a guy said he is in love with me...in my apartments..i like him too..but i don kno whether i love him..he often talk about his friends..i can find that they are not that much good..he often comes and talks with me about studies mostly..and other things also..once i went to his house..he introduced to his family too..i dont kno..what to do..i don know whether this the right age to love..or is it wrong..i dont know it..please help...
2007-09-28 19:59:51 · 5 answers · asked by harie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is even very particular in asking me out..i said i cant come ...each time he asked me..because it may lead to trouble..but still he is again and again asking me for a date...
2007-09-28 20:04:52 · update #1
I have been in that situation, well the guys that is. i have done once, and the only thing he awaits is an answer. But the thing you should do is not rush things, u really dont know if u really love him. i really dont know the age to love, but its definetly not under 15. Introducing to a family is really big thing, bcuz parents keep asking about that person, for instance you. But the thing u should do is wait, and do what u think is right? love is not just looks. but if u 2 have common things, and enjoy to be around each other. and know how to respect with each other then its ok, but what u shouldnt do is lead him on, if u led him to love you, u finish it, and dont play him, bcuz the longer u wait, the more it will hurt if u say no.
2007-09-28 20:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ricardo G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, do you believe that you can really love someone that you don't know very well? Of course not so he's missing that boat. The "right age to love" is one thing in your culture, another maybe in his -- take care of yourself on this one. About his persistent asking you over and over, doesn't it make you a little uncomfortable? Well, he's saying that he cares more about what he wants than what you want and it will ever be thus. Say goodbye and mean it.
2007-09-28 20:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by nortonsuzanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i dont know whether this is the right age to love"
- why? how old are you? there is no right age to love. you could love from the first 'till the last day of your life.
take time to get to know him. take it slow and easy. love is patience. time will reveal the answers to your questions.
2007-09-28 20:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by todupam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his friends are "not that much good" he isn't either or they wouldn't be his friends. if you are wondering if this is the right age to love, it isn't. Don't be in a hurry to find love and when you do it will last a lifetime
2007-09-28 20:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don think love is wrong .............but de thing u must c whether truly he lovesss u or not oz, ur telling he is calling for dating ........!!!!!!!!!!!!!.... i think true love from his heart doesnt required any dating ;;;;;;;;;;;; any ways b care full in each n every step u take................ think aabout de future while taking any decission
2007-09-28 20:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋