This girl in my college is sooo nice...i mean i've had a HUGE crush on her...She sits beside me in Chem lab but English is my second language and im just afraid that i wont be able to have a good communication with her...i mean i can almost speak about random things but when it comes to joking or some other things i have some difficulties to understand or talk....but im really into her !!! GOD...i dont know what i should do !!!i cant stop thinking about her ! i will do anything to get her but im just afraid...
2007-10-01 20:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the first time all three of the first responses are better than what I can say... do all of the things mentioned in the first three responses!
2007-10-01 21:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by markisboss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have noticed that in our society today that a language barrier is not necessarily a barrier. As a matter of fact some woman find it sexy when a man has an accent. Be confident in who you are and just take it slow at first to see where she is coming from. Try to take her for a drink as friends or something and take the opportunity to relax around her.
2007-10-01 21:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the more reason to keep learning the English better. It will help in so many ways.
In all honesty, if she's not ready to jump culture lines, I wouldn't get too spun up. Try to find subtle conversation to determine if this is an issue before your hormones run off into a Bunsen burner sunset.
2007-10-01 21:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you worried about your english try sending her a note in chem lab saying Hey can i have your email adress as i'd like to maybe add u to my messanger once shes said yes and given you her email address email her and im with her and that way you can write what you say so u don't have to worry about your english. Good luck!
2007-10-01 20:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by KittyKat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of good answers. I think you should ask her to help you work on your English. In fact, use it as an excuse to spend more time with her and make her feel like she's doing a favor for you, meanwhile you get to know each other. I hope this helps & Good Luck!
2007-10-01 21:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reading your english I think you will have no problem at all and even if you will only have an extra charm in her eyes, use it and go for it.... and remember it's not always what you say and how you say it but the body language behind it so....?
Good luck !
2007-10-01 21:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Spice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Be Yourself. If she's that important ot you, learn a few more phrases. Don't look like a creepy obsesee and blow it. Just take it easy, expand your horizons (and your understanding of smartass american humor) and you'll be ok. It's not guaruntee, but its better than freaking out.
2007-10-01 21:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for a coffee it's simple. Take a couple steps back and look at her like a "friend" if you need to until you feel less anxiety about it, you'll do fine, just ask her. Seize the moment my friend :)
2007-10-01 21:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by zail 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her about your language limitations and say that you would love to get some coffee some day... be confident, dont worry to much of what she thinks of you... just say that you are interested in making friends.. good luck dont let anything get in your way/.
2007-10-01 20:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUDE relax!! Just invite her out for a drink. If she says no.. well then you have your answer. Your English looks good.. I'm sure you'll do fine.
2007-10-01 21:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by Enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋