Singles & Dating - 23 September 2007

how do you meet friends/girlfriends outside of school? thats the only place i meet new people and im almost graduated and im worried i wont know anyone new

2007-09-23 23:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

who's sick of horny men? gosh, is that all men think about now days?

2007-09-23 23:27:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Trouble with it in the same way that some white men have trouble with black male/white female relationships? I was on a telephone dating/chatline thing the other day (I'll call myself a loser and save you the time) and this woman, who was white, had, instead of saying anything about hereself, recorded a greeting that was simply a rant about how nasty and ugly and pathetic she thought asian women were. I instantly thought to myself about what that woman, or any woman for that matter, might think if she had heard a man's greeting that was full of all the negative things he could think of about black men. I think any woman would be able to firgure out what motivated such an opinion or point of view. Also, I will admit that I find Asian women unfathomably more sexy and beautiful than women of any other race, and at times have confessed this to white women. Right away they try to pick apart what it is that is wrong with me that makes me like asian women.

2007-09-23 23:25:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

You may have seen my other question but anyway - I split up with my girlfriend nearly a month ago - we only went out for a month but we have known each other longer before. Well anyway we are still good friends, and I'm 'over' her so to speak, but I still want to be there for her and keep her close by.

Anyway! She showed me this ring while we were going out, just casually and when she showed me it I thought "I'm going to buy that for her!". Well - I still want to buy it for her, most likely give it to her for christmas, or just before because I think she's going away. Is it wierd for a guy to give a girl a ring as a gift? It wouldn't signify anything would it? I just want to do something nice for her =]

2007-09-23 23:15:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i have very low self-esteem everytime i walk outside i always think people are looking at me. Talking behind my back making fun of the way i look.. even though i know for a fact im not ugly, in all seriousness i would probably say im better looking than half to 3/4 of the people i see everyday, but i cant seem to convince myself enuff i tried every day in the morning saying im goodlooking i walk out couple hours later i feel like ****..Random girls come up to me calling me very cute, i get compliments from people i just met im cute, etc... but i always think their just being nice... This low self esteem problem has caused me to not have a girlfriend for over 3 years...man its not like im a virgin i got laid when i was 12....younger than most people...im just wow sad... what should i do any advice????

2007-09-23 22:57:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, so I want to get a present of a girl - a ring which she showed me a while back. But I don't know her ring size... so what would be a good way to get it without her suspecting anything? Since I want this to be a suprise =]

2007-09-23 22:50:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has moved state, we use to call eachother every night and what not... and now days just fade, we dont talk as much... due to our phone bills. We cant afford it calling eachother everyday.

Im scared.
I was told Long-distance brings people closer..
And then i was told theres no chance.

Which one is it?

Thanks

2007-09-23 21:53:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend said l could go to thailand with him and his friends family for a hoilday for two wks in april.but now hes just told me that theres not enough tickets of me to come although hes still going.
would you be upset? he said that he wont go if it means that much to me,and we can go on hoil somewhere else for the two wks. what should l do? was l right to be upset? l feel really unwanted. should l tell him go without me? or get him to take me esle where? l cried all last night over this please help me.

2007-09-23 21:30:16 · 24 answers · asked by hunnybunny 1

My boyfriend and I haveonly been together for a month. We met online...We talked for 2 weeks before I would meet him. When I did meet him it went great....The next day I had major surgery and he was at the hospital all 3 days with my parents....then when I got home he came every day but the nights that he worked. Then a week after being around one another he told me that he wanted to just be with me and I agreed because I really like him...Two days after that I met his family, which everything went great. He has been married and the divorce was finalized two years ago. Ok the main point the other night he told his best friend somthing about us, thenwouldnttell me....so last night he told me " Somtimes im at a loss because your different than any girl that I have ever beenwith in a good way. I'm used to girls acting and reacting in certain ways and you dont d othat.Its great because your the coolest and most understanding girl thatI have ever been with." How should I take it?

2007-09-23 21:25:48 · 9 answers · asked by MeMe07 2

but this girl just wanna talk to you on the phone...but right now im getting tired cause i dont know what to say to her anymore cause with dont even hang out...you really dont have anything to say to a person if you dont go out...but i dont know maybe she just want to take it slow...cause i think she still love her ex boyfriend...

2007-09-23 21:22:37 · 9 answers · asked by Jamsky 1

and i did really like him at first, and then i started to feel like i wasnt interested in him anymore so i ended it, but after i had i really regretted it, and i cant dtop thinking about him, bad thing is he has just started c'in someone else, i dont know what to do its driving me crazy!

2007-09-23 20:57:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I came to the office today, I saw the till was not closed, and the money in there was not put into the safe. I saw those things so I immediately ran away. I didn't know whether I should tell my boss or not because there's been stealing in my offices. I feared that she might be suspecting me of stealing money when the till was open. So I decided not to ring my boss. Then she came in with another staff. And I have not told her for the whole day. When I talked to it to my dad, he said I should not go to see the till and it's all my responbility for not telling the boss about it. I am not sure whether I should do now because it seems to me that it's now to late to tell her all this.....I am very confused and my dad said my boss is not going to trust me anymore...what should I do now?

2007-09-23 20:32:24 · 7 answers · asked by Denim 1

My ex boyfriend and I broke up 4 yrs ago (we were together 4 yrs). Since then, we've been in contact on and off just as good old friends. He lives in another continent. He broke it up with me cause he couldnt get his head around marriage and I felt one day Id like a child. Anyhow, thing is I was very close to his parents & even grandparents. Recently his mother was in my city for a visit and we met up a few times. She was raving at 'how glamourous I look' and took pictures. She invited me to visit them & stay in her place for a few mths. She wanted to know if Id met anyone recently. My exs 2 best mates have just settled down. A few days go she emailed meto say she had shown the photos to my ex and noe 'hes more & more interested in visiting the country I live in '. Am I imagining it or is she trying to get us married? Is this bizarre? Please opinions on this!!!

2007-09-23 20:31:28 · 11 answers · asked by profe 1

I'm staying with my fiance at his parents for a few weeks. We keep having arguments because I still talk to an ex he doesnt understand why I cant just drop everything from my past. He says he got rid of everything from his last gf but I've been tidying while he's out and just found sex toys belonging to his ex (at least I hope) should I say something or pretend I havent saw them?

2007-09-23 20:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by Debbie M 2

How come?

2007-09-23 20:21:13 · 14 answers · asked by Serba Tau 2

she seems to be thinking about something else, but when i took her home she asked me if we were going to go out again and i said do you want to and she said she had a good time and wanted to see me agian

so what is the deal

2007-09-23 20:20:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-23 20:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by The Answer 3

my ex-girlfriend means the world to me and i always want her to be happy even if she's not with me. She went through a hard relationship and she came out of that really hurt and i think thats why we didnt last every long together. And now she is beginning to fall for some one that i know will hurt her more then the guy before me did and i cant stand to watch her go into that again. I know a lot of people. so when i want to know something, i get my answer. you see me and my ex have been getting into it a lot about how she just thinks Im jealous of this guy and that I dont know what type of person he is and that he doesnt lie to her like i did, and i did lie to her but a did it so she wouldnt leave me but that didnt make it right. back to what i was saying, i wasnt going asking about this guy, but a couple people have already came to me and told me that he lies to her and they aint dating. But i don't know how to tell her to where she doesn't think im just trying to get her back by lying

2007-09-23 20:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by Alan L 1

2007-09-23 20:09:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

mind

2007-09-23 20:09:52 · 11 answers · asked by ashishplanman 1

and they say they have issues to work out, but you never get to know the Issue? This happened once before we even went on a real date, it was one of them match date sites. I know it bugged me,I wondered if the issue was a penis type issue! I personally preffer any rejection straight up and honest, that dont hurt, always wondering..that can hurt more I think.

2007-09-23 20:06:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-23 20:06:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've liked this guy for a while now and I want to stop liking him already! So I need help trying to get over him and please don't say to not get over him and i should talk to him adn stuff becasue its complicated and I just can't do that. So please give me what ever advice you have. Thankz

2007-09-23 20:00:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this girl for over 2 years, we always talk and hang out. We also have the same interests and enjoy doing the same things. We always pick on each other when we get the chance and always laugh at the others jokes. She never accepts help from other people but is always more than willing to accept mine. I have told her that i liked her before but she told me she didnt know me well enough, that was quite a while back and we have still hung out alot since then. I really need some help because i think she likes me but i may be wrong. thanks in advance!

2007-09-23 19:56:43 · 7 answers · asked by zkenpachi 1

im a guy, and im not young. im in high school, and im an upperclassman. i need help with making out. i have only made out a few times, and it was only for like 30 seconds at the most. it has also been awhile since i have and i never got the hang of it. r there any good sources that show precisely how you can make out? also is there anything that u can practice on thats not a person? ive heard something about fruit working, but i dont really know. suggestions please!

2007-09-23 19:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by Chris 1

with someone who does not speak your language. She is a foreigner, does not speak english. I really don't have time to study her language.

2007-09-23 19:52:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

please be honest. i have a boyfriend and i also have a guy friend that has a girlfriend. my guy friend and i like to chat-but our signifigant others don't know. i have a thing for this guy-is he just playing with my mind? should i stop chatting with him?

2007-09-23 19:52:10 · 18 answers · asked by cherie 1

i am a xi class student & i like a girl very much. i am not physically attracted to her.

i like her behavior, character etc
in short- i am very attached to her

i think she is the perfect girl for me.
but we are having friend-type reationship

what should i do?

2007-09-23 19:51:24 · 5 answers · asked by raj 1

I love her, but she tells me that she wouldn't go out with a person like me, because she doesn't deserve me. What should i do?

2007-09-23 19:47:22 · 13 answers · asked by Crises_In_Heaven 3

I mean the women who arent shallow, self-centered,and know how to treat a man ( who loves them, and makes them the center of his world).

2007-09-23 19:47:07 · 31 answers · asked by Mike 2