Singles & Dating - 1 October 2007

help! im scared! i dont want to pay for anything!

2007-10-01 06:28:17 · 18 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

I want a man who's: 1.) Be nice to me, and be a gentlemen, not a player whos looking for a booty call. I want him to be nice to everyone else.
2.) I want him to talk about his problems to me, I want a man who doesnt mind crying, someone i could talk to about my problems. I want him to release his emotions not keep them all bottled up inside. I want him to be sensitive to women.
3.) I want him to treat me like his friend not his sex toy.
4.)I want him to be really funny.

I'm sorry, I just want someone to be with, and someone i could talk to. Everytime someone has a crush on me, it makes me think, wait I must be beautiful if someone loves me.

Am I asking too much from men?

2007-10-01 06:27:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

have you ever squeezed a big butt? what did you think? random question. i had a friend that was going off about how she did that and how it was amaaazing. i dont get it. why?

2007-10-01 06:23:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 06:03:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

hmmmm, its date 3...should i invite him over to chill at my apartment? i already chilled with him at his apartment on date 2 after our movie date. do guys care about how apartments look? how do i set a nice intimate mood without being too romantic? will he expect sex? he playfully mentioned "sleeping in my bed" among other sexy flirtacious comments that didn't bother me WHATsoever *wink wink, tho I think I'm not ready to do the do yet. oh AND, should we get drinks and then go to my apt...he's coming from out of town.

2007-10-01 06:01:21 · 19 answers · asked by RN81 1

dont want to be with him but i want to be with someone else but dont want to cheat

2007-10-01 05:54:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok is there any guys on here that is between 14 and 12???

2007-10-01 05:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by witl_bianca 1

I am quite attracted to him but he is a bad boy with a wild past. He always asks me for money and takes off and does not return. When I ask h im he come up with excuses. I stopped calling but he still calls me. I am now dating other men and wh en this man found out, he now is calling more and seems jealous. He called last night and wanted to know if my 'male dinner guest' had left (at midnight) when i had to get up for work, he woke me up. He doesnt seem interested in sex m uch either and has a problem in that department. I have invited him to sleep over and he has taken off. He may be into drugs. I see him as my future husband this sutuaiton is making me depressed! How can I change a bad boy to love me and change his ways.

2007-10-01 05:33:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuz that what my ex did

2007-10-01 05:23:24 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR ABOUT 6 MONTHS AND FOR THE LAST MONTH OR SO HE HAS BECOME COLD IN THE WAY HE ACTS WITH ME. HE HAS A JEKYLL AND HYDE PERSONALITY. HE IS HOT AND COLD ON DIFFERENT DAYS. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? HE GETS UPSET WHEN I MAKE PLANS ON MY OWN BUT HE AVOIDS COMPLETELY THE WHERE ARE WE HEADED CONVERSATION. ANY ADVICE?

2007-10-01 05:22:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think this question is fairly straightforward. In addition what are the signs one can look for in any case a woman is in fact faking the big "o"?

2007-10-01 05:16:29 · 21 answers · asked by Curious1 1

I am Really paranoid And scared to what will happen when my boyfriend finds out. I dont want him to ask whats rong with them and i dont want him to freak. He has had sex a few times i havnt im so bloody scared. But be honest....If you were about to do it with your girlfriend for the first time and she takes her bra of and you see that her nipples arnt errect what would you think or say or do..........Would you be grossed out what i need to no............And please just be honest!
xxx

2007-10-01 05:14:58 · 12 answers · asked by Shae- 1

just wanting information about what that word really means. thanks

2007-10-01 05:14:06 · 6 answers · asked by cuteness 4

I was in very serious realtionship with this guy months ago. I loved him, he was one of the first guys who actually cared for me. The only prob;em was he was too old fo rme. He lied about this age he told me he was 20 but he was 26. I was 16 at the time now I'm 17. He was trying to marry me after i finished college.

2007-10-01 05:02:55 · 16 answers · asked by Ayita 5

My boyfriend and I are noral serious couple after a little more than a year. Yesterday I was out for a few hours, when I got home telling him about some fun and exciting things I wanted to tell him...I was bored and was like "let me see your phone", He grabbed it back looking at his messages - I said what something I cant see? He said "yea youll prolly get mad, let me look" We have issues with him and drugs and thats usually what i get mad about if I see some textes. But thats no secret so Im mad he held his phone for a few secs. I let him be and was mad. You think there could be more to hide? Should I have not even attempted to see his phone? Later he siad he was just about to hand it to me, But I told him he chose too late. We havent talked since yesterday - I think he should approuch me about it....

2007-10-01 04:56:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 04:51:48 · 8 answers · asked by Spartacus 3

Why dose this girl at my work keep bugging me when I do my best to ignore her.?

This girl that I work with was rude to me from almost day one so I do my best not to look at her and try to stay away from her the best I can but she will sometimes just stare at me in a rude way trying to make me look at her why dose she want to bug me when I am trying to just stay away from her she is starting to get me very upset and one day I will say something not so nice to her if she keeps it up. She knows it bugs me but will still do it I think she is crazy.

if you hate someone like I hate her I think it would be ok to ignore her I could never see myslef talking to her it would make me sick and I could never forgive myself. I also belive she is married with a child so I find it hard to belive she wants anything from me but just to bug me.

2007-10-01 04:48:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Best friend has been divorced for over 5 years.
His wife and I were friends (w/ bennies) even before they
dated and eventually married. I even introduced them waaaaay back in the day. Out of respect for him, I have made no attempts at talking to her or anything. This past summer, we ran into each other for the first time in long time, probably over 3 years. We ended up going out to dinner, talking about life and just picked up where we were, like we were still best friends. Since then, we have had a tension and have hinted towards each other, but I still have this best friend protocal I'm living with. He has no idea that we're talking to each other.
Do I say screw it and bang her already or what???

2007-10-01 04:46:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and in this time period we both have had unsteady jobs so we haven't gotten engaged because we neededsomething steady.

It's been a few months now and we both have steady jobs and he's getting a regular paycheck but wants to buy a nice TV (which we already have) or other things which we really don't need. Meanwhile I'm thinking...you should probably buy a ring or something for me...we're finally at that point we've discussed where we'd want to start our lives together but he hasn't gotten the hint of BUY A RING with that money. His first thought tends to be anything technological. Any advise?

2007-10-01 04:45:02 · 3 answers · asked by flynn 2

im 13 ive been going out with a girl for 1 month and weve only just hugged for the first time how do i get her to kiss me on me kiss her.
plz help

2007-10-01 04:39:47 · 12 answers · asked by mr i don't know 2

SO I've had this guy friend for over 8 years, and I fell HARD for him immediately upon meeting him , Like a dummy I confessed my feelings & broke down crying; but he gently told me that he wasnt ready for a relationship tho he thinks the world of me & i'm one of his best friends..
The thing is we dont get together very often at all (at his choice) but when we do he somehow manages to get me in a position where I'm um, intimately touching him, which I LOVE but Now let me say that altho this must sound slutty I am not like this with ANYONE else. We've known each other 8 years now & slept together twice (he was my 1st) which I hold very dear & I wouldnt change what happened because I STILL love him to bits & see i always will. Before u say hes using me, I gave him the opportunity for #3 & he turned it down saying he was hurt i'd think that was all he came over for, he even cried a little. Is the intimatcy his way of saying he loves me tho hes not ready for commitment

2007-10-01 04:38:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

paying it forward......

2007-10-01 04:29:57 · 5 answers · asked by MJ 6

help! im scared!

2007-10-01 04:27:35 · 15 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

ok i moved very far away from my bf and my best friend asked if he missed me and he said no he also said that we had broken up.What should i do?

P.S. i really really like him!

2007-10-01 04:27:09 · 8 answers · asked by Haley G 1

I have this situation where ive been seeing this guy for 4 months on and off. It's basically fwb and he stays over once a week. For the past 3 weekends I have either text him or called him, only to get a voice mail and he doesnt return my calls until after the weekend. He tells me he has been taken his son on the weekends and not going out, when i call him its usually after 10 and you cant tell me his 2 yr old son isnt sleeping. I decided i would just keep him around until someone better appears but i'm finding it difficult to keep my emotions out of it. And i'm thinking he has another arrangement on the weekends. Why is it guys can handle these arrangements without feeling hurt? Do I just keep using him like he's using me? Should i not answer his calls during the week to see how he likes it? or should i just end it? Really, I know alot of you are gonna say get a back bone and dump him, but the s e x is really good. And no.. a vibrator wouldn't even compare. What should i do?

2007-10-01 04:24:16 · 3 answers · asked by Steviemercury 2

They say in true love you lose yourself..."the self" ceases to exist.To my mind this means heading for disaster coz if you hand over all the control to someone else then in today's world you are bound to get pushed around, misused and even abused.Besides I believe you got to love yourself first to be loved by anyone else.So does it then mean that we cannot afford to really love? and what do you do when there is a conflict between yourself and the one you love (or the one you think you love)?

2007-10-01 04:24:07 · 26 answers · asked by sunshine 1

I am can't get over my last relationship. We were super intense for 8 mnths. We talked about marriage, best friends. But near the end we were both going through really bad times and fighting constantly. So, I thought we should break up so we could both get our lives together and he reluctantly agreed. I ended up having a one night stand while we were apart and decided to be honest with him even though we weren't together. He freaked out a little but then seemed ok with it. Well, out of nowhere one day he tells me it is totally over. Then for weeks I am writing him letters and he tells me he is confused and needs time to think. Well, him pretty much hating me and blaming our relationship failing was too much to bear. And I ended up for weeks in the hospital. He said we'd have a nice talk when I was better. A month later I find out he has a new gf a sister of one of our friends. Now I can't hang out with our friends and he has completely moved on. I am a wreck.

2007-10-01 04:20:02 · 15 answers · asked by Princess V 1

i met this girl, her last relationship she was wit this guy for 9 years which he took her for granted and left her. i do not know too much details in this, she has been single for a while like probably 5 years. dated here and there but nothing serious. i like her, she seems very genuine and very nice, but when i go to hug her its like weird cuz she looks at me like if u can read her facial espression " what re u doing" so i back off but the next day she will call me to see me and all. she told me she scare to let loose cuz of the fear of being taken advantage she also told me she thinks too much and when she thinks it stops from doing things like for example she told me the other day she wanted to grab n kiss me but when she thought about it she stop herself, this is very confusing to me i like her and think theres potential but how can i handle this situation
what can i do or say
thanks if any one has been in this please share thanks

2007-10-01 04:06:27 · 16 answers · asked by simple J 4

2007-10-01 04:05:56 · 11 answers · asked by kissertoni 2

A bit of history.... Ty and I have been on and off for the past 2 years, we practically grew up together.. we've been talking, and we've snuck out to see each other...
I was talking to him on the phone and he said if I messed around with other guys it would make him mad. Is he implying that he likes me? To what extent would you go if you liked someone? Would you sneak out for them, if your knee was broken?

2007-10-01 04:03:15 · 12 answers · asked by ~Just_Jessica~ 3