Singles & Dating - 23 September 2007

Why is it so damn hard to get over someone who you loved so much but they just treated you like crap, why isnt it easy for me to say The hell with her instead of thinking bout her all the time?

2007-09-23 07:37:41 · 25 answers · asked by fast_or_slow127 1

The ex. is dating a midget and my 7 year old makes fun of him. Nice enough guy, but the midget is getting on my sons nerves and embarrases him, he doesnt want to be seen in public with the midget. What should I do?

2007-09-23 07:30:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have very dark skin n i dont think a lot of guys think i'm attractive 4 that. I mean when i was n 9th grade i used 2 get picked on ALOT because of my skin. they used to call me MIDNIGHT and when we watched a movie in my class, we had to cut the lights off and this boy was like sherry sherry where'd u go!! and everybody started to laugh. then i remember this one time i was taking a test and i had to makr down my race, one guy said what about Her (me) she cant put nothing down..CHARCOAL isnt on here lol. that was funny, but it was hurtful. and even though I'M THICK and i have a BANGING body and a FAT BOOTY( lol some say i could be buffy the body's lil sister) (so i've been told) lol, but a lot of the times guys dont notice me. i mean i think i dress nice n everything but they always seem 2 notice my lighter skinned friends and go 4 my lighter skinned friends than me. I mean i have a white girl friend who gets better looking black guys than me. i mean am i only attractive for my ***???

2007-09-23 07:24:56 · 10 answers · asked by 2much 4 1

2007-09-23 07:16:48 · 30 answers · asked by disillusioned 1

My girlfriend just got a job where she is on her feet for 6-8 hours a day at a fancy resturant so she must wear heels. So her feet kill her everyday. What can i do when she gets home to ease the pain. Please if this has evere happend to you where you were on your feet for along time what did you do. Any help would be nice!

2007-09-23 07:16:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

he was acting like he was about to ask me out, and i would TOTALLY have said yes, and then he turned up with a girlfriend and seems happy. I'm actually very glad hes happy, but I need to get him out of my head, its driving me crazy and just makin me sad all the time. any suggestions?

2007-09-23 07:12:01 · 3 answers · asked by GopherSister7 2

ok so if your girlfriend fell asleep at your house or when you were at her house would u look down her shirt?

2007-09-23 06:46:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok once again there is this guy named brent and i saw him the other day. We were talking and he was touching my hair saying how he loved it and how i look soo nice. ( We haven't seen each other in a while" The he tells me he wants to hold my hand walking down the street. e said he wanted it to look like i am his girl. Then i found out that my frind likes him. But then brent told her that he had a girl. He said that she was black, 5"4 and goes or either used to go to the same school as him. Which all siund like he is talking about me. Being that besides me and my friend we are the only black girls he really nows. My freind said that brent said that he dont LIKe me like but but everytime i am around brent he gives me special attention and wants to hug me or play around or hold my hand. Whats up/??

2007-09-23 06:17:10 · 1 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1

Given most of my posts; it's clear this guy was sabotaging the relationship but clarify why no balls to end it? And why waste nearly 8 months?

2007-09-23 06:03:35 · 1 answers · asked by inquisitive 2

i think they feel uncomfortable because they have less $$ than i do....they have mentioned to my GF that i spend to much on my car and house for my age...they don't even know how much i have...do u think it's the $$..i'm 28 and they are 50.

2007-09-23 05:45:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-23 05:38:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i tell for sure, i always see him with guys, and they "touch" each other. he has ALOT of guys numbers in his phone, and latley it seems hes not really interested in me anymore. help?

2007-09-23 05:35:31 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like no one wants me. & the same for my brother-it seems also that no one wants him. Neither one of us can find a mate.

2007-09-23 05:18:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

experts please? I had a two year relationship with a 24-year old. I'm 30. She did treat me like !@#$%^&&*() for the last year of the relationship, and I didnt do anything but treat her like the queen I know she is. I gave her a choice of ending the relationship and she took the bait because I knew something was up. She tried to change me into her own fantasy person, which I chewed her out on. After we broke up, she found a new boyfriend within 3 weeks. I am assuming and know that she had him on the side. Three times in four weeks after our breakup. She had called me to see if just to check up on me (I'm not a child) once, and to see if I was ready to talk to her and become friends (all three times). I told her "Mary Grace I will call you when I'M ready". I wrote her a letter telling her I need space and that I still care for her. Now she has an upcoming b-day, she will turn 25. Now I'm not going to be an @$$hole and forget about her b-day. But I'm doing this as a friend. So what I did was I bought her a half dozen roses the day before, had it sent to her b-day place the day of (this was yesterday, by the florist), where she was holding her b-day party (3 yellow, 2 pink, and 2 peach) gave her call on her cell phone (the night before her party), and this is what I said to her in a very smooth manner (I'm assuming that she listened to it and maybe ignored it)

"Hey its Erwin,
listen, i know that we havent spoken in the last three weeks, and that I told you that I will talk to you and call you when I'm ready. And despite what you have done to me in the past, I HAVE NEVER AND WILL NEVER HATE YOU. And I know you got a birthday coming up on Tuesday, so I just wanna wish you a happy and safe 25th bday. I'll tell you what, perhaps we can call each other some time, As a matter of fact why don't we talk sometime later this week. You have a goodnight. Bye!"
Okay so the "perhaps we can call each other some time. As a matter of fact why dont we talk sometime later this week" line may have been corny or too much for her. But thats how I feel


As she received the flowers, she was very receptive to it, by texting me, "Thank you so much for the flowers, they are very pretty". I responded. "You're very welcome. Happy 25th". But this was just for the flowers. I'm wondering about the voicemail message I sent her. I dont wanna push it. But I am also very curious, as to when a girl like her may or even may not call back? Does this actually mean, the lines of communication have been shut down for good? Or do I have to always be the one to start communicating. Like emails, phone calls, etc? Somewhere, down the line I do want to have some sort of casual breakfast/lunch w/ her if she is willing to do it. Her new man lives 30-35 minutes from her, while I live only 2 blocks from her. I do want to have her back as a girlfriend, but very subtly. Am I being crazy and unrealistic? Question is, how long should I wait for her to return my voicemail to me. I don't wanna push it but if I wait too long, I KNOW I WILL LOSE MY CHANCE AT BEING WITH HER EVER AGAIN. I'm an amateur when it comes to women. She was only my 2nd serious relationship.

I want to keep the lines of communication open again, see if there is any chance again. I just dont know how to go about doing it. Any advice or opinions?

2007-09-23 05:03:33 · 19 answers · asked by dem5pinoy 3

Okay the rumor going around about me is true but it wasnt supposed to get around but it has. How do i stop it?

2007-09-23 04:47:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I've been dating this guy who is a towering 6'3'', whereas I am 5'3''. Hugging him is so awkward because clearly he is much, much taller than me. My head reaches his chest so tiptoe-ing past his shoulder is impossible.

How can I position myself so that the hug won't be so awkward.
Thanks!

2007-09-23 04:43:53 · 12 answers · asked by natalie b 3

2007-09-23 04:43:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

it was just a minor fight.but the thing is,i always send him messages in order for him to understand me more n xplained things to him detail by detail.but every time he txt me back,he always give simple n short message.and sometimes he dont even answer the most sensitive qstions i asked him.infact he give me another answer and saying that i dont trust him at all.and he told me that he dont know how 2 talk 2 me anymore.but kept saying sorry.i dont understand guys alot.....i knew he loved me.but,he nver get the initiative 2 text me 1st.why does it have 2 be me all the time?doesn't he care anymore?

2007-09-23 04:30:44 · 2 answers · asked by hey 3

Hi

I am 25 and been seeing this lady of 35 from work for 3 months, she can be very hard work mood swings and snappy. Thats mainly because she has a low self confidence and had a ruff time in past with ex husband who cheated on her 4years ago, she having problems at work and is a bit depressed.

During these thre months she been up and down, which I don't mind I just try and help and support her. I have spent the last couple of months helping her out as much as I can, I do like her but recently went on a 10day holiday together.

During that time she was very whats the word not effectionate, I asked her whats going on. She said she fancies me really likes me, isnt using me and isnt messing me about. but didn't want to touch or kiss me on holiday and dosn't know why? but a few weeks before she did.

She said she wants me to hang on in there while she sorts her self out, but kissing some one is not a big deal no matter how down some one is and she did before we

2007-09-23 04:18:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 12 and i like older nude women and i like 3 older guys in the WWE and i like his boy in school wat can i do?

girls if u seem intrested in me contact me at plymouthlover011@yahoo.com or thebestplayer05@yahoo.com

2007-09-23 04:07:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

And had been talking to someone via email and phone, how would you feel about this person if she had sex with you upon your first meeting?

2007-09-23 03:48:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who was it wrote that book: "If I'm so wonderful, why am I still single?" Well, take heart. You are wonderful! Everybody goes through their unfair share of Mr Wrongs before meeting Mr Right. Being more self-aware will help.

2007-09-23 03:43:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend tells me that I require too much attention... do other girls want lots of attention from their significant other?

2007-09-23 03:38:29 · 17 answers · asked by Angel 1

2007-09-23 03:36:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-23 03:35:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in touch with a man for 8 long months, in a few times we became very good friends and he used to call me daily. Then a time came when I was supposed to go abroad 4 6months but he proposed me a day ahead when I was supposed 2 leave. I told him that I donot know what love is but I do care from u from the depth of my heart n if my parents agree then u would b the man whom I would like to marry, since u r my best friend. After I went abroad I used to keep in touch with him and even he used to do the same, everytime I used to care 4 him, he kept on saying me that he loves me, n I told I cant go against my parents wish, but if they agree I would like 2 marry u, n hence4th say u ILU after marriage since these words r only my hubby, but every time I used to care 4 him n keep in touch. But after I came back from abroad, suddenly he stopped calling me, I think he has got other gals as his friends, nor responded to my call, recently he went abroad, but did not even took a pain to inform me.

2007-09-23 03:35:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i go out with the sweetest guy i have ever met and my mom and dad just think hes not the right guy im a freshmen and hes a senior. so what age is just another number and we really like each other.

2007-09-23 03:32:32 · 13 answers · asked by we make it good. 1

Can a gal get pregnant if she has sex with a guy but he's wearing a condom but the condom breaks slightly on the mid side and he doesn't ejaculate?

2007-09-23 03:32:12 · 20 answers · asked by Bi 2

What percentage of the women who presently find David Beckham attractive would still feel similarly if he.....
had never became a famous footballer?

You may feel free to elaborate, but I would prefer just a figure

I personally say 20 per cent, he is one of the most overrated looking guys of all time tbh, he is so feminine and geeky

2007-09-23 03:29:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

need solid Answers

2007-09-23 03:19:36 · 6 answers · asked by Dead Man 1