im a guy, and im not young. im in high school, and im an upperclassman. i need help with making out. i have only made out a few times, and it was only for like 30 seconds at the most. it has also been awhile since i have and i never got the hang of it. r there any good sources that show precisely how you can make out? also is there anything that u can practice on thats not a person? ive heard something about fruit working, but i dont really know. suggestions please!
2007-09-23 19:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suggest practicing on a girl. As for a reference any movie with a real passionate kiss scene. If you are having problems getting a girl, lower you standards. There is nothing wrong with dating a girl that is beneath you to get some practice. i know that sounds bad, but hey its true. There are always going to be people below and above other people. There is always going to be the hot and ugly people. Its not my fault, but still i apologize for stooping this low.
If you are an upperclassman try dating and underclassman. And whatever you do don't go all talking about how your not good at it, just go and do it. There more you do it you will find what works and what doesn't.
Also keep in mind that all people are different. What you like might not be what she likes. And what works for her might not be what works for the next girl. You just got to try different things out all the time with every girl you ever do it with. Now get out there and have fun.
2007-09-23 19:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even if fruit works, practicing on it won't matter, because the fruit doesn't kiss back and it won't tell you if you were good or not. All you have to do is be soft and dont force yourself, your natural instinct will take over from there. Also what would help the most is making sure you are making out with someone who you care about and who cares about you and not for shallow reasons, because if that person really likes you than your inexperience won't make much of a difference to them.
2007-09-23 20:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by projo963 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are still in high school, but you are not young... What did you do, get held back for a few years?
Seriously, you are young, whether you think so or not. What the hell do you need to know how to "make out" for? You looking to become a father before you even have the means to support a family? Get a job first, then worry about knowing how to "make out". Heck, you don't even need to learn it, anyway: It's one of the natural things a person already knows how to do -- and if you don't know, you won't be able to learn. "Making out" is not something that can be done while actively thinking about it, as if you were making a table. Sex is not always the end result of a male-female relationship, nor does it have to be.
There is no shame in waiting a few years, either, before having sex with a lady. Heck, the ones worth being with will most likely appreciate the fact that you did wait. But, if you absolutely must "practice making out", you should get yourself a copy of the "Kama Sutra" and learn how to please a woman.
At least then you will be able to please them sexually, if not emotionally. I really do think you should grow up some more, though.
2007-09-23 20:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by archerdude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't belive you are asking that
here, use wikiHow
Find a willing participant (guy or girl).
Have nice breath. Maybe avoid onions and anchovies.
Have chap stick or other lip accessories available - nobody likes chapped lips.
Give them that "come hear" look. It works really well for girls.
Have no inhibitions - if in public, pretend you're not, if in private, go nuts!
Take some control, but don't dictate how it goes.
Don't grope unless invited.
Use your tongue - it's hot.
Don't be afraid to try new things-keep it interesting!
Smell good - please bathe.
Do not open your mouth right away like you're going to eat them, open it slowly and slightly.
Run your fingers through their hair or stroke their back
It's common courtesy to swallow your own spit...
Don't do the same thing over and over again.
Don't bite unless invited.
Start off with a nice regular kiss on the lips; then slightly open your mouth and hopefulyy your partner will get the idea.
If your in public, dont go completely crazy so you make it obvious.. if your in private !? go crazy. what people dont know wont hurt them, right !?
2007-09-23 20:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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im a guy, and im not young. im in high school, and im an upperclassman. i need help with making out. i have only made out a few times, and it was only for like 30 seconds at the most. it has also been awhile since i have and i never got the hang of it. r there any good sources that show precisely...
2015-05-03 03:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its something that should come naturally and progressively get easier or become more comfortable. Theres no tricks of the trade to speak of, or any techniques... Its almost impossible to discribe how to kiss someone. All you can do is practise with girls that you like or that are attracted to you. If you feel close enough to a girl you have kissed, and your not too embarrased, ask her how it was? And ask her any tips on improving, cause without actually kissing you, its hard to determine where your going wrong. Chances are you kiss fine but you are just paranoid about it cause noone has given you feedback! Good Luck
Ps; If your really stressed about it, practise on the back of your hand... sounds weird but it gives you the idea......
2007-09-23 20:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. Is this for real? Guy, you do NOT need to 'practice,' on fruit or anything else.
Kissing is about enjoyment. Are you enjoying yourself whilst these events have taken place? 'Cus, assuredly, your partner's enjoyment is...PARAMOUNT during any sexual encounter. So, whatever you choose to do, enjoy it!
The only other advice you need is not to eat the girl's face off! LOL. Take it easy and go a bit gently at first. Start there and follow the enjoyment...there won't be any problems, I'll almost guarantee it. ;)
2007-09-23 19:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in such a hurry. It's not necessarily about technique as much as it is about sincerity for girls. You can practice on just about anything, but it won't prepare you for the emotions or the sensations you will have with a real live girl.
2007-09-23 20:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"making out' as you quaintly put it, is somthing that nobody can teach you. Be fortunate and understand that these are the years that you get to discover and experiment, do what is right for you, and do not second guess yourself, but know that what you are feeling is natural, how you respond isn't somthing that anyone can or should tell you. You will know when the time is right
2007-09-23 19:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Villain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... all these b***hes on here tryin to make fun of you... come on now. I may not even know what to say to you (because I have the same problem) but I am not gonna make fun of you. Unlike you though, I have only ONE experience kissing someone longer than 5 seconds. But I know this. if you find a good girl, she should love you anyways, but if she does, she will show you what you're missing if you ask her. dont worry and just ask her for help, cause if she leaves you for that, she wasnt the right one anyways.
2007-09-23 20:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋