I love her, but she tells me that she wouldn't go out with a person like me, because she doesn't deserve me. What should i do?
2007-09-23 19:47:22 · 13 answers · asked by Crises_In_Heaven 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when she says that, she just means she's not ready to accept you.. patience is the key.. just keep being friends.. and actually falling is love with ur best friend is easier! because being friends is the first step, now ur on ur way to the next! but one day she might be interested in you.. just keep being friends with her
2007-09-23 20:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in love with a best friend is doomed to end in pain and tears, in my experience, cause ive lost my love and my best mate. i thought the love would be worth the pain.
anyway, this is your q, so.
ask her why she doesnt deserve you. ask her to be straight with you and not muck you around. i hate all these ppl who cant speak the truth, thinking they are saving your feelings, when really they are prolonging the agony. (ooopppss, still about me! lol)
2007-09-24 03:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by soooo???......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should look somewhere else.
If one day she takes an interest in you, you can go from there.
But for now.. I say forget it.. make time for someone who would go out with a person like you.
2007-09-24 02:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Alisha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then say that your dying to go out with her, and that even if you dont deserve "me" (you sam), that you deserve to treat yourself then.
2007-09-24 02:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me this one, when a woman told u that...it mean that u should go find other.She's just not in to you.
2007-09-24 03:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people , in good relationships, are in it with their BEST friend.
seriously, think about that.
2007-09-24 02:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe her when she tell syou that, you deserve better then her. that is what she is telling you. so go find somene better. let her go.
2007-09-24 02:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she doesn't want to go out with you and is making excuses. there's nothing you can do about it, sorry.
2007-09-24 02:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sooo messed up!!
are u sure she's your "best friend"?
she dosen't desrve YOU as a best friend!!
you shouldn't even hang out with these kinds of people!!
2007-09-24 02:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
if her last boyfriend was a looser or she treated him like crap, then that might be a reason why.
2007-09-24 02:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by agello24 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋