Singles & Dating - 24 September 2007

in march my partner and i went through a very rough patch he lost his sister we separeted and he went wiv this other gal for a while (because she was just there apparently) we now are slowly makeing up we got two children and been together for five yrs do i try again witrh him or not?

2007-09-24 23:58:58 · 20 answers · asked by welshgal 1

We talked off and on for 3 years.. and I got a letter from Iraq, saying that this couldnt possibly work out.. I really just dont know where to go from here..
Please.. only answer if you're sensible and serious..
Thank you..

Brittany

2007-09-24 23:39:28 · 20 answers · asked by Brittany C 2

2007-09-24 23:36:39 · 6 answers · asked by kj 1

It finally all makes sense now, I never looked at it this way before: MENtall illness, MENstraul cramps, MENtal breakdown MENopause, GUYnocologist and when we have real trouble it's a HISterectomy. Ever notice how all these womens problems start with MEN.

2007-09-24 23:32:13 · 31 answers · asked by wondergirl 4

Okay, maybe you don't realize that you're presenting yourself as a sexual object. Yeah, you have the right to *Flaunt It* and ALL men have the right to look. You can't decide who can look at you but you can control what they think by controling what they see. If you don't want so much attention to yourself, tone yourselves down instead of making yourselves up.

2007-09-24 23:30:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let the ones you love go and if they return they are meant to be yours if they do not return they were never really yours to start with.

Please if you can also give reasons why you beleive this ie; this has happened to you etc.........

2007-09-24 23:19:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think? I'm in love with a woman whose completly amazing. I want to give her everything i've got but the fact that she's having another mans child worries me. Not so much the child but the part where the ex is still very much trying to be with her. I know that she wouldn't cheat on me, but I still don't like or trust him. I dont want my girl to think that I dont trust her, and I definately dont want to lose her. I want to marry her.

2007-09-24 23:18:35 · 3 answers · asked by Romeo 1

my boyfriend was going to thailand with his friends family for a hoilday l asked him if l could go and he said he`d love me to go with him.but his friend booked up the tickets and he said there wasnt enough tickets for me to come. l was upset by this.and the next day my boyfriend booked up an extra ticket for me. But then he seemed down saying that l dont trust him,to go by him self. but l do trust him,how can l proof this to him. l wanted to go to thailand cause l thought it would be a once in a lifetime chance,and l wanted to share it with him.
so why does he think l dont trust him,when he said that he`d love me to come?

2007-09-24 23:15:19 · 10 answers · asked by hunnybunny 1

i really like this guy, hes older than me (im 18, hes 22). i just think he is firstly the hottest thing eva, but we also get on well. i dont know how he feels, but there is a possibility he could like me too. we are both goin to this party on the weekend, and so i hav decided im goin to tell him my feelings, but i just want some advice on how to go about it cos im heaps scared of being rejected and looking like a real idiot. i really want something to happen, so how do i go about telling him i like him??

2007-09-24 23:09:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

is internet an advantage or a disadvantage...why? please do answer... and expand you answer i need it for my extempo speech tomorrow

2007-09-24 23:02:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

and am i ever going to love him truly ever again?

2007-09-24 22:57:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

they both are cute

she told me she talked to her mom about it and she wanted to do it!!!

2007-09-24 22:57:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-24 22:55:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

is virginity important to all of female ?

2007-09-24 22:49:51 · 22 answers · asked by reygan v 1

My boyfriend just found out that while we were broken up (during one of the many) 3 months ago I had sex with someone, they wanted a relationship but I didn't. It was just sex. Where as just 2 weeks ago he was totally "in love" with a chick he met online, saying "I'll love you forever, you make me happy!" and he was going to move to Japan to be with her..

To me its easier to have a one night stand than to tell someone "I love you"..Because I mean it when I do, it was a mistake on my half and I thought I already told him but I guess not! He flipped out and demanded I gave him a ride home or he'll walk (this is at 4:30am at my parents house for the night to add..) He ended up walking.
He said I lied to him, but I never did I thought he knew, and when just now I realized he didn't know I feel so bad..I wanted to explain to him but he threw it in my face how "easy" I am. But yet he can so easily say those words to any person? ONLINE? he's never met?
Whats your opinion?
What do i do?

2007-09-24 22:46:36 · 16 answers · asked by rainbowsandhell 2

2007-09-24 22:46:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been friends with this girl (very social condfident) for a few months already, not sure if she likes me or not but her behavior is a little odd to me.When we meet our conversation is good but she feels as though i'm hiding something like i'm not sharing everything bout my life. We normally call each other to go to the gym to play basketball, have dinner afterwards. I've never gone out with her to a bar when she's invited me because it's just not my type of setting. But she wants to observe me in different settings other than at the gym. One of the things that kind of scares me in a way is that she analyzes me and makes me feel like crap about certain things (i.e., small complaints, she feels our conversation is redundant and wants to talk about something else and wants more input from me). She feels as though our relationship is stagnant and has not gone anywhere.I can't read her but what are her intentions, why does she put effort into observing me and being straightfrwrd bout it

2007-09-24 22:43:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-24 22:32:47 · 8 answers · asked by mangolove 1

i found flirty txt messages on my boyfriends phone to a girl saying 'send me some photos, when am i seeing u again fitty?'
I went mad cos i am hurt and upset, i know he has not cheated on me but i cant stop thinkin that he would have done if i didnt find the messages, he says it was harmless and he did it because i was spending more time with other people than him. i dont know what to do now, i dont think i could trust him again after this. will he do it again when this has been forgotten about? but just hide it better? i have started being bitchy with him cos of it, if i stay with him then i might carry on being a ***** and things are not gonna work.
i dont know what to do, any advise?

2007-09-24 22:30:25 · 34 answers · asked by me 1

I have been dating this guy for a month and he wanna do it with me. I wanna ask if it's too soon? Should I tell him to wait longer? And I heard that guys don't really treasure the relationship if the girl gives him that too soon and too easily, is it true?

Thanks people.

2007-09-24 22:26:43 · 16 answers · asked by An ordinary girl 1

I am 44, DWM, she is 36 SWF, we have been dating for 5 months and our relationship is serious, we never argue, we never fight, and we do lots of things together. She respects my space and I respect her space, we really do get along famously. Now the problem, she recently spoke to her parents about me and they do not approve of her going out with me. I was married once before and have 3 childern, the oldest is 22, but they are all grown decent kids and out of the houseexcept for my daughter who lives with her mother and is 17.

Without her parents approval she doesnt want to go out anymore, what can I do or am I doomed??

2007-09-24 22:25:50 · 6 answers · asked by E-Man 2

My fiance and I just broke up over the phone because he's in New York and I'm at college in Oklahoma. It was so heartbreaking and we were on the phone for six hours talking about it. I was crying the whole time but I couldn't help it. I know he has been distant from me lately meaning he hasn't hardly called me and when I call him he says he's too busy and will call me back later which he never did. Tonight I just striaght up asked him did he still want to be with me and he said no and he was with someone else. I offered to forgive him for being with the other girl but he said no because he wanted to be with he since we were growing apart but I don't think so because I still love him and I told him that I couldn't picture myself with anyone else and I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him but he just said he was sorry. I don't think I'll ever get over it and now I can't sleep and I have a class in four hours! What should I do?

2007-09-24 22:18:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

corn dog. What is a corn dog please UK

2007-09-24 22:12:36 · 8 answers · asked by J M 2

well, i liked a guy in our school, just a bite more than a normal friend called Adrian, i made a huge mistake and wrote his name all over my table which he accidentally seats there and read it. he starts aasking other people. i just told myyy friends about this just for talk which ended up half our grade knowing everything. they even annoy me with that. adrian's friends found out everything about me and in 2 days he is gonno make so much fun of me like he gonno shout: hey do you like Adrian? and i can't deny it cause they already knoe but what should i say to piss this boy off and still be so good and i just want this whole thing to finish. what should i say if he asked me (adrian), do you like me? i am so confused and so worried about the thing that i'm gonno face in 2 days:((

2007-09-24 22:10:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am still confused about this guy. You see I am from the city, New Orleans, and he is from the country in Mississippi. He is also a few years younger than me, but not a huge difference. I am not used to guys jumping in head first, but this one appears to have.

He tells me that I am his "Fairytale Princess", and that he hopes he knows how to keep me happy. Everything I say I like, or don't like, he remembers. It is like he is totally focused on me, but not in a stalking type way.

I would ordinarily run, but he is my type as far as looks go and he has a nice sense of humor, which is important to me.

Give me some clues, please!!! What should I expect that will be different from the normal city guy. Could he be for real?

2007-09-24 22:09:47 · 12 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7

Hi. I have a question. I got my ex gf a promise ring over the summer. I broke up with her a week into school and never had a chance to give it to her. Its been lying around in my room for the past 4 weeks and I am taking her on a platonic date to a play this weekend. Would it be weird if I gave it to her? Also, should I make a big romantic deal out of it by giving a spiel about how she can always remember me by it and how we can always be friends or is that just sappy?

Just fyi I don't want her back physically, but I would like to keep a friendship going.

2007-09-24 22:00:38 · 14 answers · asked by matt 1

I'm dating a girl whom I really like but she's been pressuring me into telling her that I love her more than my first love. What should I do?

2007-09-24 21:48:02 · 15 answers · asked by Muhummad Ishak 1

Please spare me the warnings about not being careful of stalkers and other evil people. I'm well aware of these risks and the potential consequences.

I subscribe to a personals site but am largely disappointed with the available pool (keep in mind I live in a smallish community). I've found some women I might be interested in by searching profiles that have indicated they are there for "dating and relationships". But I'm worried about coming off as creepy if I just send them a message. Can you give me some advice.

Given these people have indicated they are there for dating and relationships and their profiles are public, do you think it's appropriate to contact them as a "stranger"?

2007-09-24 21:39:59 · 2 answers · asked by Justin H 7

I want to spend time away from my girl. I would like to spend a lot of time away but she's emotionaly unstable right now and would throw a tantrum. I asked for a week a way and even though she "let" me do it, she kept emailing and texting me even though I told her not to. She gets really emotional. I already know I'm just a gap filler for her, and that she's only with me cause she has a low self-esteem and doesn't think she could do better. She doesn't know she's one of the most beautiful girls out there. I spend everyday with her, and I want that to change. I actually want to break up with her because she doesn't make me happy. I tried that before but she got all suicidal. I mean, I love the girl, but I already know when she does get self esteem and starts hanging around other guys, bye bye me. What should I do?

2007-09-24 20:45:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at on a train one day and this overwieght girl asked me fif i wanted her phone number and would like to go out and i said str8 out no i don't own a phone my mate then said oh you can put it in my phone and i'll give it to later.Angry that my friend did'nt get the hint i just said str8 out to the girl i'm just not interested i felt bad that i had to break it to her but not only did she have no class and was overwieght but she was also really childish at like 18 yrs oldMy friend then turns to me and says your shallow man.I'm 20 now.This is going to sound coceited (maybe)but is it really shallow to not go out with girls form athey're apparance i mean i work hard on mine keep my hair and style fresh and also do my best to ep fit in the gym and its hard work damn right i want a hot girl for all the hard effort i put into stying in shape who else agrees with me or am i just shallow i really don't think i am who understands where i'm coming from?

2007-09-24 20:42:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous