Singles & Dating - 27 September 2007

What if you are ex-lovers?

In the case where you were the one who was dumped, and you still have feelings, but your feelings are no longer reciprocated...

How does it make you feel after having sex in this case?

And in general, how do you feel after sex with someone you love, but who does not love you back?

Is depression a common reaction? Does it have to lower your self respect, or is this not necessarily the case?

2007-09-27 23:52:01 · 5 answers · asked by risono2166 1

2007-09-27 23:47:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this boy that i have been seeing we use to meet up regularly and he use to call and text me all the time and so did i. Now all of a sudden he does not text or call and he wont answer any of my texts i dont understand why because we didnt have a row or anything, i really really like him though and i cant stop thinking about him and its beginning to do my head in. I dont understand because he seemed like a really nice person and i really liked him. I also text him saying if you have lost interest just text and tell me and we will leave it but he didnt even answer that and thats the most frustrating thing because i just want an answer and he wont even give me that and another thing i dont understand is why you would lead someone down the garden path for months and then just stop all contact at all without any explanation, what does it mean, PLEASE HELP!!

2007-09-27 23:44:43 · 14 answers · asked by leighanne1232 1

I've been seeing this girl (31, Divorced, 1 child) for 9 months. I treat them like they are my family. At first she told me that she doesn't see herself with a "heavy" person. I thought she ment someone like 400lbs. She ment me--I'm 5-11 220lbs with type I diabetes. If any of you know Its hard to maintain weight, regulate diet and blood sugars. Anyway our relationship progressed as if she never said it..we did everything together as a bf/gf or even being married.. Her son fell in love with me and even calls me "Daddy Todd" His dad is in his life weekly but I guess he really likes me. I change his diaper, read book, feed him, give him a bath, say prayers and put him to bed. His Mom says "Your a great friend Todd" Like kicking me in the nuts. She has needed cash, I've given it to her. But the big thing is she is a devoted Christian and works at a church. You wouldn't think someone would be so judgemental. She had a bad marrige 7 long years of being unhappy and not satisfied..

2007-09-27 23:40:52 · 9 answers · asked by wingslevel1977 1

married. on my 1st visit the mum couldnt get enough of me she loved me to bits. on my 2nd visit she was alright until 2 days b4 i had to leave she started being quiet and distance so i left her to it as my bf didnt think i did anything wrong. when i was leaving she didnt even get up to say goodbye but she was talking to me normally when i came back i rang her and confronted her i asked her she had a problem with me and she replied no and that the prob she had was within the house and she felt miserable in life. but when i was in italy she did say that i should know her character and that if she had a prob she would tell me there and then. so when i called her again and asked again she said no and that she has a big prob and its her own prob. my bf advised not to keep asking her otherwise it wud create a prob. when i spoke her one night ago i was ringing for 2hrs and she never answered and the l8ter when i rang she answered and we had a gud laugh. so am i worrying for nothing.

2007-09-27 23:05:29 · 4 answers · asked by sexy babes 1

doesnt like me anymore after I stopped kissing her butt the first time we dated. Well she got her bf's sister who is my bfs mom to turn against me when this all happened. The so called Aunt said I became this liar and everything which was not true she was just mad I stopped kissing her butt. Well she even went to the point of breaking my bf and I up. Now that we are back together and he is living elsewhere she is still trying to wreck us. The other day she turned one of the Grandmas away from me. The Gma used to like me but then Jana found out and ran her mouth about me and things that werent true so now the Gma doesnt like me. Well I am getting stressed about this. Id really like to talk to someone about this problem. If I did could I end up suing her for emotional stress and making her pay for it? Check out my other question as well. This lady is ruining the family because she is mad and won't stop until my bf has no one left in it to talk to. His own mom included.

2007-09-27 22:51:06 · 3 answers · asked by garber_jamie 1

OK here's the thing when i deep thrust my GF she says it hurt alot and says my Penis is too long for her.....Is this true plz...Guyz help me out here.....Or is it somethin wrong with her Vagina..?...o and by the way she is a asian Girl...with a cute small body......

2007-09-27 22:26:18 · 12 answers · asked by gu7i 1

recently i lost my virginity and we use protection allways! but i dont know why this happens to me! whenever we have sex he allways finishes or should i say has an orgy but me....NOOOO i feel the same and the wish for more sex is just getting bigger in me! i dont understand why. plz give me an advice what should i do to get and orgazam too...i really love my bf but ... :S tnx anyway 4 your time kises:)

2007-09-27 22:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-27 22:16:06 · 13 answers · asked by Bill 2

2007-09-27 22:03:03 · 4 answers · asked by Bill 2

my ex was 20 and i was 21 when we started dating and lasted 3 years. we had a great relationship and lost his virginity to me. our relationship made people sick cuz it seemed perfect. he told my step dad he couldnt see his life without me in it. he even got me a beautiful diamond ring. last oct we broke up over a dumb argument that escalated. we got back a week later to work things out but broke up next day. well during week split he met a girl at a bar. a month later (nov) he called me telling me they were engaged. i had no idea he had met anyone. we got back in dec cuz he said she was psycho and said he loved and missed me but was seeing her behind my back so we broke up new years eve. i saw him in may and he bought me roses and we kissed (they were having problems). they are still together and are getting married aug 2008. he was my first true love, did he really not love me like he claimed?? he hasnt known this girl for a year yet (know that for a fact) and he's gonna marry her.

2007-09-27 21:57:23 · 10 answers · asked by BBONKERS 2

This is a question that comes up quite a bit in my conversations with students, friends, etc.. I am in the process of doing a lot of soul-searching and re-evaluation of my past relationships. There is a part of me that doesn't want to believe this common belief, but I have to admit that my best relationships in the past have been with men I had no interest in at first, but who enjoyed pouring on the romance and friendshp and getting me to change my mind. On the flip side, I also see this pattern of men either disappearing without explanation or putting a lot of distance between us as soon as I let them know I like them too and want to spend more time with them. I have found this to be esp. true of men in big cities like NYC. What do you think is happening here? If a woman nowdays has to play "hard to get" in order to get a man, then that leaves me out of the game. It goes against my principles or beliefs to lie, hide, evade, manipulate, or play games. Thoughts?

2007-09-27 21:54:12 · 10 answers · asked by Indi 4

do yu have to dress up. like put on suit and tie. or go in casual dress?

2007-09-27 21:41:57 · 7 answers · asked by I have brains for tonsils 4

During a weekend away with friends this girl I used to fancy asked me these questions:

1.How do I feel about her
2.If I fancy any girl at the mo
3.Am I sleeping with any girls/slept with any girls recently
4.Who are these girls I've met recently

We kept hugging each other continuosly-kisses on the neck/cheek etc (no snog!)

I told her she wanted to be friends only-so thats what we are.I asked if she wants that to change - NO ANSWER - WHY?

4.She says I'm too good for her - MEANING?

She then says she wants to spend the night with me - I said not for 1 night - then a major argument about 'US' starts-we both say hurtful words to each other

She continued to ask me this the next day(how I feel about her).Before she went on placement I told her how I feel.2 WEEKS later she responded but didn't say how she feels-she completly ignored what I wrote.No contact since.

Why did she ask this??? Advice

2007-09-27 21:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2

realtionship. Just as well she was just too tempting. What do you think of people (romantically speaking) who get too close too quick.

2007-09-27 21:36:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, ive got this guy friend i've known for 9 mths.. we get along well. we can talk for hours, text for days. he tells me lots of stories about his school and such. and asks alot of questions about me. he'd joke around if possible, even confides in me about issues he has..

we don't have a chance to speak in class, but he looks pretty often. at first,when i caught him, he'd look away.now, he holds my gaze..but i look away. and he doesnt dare have physical contact. he mumbles alot when he talks actually, and when i speak to him, he gets tongue-tied..

i went to his orchestral concert,he was staring alot onstage. changed his bus route for mine, he made like he wanted my no and such, took out his phone but put it away. whenever his guy friend talks to me in class, he'd stare at us awful long.

classes are ending soon.. and i really wanna ask him out. would i fail?

2007-09-27 21:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by Nat 2

My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago, and he didnt give me a good reason at all... and didnt call or email once after that break up... i was devastated but have been pretty good the past few weeks, and the the past few days I cant control my emotions... and I actually just found out a few hours ago he is with someone else..
I just feel like its so unfair, i loved him so much, I didnt do anything wrong, he found someone he prefers more than me, and I'm the one suffering??? why is this fair? I did nothing wrong!!
And I feel like emailing him telling him "HA I FOUND THE REAL REASON YOU BROKE UP WITH ME!"
but knowing him he wont even respond..
its not fair! he has already moved on to a better version of me while i'm still crying over him... and I cant help it... i know they say if a man makes you cry, then he isnt worth crying over, but its hard bc its like "why not me? why her? and why not just tell me you met someone new instead of blaming the breakup on me, which made no sens

2007-09-27 21:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by Cookie 3

2007-09-27 21:34:01 · 2 answers · asked by robert r 2

what will i do???....im falling for my x...

2007-09-27 21:31:19 · 10 answers · asked by dess 1

stil think bout this girl even though its been months, wat do I do?

2007-09-27 21:30:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

1) Decent Girl
2) Indecent Girl
3) Slutty Girl
4) Available Girl
5) Wife
6) Girlfriend
7) Player
8) Exciting Girl
9) Cheap Girl
10) Sweet / Cute Girl

2007-09-27 21:28:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

That I didn't tell my boyfriend that I was a virgin before he and I had sex? The thing is that we talked about sex and I didn't make myself seem like I was a virgin. So I just decided not to tell him I haven't had sex before. He never asked. And I never told him. But I think he was assuming I wasn't a virgin. He probably was positive that I wasn't because of the way I talked and how much stuff I know. Plus I'm too old to be a virgin. I didn't bleed the first time because I do insert stuff when I play...

Do you think it's like I'm lying? Is it ok if I don't tell him?

2007-09-27 21:25:20 · 14 answers · asked by A 2

i am 17,good looking but i have not been in any relationship due to my academic priorities.is sex as beautiful as it is brought upto be?how is the first time for a guy?are bisexual thoughts normal for guys when masterbating?

2007-09-27 21:20:42 · 6 answers · asked by the sandman 2

I honestly hate my man's ex girlfriend. I guess its bc he really liked her and I'm almost always comparing myself to her, in hopes to be better. but now I cant take it anymore, like I wish she fall from the surface of the earth lol.
But now im thinking, maybe i'll stop stressing about her if I make peace? Should I just confront her and get over my obsession by being kind to her? She hasnt done anything to piss me off besides exist lol
Maybe I'll find peace of mind if we become friends...or will it make things worst, maybe I'll get to know her more and it will make me even more obsessed about her past relationship with my man.
OMG help me

2007-09-27 21:15:34 · 11 answers · asked by Gwen 3

2007-09-27 21:15:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend have had sex 2 to 3times before but he asks me not to be shy he asks me to be wild. He wants something more from me. I cant understand wat to do. how i should perform that satisfies him. how i can show i am wild. how can i be wild

2007-09-27 21:14:40 · 3 answers · asked by llliiiyyy 1

2007-09-27 21:13:20 · 8 answers · asked by aussie_gurl 2

So ya ex girlfriend dumped me i got all depressed realized I am better that her etc...

So just wondering I remember asking her why she left me for her ex of 3 years. she said she was in love with him, but this girl cheated on him with me, and from what I understand cheated on him like 5 other times with other guys. So ya I made a mistake on having feelings for her I understand this.

But is that love I mean she says she loves him, but she cheats on him??? She is 18, I dunno your views Please its a very interesting topic

2007-09-27 21:11:32 · 2 answers · asked by mover1799 2

We've been together for 4 years, and i'll catch him from time to time checking out another girl. He used to do it a lot when we first started dated, fortunately he's kinda stopped doing it, or maybe he's gotten better at hiding it lol. But it really pisses me off, like how could he admire another girl, like i'm not good enough for him. I'm so jealous, it makes me feel like crap and like i'm ugly when he checks other girls out.
I may look at a guy or two, but not often, and I just look real quick, I dont imagine myself in bed with the guy, but I feel like my man gets sexually attracted to girls he finds pretty.
Am I just paranoid, how do I get over this ??

2007-09-27 21:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by Gwen 3

I'm 17 and i've been with my bf for a year and i love him but he has 2 other girls that he is really good friends with. He hangs out with them almost as much as me and i try to be as understanding as i can. I know he hasn't cheated on me and i dont think he ever would but it just hurts a bit. I dont want him to not see them coz there his friends and i want him to be happy. But i dont know if i can keep pretending like it dusnt bother me at all.Yesterday he didnt even tell me he was hanging out with one of them and he was late to pick me up coz he was with her. It really hurt. I'm not good at confrontation but shoud i speak to him???

2007-09-27 21:00:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous