During a weekend away with friends this girl I used to fancy asked me these questions:
1.How do I feel about her
2.If I fancy any girl at the mo
3.Am I sleeping with any girls/slept with any girls recently
4.Who are these girls I've met recently
We kept hugging each other continuosly-kisses on the neck/cheek etc (no snog!)
I told her she wanted to be friends only-so thats what we are.I asked if she wants that to change - NO ANSWER - WHY?
4.She says I'm too good for her - MEANING?
She then says she wants to spend the night with me - I said not for 1 night - then a major argument about 'US' starts-we both say hurtful words to each other
She continued to ask me this the next day(how I feel about her).Before she went on placement I told her how I feel.2 WEEKS later she responded but didn't say how she feels-she completly ignored what I wrote.No contact since.
Why did she ask this??? Advice
2007-09-27 21:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She also said we should lose contact - WHY?
She has been hurt in the past and has suffered from other personnal problems which have affected her self esteem/confidence.
She really opens up to me tells me everything - but no one else!
2007-09-27 21:41:43 · update #1
she's scared that if she does go with you she'll end up wrecking the friendship or hurting you like "She says I'm too good for her"
but she does like you otherwise she wouldn't be asking you all those questions.
the best thing you can do is show intrest but give her time to realise that it could work out.
if she still acts the same tell her that you want to know how she feels and if she wants something to happen and that you are putting your life on hold for her but you don't think you can do it any longer.
sorry couldn't help much.
2007-09-27 21:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me it sounds like she really likes you but isnt so sure if you feel the same way. that is the reason she keeps asking you. she doesnt wanna sound like a freak if she asks you out and you dont even feel the same way.
since shes been hurt many times before she doesnt wanna get hurt again. she may believe its better for you two to lose contact that way she wouldnt get hurt if she saw you with another girl.
if you like her then tell her. girls love it when the guy makes the first move. tell her over a romantic dinner or give her an invitation to go on a surprise date.
all these questions are indirect signs that she likes you. she wants to know what you have done in the past and she wants to be better than those girls. tell her that you would love to spend the night with her but when the time is right. say you want the moment to be and feel special so you both can enjoy it.
good luck!!
2007-09-27 21:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Sher♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the type of girl you're talking about. If she's well-known to have plenty of boyfriends etc... then I'm sorry, it doesn't mean anything. If you knew her not long ago.. in fact.. for only a while.. it can mean she's toying with you. If you knew her way back.. and only recently she's behaving like this.. then yes.. she may be interested. If she's upset about something, and did that.. it may mean nothing... All the above counts for sth... so only you will know what led to this little act....
2016-05-20 22:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has been hurt so she is afraid to commit into this relationship but on the other side she enjoy the kissing and stuff. She is into you but very scared that she will end up hurt again because she don't have confidence in herself. So she is hinting you to give her the sense of security and tell her you really want to be with her.
You need to think twice because even if you two get together, it doesn't mean she won't have personal problems anymore. I suggest to be friends, in this way you can still show your care and concern to her. If you are willing to stay by her side and until both are ready to commit to each other.
Relationship really is a 2-way thing. :)
2007-09-27 21:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by leviosa_cho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't want to commit to you but is attracted to you in some manner. So she wants to be with you right now with no promises or commitment.
But she feels guilty about this kind of an arrangement, probably thinks its not right. So she is confused.
Ask her if this is the case. If it is, figure out a solution.
2007-09-27 21:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's scared. Or by saying you're too good for her she either has low self esteem, or she isn't intersted. She was also probably trying to see how she measured up to the other girls you've been with. You never know until you ask. Good luck.
2007-09-27 21:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Katelynn L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs therapy. you did the right thing by not sleeping with her for a one night stand. She is not emotionally ready for any kind of a relationship. She was just trying to see if you desired her because she has poor self esteem.
2007-09-27 21:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's playing head games with you. You aren't giving her the answer she wants to hear so she's messing with your head. Tell her you can't read her mind, and to tell you what she wants from you, and you will tell her in return if it something you also want. Don't chase her though, you don't need to give in to her game.
2007-09-27 21:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by TMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) she wants to sleep with u (not saying anytime soon though) and is interested in u
2) she could be developing feelings for u but is unsure
3) she doesn't know how to tell u
how to get this girl to untangle herself?? LOL tell her she should decide how she feels about u and let u know...until she does u gonna "cool" off-LOL
2007-09-27 21:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, but she's hiding something from you. This is why she's doing this. to make you confused. I think you should ignore her for some time. I'm sure she'll think of other things to keep you noticed her.
2007-09-27 21:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by early june 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋