recently i lost my virginity and we use protection allways! but i dont know why this happens to me! whenever we have sex he allways finishes or should i say has an orgy but me....NOOOO i feel the same and the wish for more sex is just getting bigger in me! i dont understand why. plz give me an advice what should i do to get and orgazam too...i really love my bf but ... :S tnx anyway 4 your time kises:)
2007-09-27 22:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanx a lot for the sugestions i promise i'll do everything ya'll told me ...tnx again kisesss xoxoxoxo
2007-09-27 22:42:58 · update #1
What a BIG EATER you are?
Let him have some stout or beer before you all get on the job!
This will buy him some times.
Ask him to take his time....don't just ram all the way......just like when you are driving, you got to stop at traffic and slowing at junction. Stop thrusting and some foreplay in between his journey. Again this will buy his some more times.
Try the 69 .... this again buy you more times. Take his time to do it and enjoy himself! he is do doing the 100m dash! SEX is an ART!
2007-09-27 23:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by FIXIT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take the time to talk about it.
Feeling nothing when having sex is not how it should be.Most women (or every woman) have a certain point in their clitoris known as the G point.If you experiment with your boyfriend,you will find (more or less) the movements while having sex that can make you feel not only something,but can really turn you on,make you experience this orgasm.Your boyfriend should be willing to take the time with you to find the right movements.Maybe he thinks that when he has an orgasm,you do too.That is wrong.
Convince him to "play" with you on that,and everything will be OK.
2007-09-28 05:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by sdim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mainly that happening because of your curiosity. At the time you are engaged in sexual relationship, your mind will be checking on whether you are getting orgasm or not. That mind will deprive of enjoying the actual pleasure from the relationship. Adopt a "just do it"policy. Take you mind out of checking process and be with your other part in all sense. Everything will be alright
2007-09-28 05:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Surettan S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, tell him he need to devote alot of time to u, not all penetration if he cant, he can do that ( tell hi mto do that ok??? )
1-tease u for long time ( hour or more if possible)
2-focus on u only not himself.
3-Let him eat u.
4-play with u everywhere.
5-talk dirty in ur ears.
6-rub u, and dont make u ***.
7-and when u r wet, he can get in u.
8- he cums, start eating u again till he get another erection and he gets in u again , he wont *** quickly.
9 TELL HIM, take ur time with me.
10-Tell him to have u all day for just playing and making love.
( roleplays are good, dildos, vibrators for u, anal toys )
TELL HIM TO MEAN IT when he do it , else it wont work.
hope it works, tell me.
2007-09-28 05:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by michael 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's really hard for a woman to get an orgasm, everything has to be right in order for her to get an orgasm, one little mistake and you won't get an orgasm.
it's normal, don't worry
just talk to your bf and tell him what you want him to do to you during sex, so it will be more passionate and maybe even kinky, and that might turn you on really bad and you can do many kinky things and you will have an orgasm.
good luck
2007-09-28 05:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by LG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k, so my friends and i are really comfortable talking about sex..
and so....
one of my friends hasn't had an orgasm yet...although she does have sex and all, sometimes it just isn't hitting the spot (trust me i know what you mean). so..
one of my friends gave us a bunch of suggestions...
you could watch porn (either with him or without him), play with yourself before you guys have sex (so you're already kinda...going) or you guys need to have some really good foreplay...try it out
2007-09-28 05:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by lilo_girl_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think you must have a discussion with him, ( he must no t make love as if he is riding a horse , he must go on slowly with his hands , mouth and at last bit, buy a kama book for him, so that you can explore new positions
2007-09-28 05:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by heartbreak kid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men most of then they just think about them selves any way,but now there r some that do right! that's the one u need.dont stop looking keep on looking.....your'll fine them yeah!baby have fun.and you'll get many big ones....have fun!
2007-09-28 05:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by burns1700 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to safe more time for forplay...Why not 69 each other and stimulate yourself a bit?
2007-09-28 05:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by jancoetzee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is to get him to prolong the foreplay session before the intercourse.
2007-09-28 05:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by Vince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋