Well, it depends..... A person who may seem shallow or self-centered to you may not seem the same to someone else. Nobody's 100% perfect, but all the men & women do possess something nice in them, but it may not be exactly what YOU are looking for...
I won't say it's easy to find that great match, But don't lose hope....If you're lucky, someday you'd find that great person who was custom made for you.
All the best!!!
2007-09-23 20:12:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Where have you been looking? And which ones have you been looking at? There are plenty of women out there who aren't shallow and who treat their men like kings. The problem is that men don't care about a "good woman," all they care about is someone beautiful (and those are usually the shallow and self-centered ones). Stop looking at the outside and develop an interest in the qualities you say you are looking for, which you'll only find on the inside.
2007-09-24 02:56:44
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answered by kathi1vee 5
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It's give and take. If you treat a woman well, she will treat you well too. It seems like you're asking for everything but are you also willing to make your girlfriend the center of your world?
There are really good women out there, there are good guys out there too. It may be harder for them to meet because they might not be as outgoing as the shallow, self-centered ones. Be open to girls who you may write off too quickly as being too quiet or shy or maybe not typically "hot." They are probably the ones you want to spend the rest of your life with.
2007-09-24 02:58:10
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answered by niteowl 2
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Lol, finding good women ( and good men for that matter) is like finding a cute shirt at ROSS. U gotta dig deep and spend a bit of time looking for what you want. I have found the older the more mature men and women make better mates. Anyone under the age of 25 ( for the most part, given a few individuals, including me :p that are an exception to this statment) are more likely to be self centered and shallow, the older you get them more you realize your getting older and don't want to die alone.
2007-09-24 02:57:33
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answered by fleur_loser 3
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Good question........ there are shallow people everywhere! But especially cities where fashion and superficiallity are promoted... Dont look for women in bars or nightclubs as they are the most insecure, and shallow girls ever. Look for girls through your mates g/f as she will recommend her nice single friends for you... Join a sporting team or some kind of club your interested in and there will be girls there with your same interests, then you already have common ground. But the best way to meet ladies is through friends, cause then you can get the low-down on them first and your friend will tell you if they are a nice person etc. Good Luck!!
Ps; The good ones are already taken... well most
2007-09-24 02:53:21
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answered by Anonymous
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I am a woman, who isn't shallow or self-centered!! I know how to treat a man!! Does it matter that I am fifty years old?? lol Good luck, seriously...there's some good women out there WANTING to settle down and get real. You'll find her.
2007-09-24 02:53:24
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answered by lookn_4_laffs 5
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You know why because men don't even bother to wait. For me, if im dating and this guy is expressing he wants to have a serious one, i will said okay i will think about it, then i will start measuring his patience, because you can see the true character of a person when you tried their patience, how calm they are, are they still thinking straight amidst the anger. And turning him down after a series of indescent invitation . . i told him if your intentions are sincere, you will let me call the shots on that matter, take it or leave it. . . . still a lot of turbulence i keep throwing his way . . he will get mad but still he said his feelings haven't change. . . and it overwhelmed me that i made up my mind that he is worth keeping, he asked me once how is he doing. . . i said you are doing great, and be prepared to be the center of my world.
In getting the best of everything one should be patient, like waiting for a cocoon to become a butterfly. You can never expect a woman to show all her emotions for a short period of time.
2007-09-24 04:37:50
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answered by cahlie 1
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lol here in canton ohio usa baby and i am probaly one of few who knows how to treat a man and love a man for them and not anything less or more. looks arent everything its not whats on the outside but what it on the with in the heart. so yea im a good one
2007-09-24 02:57:00
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answered by tommysgurl_4502214 2
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most likely you find women like that because you are obsessed with a certain type of woman (skinny blond perhaps?) there you Will only find shallow self-centered women, they are taught all of there lives that no one matters but themselves and they can do anything they want because men will always crawl back.
2007-09-24 02:53:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Go to the beach, and find a single mom who looks great in a swim suit and is a very good mother. Too many men pass up great women just because they have kids.
2007-09-24 02:55:35
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answered by Anonymous
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