my ex was 20 and i was 21 when we started dating and lasted 3 years. we had a great relationship and lost his virginity to me. our relationship made people sick cuz it seemed perfect. he told my step dad he couldnt see his life without me in it. he even got me a beautiful diamond ring. last oct we broke up over a dumb argument that escalated. we got back a week later to work things out but broke up next day. well during week split he met a girl at a bar. a month later (nov) he called me telling me they were engaged. i had no idea he had met anyone. we got back in dec cuz he said she was psycho and said he loved and missed me but was seeing her behind my back so we broke up new years eve. i saw him in may and he bought me roses and we kissed (they were having problems). they are still together and are getting married aug 2008. he was my first true love, did he really not love me like he claimed?? he hasnt known this girl for a year yet (know that for a fact) and he's gonna marry her.
2007-09-27 21:57:23 · 10 answers · asked by BBONKERS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he had a lot going for him and his family loved me. this girl is divorced, 2 kids from two different guys cuz she had an affair, use to be a stripper and has tacky tattoos all over her body including her arm. she is really trashy! i am successful, live on my own, no kids, his family loves me, beautiful and can take care of myself. why would he give me up to her?? we also traveled 2 to 3 times a year with eachother or one anothers family
2007-09-27 22:00:38 · update #1
I'd bet two to one that she does things to him in bed that you did not do.
2007-09-27 22:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, whatever said & done it's not that easy to forget someone you've been together with for 3years.
I'm sure he truly loved you & probably still does. But sometimes, when it's so hard to get over someone people do crazy things. It may not seem irrational later on, but at that time all you want is to get over the hurt & pain. You tend to become selfish & not think about others.
So, don't ever doubt whatever you guys had & shared. True...... it's unfortunate that you can't be with him.
But that's how life is, you can't always have what you want & what you get may not always be the best you could get.
So, try to focus your concentration on something else & move on. Meet new people, find newer things to do. Enjoy your time on your own.
Don't look for love right now coz you need to get over him first.
Take your time....You'll be ok.
Take care.
2007-09-27 22:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Love Lost, I'm sorry to hear your story, though a common one. So many times we don't know what we've got til its gone. Its clear that hes' made a mistake. But please don't make one yourself. Don't let him run to you when things go wrong with him. Sure you might know him like no one else and sure you still love him, but don't do it.
Your a great catch and you deserve unconditional and undivided love and attention.And though you might think you'll never have a love like this.Believe me you will and it will be so much more that you imagined love could be.Adios y buena suerte ;-)
2007-09-27 22:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by mividacristiana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you were his first?.....He is a man !!!, cant stop at one.........I'm sure as you were his first he wanted to experiment some more.(having gained a bit of confidence in the bedroom department) I do believe he loved you, god, you gave him feelings and emotions he had never felt before,you were his first love but now, someone else is giving him that but a bit of variety, and she wont be the last (marriage or not), but just know you will always have been his first and hold a special place in his heart. Who knows, after he has sown his oats, he might seek back his first love, but dont wait for him....just move on, if its meant to be it will happen...
2007-09-27 22:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by aussiechick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's playing mind games with you! Every time i get in to fight with the girl hes with, He come running to you! Y? If you keep let him in to your life your giving him the green light to hurt you. Over and Over! But i understand, My ex do the same thing! Every time he feel that he cant do it anymore with this girl hes with. He will call me,( And I'm Still In Love With Him) So i have to act that i care! When i want to tell him to stop bothering me with his problem! So it been almost 3 days the last time we saw it each! It hard as hell! But that when i knew i had to let go! And that's the hard thing i had to do! it killing me! not being able to talk to him our b in hes arms! There was one point in the whole he did love you! But it time to let it go! Its not good for you! Gd luck
2007-09-27 22:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am shocked at how guys can be so stupid, honey I understand you and you know what I think, I think that he always loved you, and he still loves you and he will love you forever. he will realize that someday, but I think that you will be married by then and he might wanna go back to his ugly wife.
keep your mood up and enjoy your life
and remember that you are a great person
much love and respect
2007-09-27 22:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by LG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wake up girl..... hes playing you like a guitar..... he will find someone then broke up just because he doesnt like the girl then goes back to you?? what are you ... a piece of cloth? if I dont need you ill just leave you there.... then get you if i needed you?
aw.... thats the problem when you give everything up to a wrong person....
by the way its not how long the relationship past... its how fruitfull it become....
2007-09-27 22:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault that he does not know what he wants, but it is your fault to continue to give him the opportunity to run back and forth from women to women.
Don't take him back. He does not respect you and has moved on to another.
He prob did love you in his way but there is a better, truer way to love and this is NOT it.
Move on or be used, your choice.
2007-09-27 22:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hon i'v been where u r ,u got to go on cause thats the pass .you'll find someone hopefulley not to soon! you need your time for you ok just smell life,love and live.
2007-09-27 22:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by burns1700 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously this guy is confused. he doesn't know what he wants. just move on find someone who won't leave you questioning your relationship or your feelings for each other.
2007-09-27 22:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by sarajamesss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋