how can i tell for sure, i always see him with guys, and they "touch" each other. he has ALOT of guys numbers in his phone, and latley it seems hes not really interested in me anymore. help?
2007-09-23 05:35:31 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him
2007-09-23 05:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's bi. or just confused and not sure. if he is gay, there is nothing that you can do to keep him straight. you have a right to feel hurt and lied to since he has probally felt that he may be gay far before he ever met you, but it's all part of the process and unfortunately you were the person it had to be. you didn't turn him gay though, and if he is honest and not embarrassed to talk about it, he'll explain that to you. if he isn't gay or bi, i have no idea what advice to give you, other that there are other fish in the sea, and you will find someone else. good luck.
2007-09-23 05:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by deidre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my best friends( thats a guy) goes up to his friends and does their little hand shake all the time, hangs out with them all the time, and has all their numbers in his cell phone. Trust me hes not gay he just likes to hang with the guys because they have more in common and when he touches them its like the same as giving a hug to another girl, that doesn't mean the girl is gay. And if he is spending less time with you it means that hes not intrested in you anymore or he might be mad at you
2007-09-23 05:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin dated a guy for a year and he never said I love you. We thought that was really weird. We all thought he was gay, but didn't want to come out yet.
If a guy is gay you can't do anything about it. Even if you ask him he will deny it. If you really doubt him and your relationship, then you shouldn't be together.
Btw, there are a lot of men who get married and later on in life realize they can't live a lie anymore. They live life on the DL.
2007-09-23 05:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by sfroggy5 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could always just ask him but be prepared if he is not ready to "come out" he will tell you he is not and might get a little offended.. Or if he is really not again might get annoyed.
Well here a few tests:
Go to Pier One imports if his taste is better than yours.. chances are gay.
Go through his CD collection.. find a lot of Madonna, Cher, & Pink... chances are gay.
2007-09-23 05:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Macanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. Hard to tell, really. You don't want someone who's homophobic, so if he's comfortable around gay men, it could mean he's really secure in himself.
I'd ask what's up with the lack of interest, but don't throw gay suspicians into the pot.
2007-09-23 05:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, lot of factors there.
You should just ask him. You could plan a get away weekend and if he declines, then he prob is gay.
If you guys haven't had sex in a while, and you come on to him and he declines, then prob. is gay.
If he is gay, let him be merry and just move on. It's no changing over night.
2007-09-23 05:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by ||Methadon|| 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha
i doubt he's actually serious about the touching w/ other guys.
and just cuz he has a lot of guy friends doesn't mean he's gay. he may not like having lots of girl friends because , no offence, but they can be a big hassle sometimes w/ all the drama.
he's not gayy
2007-09-23 05:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The subtle nuances you observe may be innocent enough; but if your concern warrants it -- I recommend the direct approach and have a frank discussion of the wherefore and the why of your feelings regarding his behaviors and other interpersonal relationships.
2007-09-23 05:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by Eclectic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather your boyfriend have loads of girls' numbers in his phone? Just because he has a lot of friends, that doesn't make him gay!
2007-09-23 05:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he thinks about gay people and tell him that you are ok with gay people and it doesnt matter. say in a hypothetical tone "hey even if YOU were gay i wouldnt care, i would just want to know so i could find a new boyfreind and so could you"
2007-09-23 05:46:02 · answer #11 · answered by scooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋