What if you are ex-lovers?
In the case where you were the one who was dumped, and you still have feelings, but your feelings are no longer reciprocated...
How does it make you feel after having sex in this case?
And in general, how do you feel after sex with someone you love, but who does not love you back?
Is depression a common reaction? Does it have to lower your self respect, or is this not necessarily the case?
2007-09-27 23:52:01 · 5 answers · asked by risono2166 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you happy?
Are you sad?
Both? Is it complicated?
Does it damage your self-respect? Does this not necessarily have to be the case?
How does it affect your self-image?
How does it affect how your partner (ex-lover) thinks about you? He knows you had sex with him because you still love him, he knows you know he doesn't love you anymore...
2007-09-28 00:03:45 · update #1
If you're feeling like this, why are you still having sex with this person? Stop doing it- they're just using you for sex & nothing more. They will not magically fall back in love with you- if anything they'll think less of you because you are just an easy piece of @ss that they'll dump the second something better comes along. Been there, done that. It hurt like heck.
Save the sex for someone that loves you back.
2007-09-27 23:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how good the sex is. But I have a firm policy, Do Not Do Ex's. If it didn't work out, there is a reason and all the sex in the world is not going to make it better.
2007-09-28 06:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by ONLY 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ashamed comes to mind, for allowing myself to be used by that person.
Cut those ties and move on. You should not be allowing him to do that to you. If you do, you are just asking for any bad feelings you get. Retrieve that self respect, find a good man that will love and appreciate you. No one should be that desperate. Good luck on a better future. Now go get um!!!
2007-09-28 06:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the one i love does not love me back, nor like me i bet,
I want her back, i wouldn't care for sex tbh, but if it did happen, it would probably feel a bit odd and uncomfortable to have sex with someone who doesn't love you, but i am not entirely sure.
2007-09-28 06:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by .:Ψ ŊĨŊŦĚŊĐŌŘĶ Ψ:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's like a garbage dump!!!
2007-09-28 06:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by ~o0o~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋