Once you start having to force yourself to spice up your sex life, isn't it really all downhill from there? I hear people say that their sex life is still awesome after 10 yrs with the same partner, but aren't they really just lying to themselves? Don't we all know that sex is the very best it's going to be in the first few years of a relationship? You don't NEED to try and spice things up then, they are pre-spiced, ready to go. I'm sure I'm going to get a lot of answers saying that there are a lot of things a person can do to "keep the fires burning" but my point is that once you consciously start working on keeping those fires burning, you've entered into the downhill territory, haven't you? It doesn't mean you don't love that person anymore, of course. It's just that the sex is NOT going to ever be AS HOT as it was in the first years of the relationship. (Not that I expect that kind of sex now, 10 yrs later. I'm just saying it seems like no one wants to admit that the fire fades)
2007-09-28
19:49:05
·
16 answers
·
asked by
kneed2know
1