2007-10-01 21:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by khaled e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋