there is this boy that i have been seeing we use to meet up regularly and he use to call and text me all the time and so did i. Now all of a sudden he does not text or call and he wont answer any of my texts i dont understand why because we didnt have a row or anything, i really really like him though and i cant stop thinking about him and its beginning to do my head in. I dont understand because he seemed like a really nice person and i really liked him. I also text him saying if you have lost interest just text and tell me and we will leave it but he didnt even answer that and thats the most frustrating thing because i just want an answer and he wont even give me that and another thing i dont understand is why you would lead someone down the garden path for months and then just stop all contact at all without any explanation, what does it mean, PLEASE HELP!!
2007-09-27 23:44:43 · 14 answers · asked by leighanne1232 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop texting him because its too easily ignored. If you really are sure you want to hear the answer then ask him all this to his face. Be sure you are ready to hear whatever it is first though.
2007-09-27 23:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps there is a small chance he has lost his phone, it broke down, no credit etc etc.
Suppose that IS what has happened for a moment....
That would show that you blame yourself and also rate him TOO highly.
It really should feel like it is mainly HIS loss that he does not see you any more. You are unique on the earth, DNA and fingerprints prove that.
Feel good about yourself first and then other people feel inspired to do the same about you.
I picture you smiling when you read this answer. That is the start of feeling good from now on about YOU.
Liking others or them liking you is only the icing on that cake.
2007-09-27 23:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by John S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, properly, it ought to be that his telephone have been given lost, or his demonstrate screen have been given broke, cuz men are rather problematic on cellular telephones. yet you probably did say which you tried to call him and no answer, so i might purely ignore approximately him. men don't have the emotional attachment that ladies have and that they think of no longer something of doing some thing like this. He sounds very immature. in case you attempt to speak to him I also have a feeling that it'llpersistent him better away and he could make up thoughts approximately you being a physco. attempt to ignore him and detect a sparkling guy pal to speak to. men are a dime a dozen and that they like it while females communicate over with them. So initiate some new friendships. this might deliver a message to him which you have been injury by way of him and that's him that lost out on a sturdy pal, no longer you, because of the fact he proved to be a awful pal. So ignore approximately him and circulate on, men don't have lots for thoughts, and as a woman, plan to get injury by way of the mean and dumb issues that they do, or % your guy acquaintances properly. Be very fussy approximately who you enable get so close to to you. this might help forestall coronary heart breaks.
2016-10-05 11:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by savitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say 'you just want an answer'? babe youve got one and you know youve got one, doest txt you any more, doesnt make any contact with you anymore, wont reply to any text you send? theres your answer, he's not interested, and you know he isnt, youve got 2 choices, you can waste all you time and energy fretting about this lad, who isnt giving you a second thought by the way, or you can just let it go, move on , feel the pain and then just get over it, there are so many lads out there who would think that you were a diamond, forget this lad and make space for a decent loving boy to come and whisk you off your feet. i know its difficult, good luck and take care.
2007-09-27 23:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see and know this person real well! Go to where he lives or even check with his parents to first see if he alright. Then if he still ignores you He Probably is telling you he doesn't want anything with you. So let him be if that's the case. Go on and find someone who first of all will talk and be honest to you and a real friend. This is defiantly a good sign of first pushing you away.
2007-09-28 00:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Suspicious/wonder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not interested in you anymore and doesn't have the guts to tell you this either to your face or by text. Sorry to put it as bluntly as that but that's the way it is. Believe me, if he was interested he'd be calling and texting you.
2007-09-28 00:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sniffer D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not interested anymore, some men are like that, if they dont need anything from you,they don't bother. forget it!!!there's a lot of lads out there! you deserve a better one for you so why worry....cheers...
2007-09-28 01:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple.....MEN ARE JERKS! They would rather ignore you totally than to tell you they are not interested in you. Move on with your life!
2007-09-27 23:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by honeybear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, take a hint and let it go ....
2007-09-28 02:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To 'ARMY WIFE'...... let me clarify.. you mean 'people are jerks'. Trust me, women do this too!!!!
2007-09-27 23:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ivor Hugh G.Rection 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋