Singles & Dating - 22 September 2007

i just feel really uncomfortable..im scared im going to get hurt or something, how can i stop this feeling?

2007-09-22 23:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 16, and although i've been asked out by some amazing guys (and some not-so-amazing guys) i've always turned them down. I'm waiting for my knight in shining armour... and i'm not wasteing my precious time on relationships that are immature (if u get what i mean)... I want to save my self emotionally and phisically for my future husband...

Does anyone else feel this way?! Remaining as pure as possible?!

2007-09-22 23:27:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Short & sweet ;any advise for writing tips that may entice the soul help?
I pray that the stars awaken you to sunlight. And that the moon sends you signals that your future looks bright. The sun warms you throughout the day and the rain sends you a rainbow to glisten your soul, because very soon destiny will be calling your soul to go within and listen.The end

2007-09-22 23:15:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-09-22 23:03:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The first day i ever saw her and she ever saw me in our lifes i asked her out she said yes. We met in college, im planning to take her to a quick lunch on our lunchtime. All i know about her is i like her and that she said it was okay to go out with me. Tommorrow hopefully i will take her out to lunch. I mean if we don't kiss i will not ask her to be my girlfriend on our first date, BUT say we do kiss with passion on our first date, should i ask her straight to be my girlfriend? Why not if we just kissed?

2007-09-22 23:03:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I talk to girls and keep the conversation going? I suck at both. Also, do girls like guys with light white skin or sorta tanned? What kind of cologne do girls like on men? Do you women always like guys to dress up or dress nice?

2007-09-22 23:03:01 · 3 answers · asked by kirr45 1

Me and my boyfriend broke up like two weeks ago. it was my fault i blew up his voice mail. We talked about our relationship ten days ago. he decided before we get back together we should evaluate our relationship and he well call me back later. Two days later he calls late night just to check in on be and to see how i was doing.
now it has been seven days since i last spoke to him. Is it normal not to call when your in the evaluation stage? should i just wait for his call?

2007-09-22 22:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

10 points what does this mean??
i sent a guy friend a message stating something about sex n we had been flirting for a but abiut 2 years and then he sent on eback saying im not that knid of guy? then with a wink smiley and a kiss? what does that mean that itis his kind of thing?

2007-09-22 22:56:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-22 22:55:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-22 22:51:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anton 1

I was raised in a really strict religion that I don't agree with any more, and I'm just now ready to think about starting to date. There's this guy that I think has liked me for a long time, but I've pushed him away every time he's tried to get close to me. I really have liked the guy the whole time, though, and he knows about the whole religion thing.

What's a good way to bring up the subject?

Should I even bother if sometimes when I ask him to do things as friends, he says no if he doesn't like the activity or has other things to do? (Does a guy who likes you usually drop everything to hang out with you?)

2007-09-22 22:48:28 · 6 answers · asked by Jane T 2

I'm 18, I'm slim and I'm nicer than most girls these days. I don't go out for the bad boys type, I don't go to clubs or bars or whatever. People outside compliment me saying I look pretty, gorgeous and they even compliment my outfits too. One guy said "sexy" in front of my face when I walked yesterday. Yet... no one ever asks me out? Why is that? It seems like everyone has a bf/gf so easily, yet I can never get one. :( What am I supposed to do to get one?

2007-09-22 22:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend and i were at the station once and i noticed her notice a guy that walked past her,...then i askd her if she was checking him out and shes said yehhh he's so cute...since that day we;ve been trying to get the guys email..name..etc but never got the courage to directly ask him....we;re graduating soon and he is a grade below us...so we finally got the email, but never see him anymore...and he never comes on msn...but he has a myspace...which my friend msgd him on but he never replied.(does this mean hes not interested...but he was the one who added her on myspace).. would it be to stalkerish to get his number and tell him my friend is interested...what else can we do...we dont have much longer maybe a wk and we mite never see him again?

2007-09-22 22:37:48 · 9 answers · asked by angelfire 1

I'm having a little trouble. I have two close friends. One is in a relationship and the other is on the verge of asking out this girl that he's seeing. Later on in the afternoon today, they might go do something. Since I'm like best buds with both of them they want me to go. And this is a special occasion because my friend who has a relationship is visiting town with his girlfriend. We're all 17-18 by the way. I know a girl that I can take. She's like my best friend. How can I ask her to go hangout and do something with my friends and their girlfriend/girl friend? I really like her too. I might ask her out soon. I just want some advice to find the best way to approach this situation.

2007-09-22 22:37:00 · 1 answers · asked by John P. 2

i jst want an honest answer to this.cz its rlly hard when u experiencing n having a hard time to sort this out n got no one to talk to.i need answers badly......

2007-09-22 22:31:49 · 5 answers · asked by hey 3

The txt: I'm beginning to think you dun want to do this anymore. dun say you dun have the time. Ppl make time babe, guess u can't. Let's cut the cord now, i've been more than patient with you. U treat me worst than a pet dog, i've been the best person i could. Nvr pressured or forced u to do anything. I put up wit all the drama, Waited 6 years and more. And wat do i get? You always come first with me, but i've never been more than an option for you. I've always compromised, by saying it's ok it's alrite. when it never was. i don't know wat more i can gve u. i've tried to tell u this over the fone, but u nvr pick up wen i call. i'm doing this for u, caz u're too damn busy to do it. Let's not delay the brkup. If u can even call it one. it's just not fair to you or me. I'm sorry i let you drag this for so long. I shuld've known better shouldn't have dragged it for so long. Hope u find someone who suits ur lifestyle. I don't feel you anymore,don't worry ain't gonna cry my eyes out.

2007-09-22 21:39:13 · 10 answers · asked by reena_nathan 1

i know this guy and i really want to have sex with him but i dont know if he wants to with me. we have done stuff before but never have had sex. what do i do, should i ask him or should i just go for it.

2007-09-22 21:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

How are you ? Thank you for emailing me . I feel lucky that you have emailed me .You are a great package and honestly you deserve someone who is kind and good and who will treat you nicely. First of all I am not perfect .Secondly I am seeing someone else .Sorry I hope I do not insult you or hurt you with this email .I do not want to hurt your feelings.

Bye

***I think that's a nice way of telling me I'm ugly.

2007-09-22 21:08:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you feel sexually attracted to a girl, what other things about her make you actually love her as opposed to just wanting a physical thing with her? This topic facinates me as I know that sometimes a guy would just like a sexual fling (or one night) with a woman. Then, what are the little extra things about a girl that would push you to fall in love (as opposed to lust) with her?

2007-09-22 21:04:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you men get scared when you meet a woman that you feel you could really really fall in love with? Would it ever stop you from dating her? I know it sounds stupid, but could it give you an overwhelming fear? Also would the fact that she lived in another state or country add to the fear?

2007-09-22 21:00:34 · 6 answers · asked by gentle girl 1

2007-09-22 20:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by rathish_jpl 1

I have posted several questions on this page...about the women it seems I keep meeting.

I broke up with Heather because I found out she slept with alot of guys. I think women that sleep around are like prostitutes that don't get paid, and I don't want them in my life, because they will cheat.

She was not honest with me from the beginning....she knew how I felt about promiscuous women, lied...then when she knew I was in love decided to just throw her "number" at me.

Women that answer my question keep saying " well how come it is OK when a guy sows his oats?..." whatever...don't you know it's wrong either way? Don't you hate the fact that people are so sleezy that the chances of you meeting the love of your life, and catching some disease it a huge probability?

Quit making excuses for scumbag behavior. Are we animals?

And no- I haven't screwed a ton of people- as alot of peoples answers seem to suggest.

2007-09-22 20:39:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

These older and younger women treat me like I am stupid. They say to my face sometimes. I dress nicely but not trashy like they do. They criticise the way I dress. I do not want any attention from men and figure why dress like that in public if I do not want that attention. At home I wear what I like.

They are single moms, some have 7 kids to 2 different dads and they criticise me because I don't have a boyfriend.

In time the right man will come to me but I am smart enough to know that men try and find girlfriends for sex and I only want that when I am married. I am a virgin.

They say I am backwarsd cause I like to listen more than talk in groups, till I get a feel for people and learn they are no threat. Then I speak more.

I have made some big mistakes but do not drink or smoke or take drugs. They say I am no fun.

Am I mixing with the wrong sorts of people?

Where can I find like minded people?

2007-09-22 20:29:18 · 13 answers · asked by Leah 1

tell me characteristics or signs?

2007-09-22 20:18:34 · 5 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

i have a threesome. and its a little different cause we all love eachother. its a relationship of 3 girls. we plan on having 3 way sex but dont know how. and we also want kids. should i ask a man that i know looking for a place to stay to come stay with us, and then maybe take some of his sperm and use it?

let me tell you about the threesome. theres me [sorry about my avatar, i accidently clicked male instead of female] michelle. and thens there betty, wow is she big boobed! and then theres is chantal. i really love them. when we sleep, we have no clothes on. and while im at home, i usually dont have clothes on. but its getting diffucult, and i really want kids. so does betty and chantal.

2007-09-22 20:01:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

It didnt work out with me and my guy, I have vowed that i would never speak to him again!! So now it has been a couple of months since. AND TO MY OWN SURPRISE I HAVE DONE A GOOD JOB OF IGNORING HIM!! But now all of a sudden he wants to ask me how i am doing, and even said you act like you are mad with me. I am still ignoring him. Why now does he want to talk to me even though i am ignoring him my answer to any of his questions are very short if any answer at all. He dosent need me women have always been crazy over him I have seen it with my own eyes!!

2007-09-22 19:57:17 · 20 answers · asked by latora_king 1

I know that they say that woman r suposed to hold back in order to keep a man but i just don't want to it is the whole woman=**** man=stud sinario...I want it tooo. but at the same time I am looking for mr.right. Is there a balance? Can I get what I want and still keep his respect?

2007-09-22 19:41:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-22 19:28:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's not like I was saving for some one special. It just never clicked. Lately I've been looking for some girls who would like to hang out with me, so far no success. I want to throw away my virginity, but I want to do my first with someone I can really like. There is this girl I've known since we were kids. We do have a thing for each other. I'm not sure if I should do it with her or find someone else. What do you guys think?

2007-09-22 19:16:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

THis is the second year at this new town. im a soph this year and I havent found a really close friend yet. Most of the people here have known each other since like the second grade and its hard to find friends who are willing to let me in to best friend territory. I know i dont need a best friend, but i want someone other than my family that i can confide stuff to who i know will keep a secret. i like this guy alot and i want to go out with him but be in a relationship that involves romatic friendship instead of just kissing around school like other couples.. i know its a weird question, but how can i get closer to him? friendship-wise. i have one class with him, p.e. he plays varsity football, i play b-ball, we both have 4.0's and he's really cute strong, and not immature one bit. how can i get closer to him??

2007-09-22 18:25:33 · 25 answers · asked by starstudded07 3