Singles & Dating - 24 September 2007

Ok, so I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We see each other on a everyday basis, we have a good sex life, and basically get along really well. We don't argue. He is 25, he works 2 jobs a day, the boy is determined. We don't live together but spend the night together 3 outa 7 nites. He says he loves me, but still hasn't said "i love u" it seems like now he has waited so long to say it, he thinks its too late. why is it that i cant get him to truely commit and to take an innititive to do something for me, plan a date for us, take a small trip. Why is it when a woman has needs that should be filled, men act as though they are dumb, or just simply do not make time for women??????

2007-09-24 03:57:41 · 2 answers · asked by hotsouthernbelle 1

Just curious because I love to expose my body and wanna know youre ideas too!!!

2007-09-24 03:57:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We incidentally went to the same restaurant for breakfast ( i was with my mom he was with his mom and grandfather) he totally gave me the cold shoulder and i felt really upset by this so i asked him why and he said his grandfather made some rude comments about me after i left and that he didnt want to expose me to the environment...

2007-09-24 03:47:56 · 26 answers · asked by me_myself173 1

I'm a very jealous person when it comes to my fiance. It hurts me because he was the first guy I ever had any sexual experiences with, yet he's had many before me. When he tells me of his ex's I get very jealous because they all had perfect bodies. I am 19 years old, 110 lbs, and I have A cup boobs. His ex's were beautiful with C cup boobs. It just makes me feel so ugly compared to them and I get uncomfortable in bed with him. I always think that he compares my ugly body to their beautiful bodies. It's to the point now where I started taking breast enlargement pills and became very depressed.

I just wish I could overcome this jealousy, because it's tearing me apart and making me hate myself.

2007-09-24 03:47:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had told my ex-wife that she has a chance to keep me down here but she rather me go back home to Detroit, Mi & in all reality I'm moving to Anderson, In to be with this girl that I've been talking to for over a month & she is alot better than my ex-wife & she won't control me or tell me who I can't be around &what I can or can't do & she won't even put a collar on me or even a leash or even keep me couped up in a house for days on in, I like to be outside enjoying the weather & not inside all day long except when it comes to having hot passionate sex with her.

2007-09-24 03:42:18 · 18 answers · asked by torture26 2

2007-09-24 03:38:20 · 9 answers · asked by gabbwgville 2

I already asked this, but I'm looking for some different feedback.
The other day I'm studying for my FYS (freshman seminar) and reading a complicated essay in the common room area (for some reason I concentrate better out there than in the dorm) and a guy in my fys who lives on my floor sees me studying. He came up to me and said he hadn't done it yet, and asks if he can study with me. I said sure, so we worked on the article for a couple of hours in the common room area.

The next day, one of my guy friends, Cameron, said that he was "checking me out" and "obviously likes me" I don't believe him, but he keeps insisting on it.

Whenever he goes into his room (right across from the common area) he stops and waits for me to notice him, then comes by and talks to me, about anything (asking what time it is, how my day is going, etc)

Just an hour ago, I was studying out there again and he came out red eyed and told me he just broke up w/ his girlfriend.

Does this guy like me?

2007-09-24 03:36:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this guy for months and although there is obviously no romantic future for us as although I met him on a dating line, he isn't interested in any woman as he is too obsessed with his religion. He has told me he would help me with some things like finances, getting a better job, getting home from work when I don't have a ride (live in a bad area so I can't walk home at night and no I can't move), he has offered to help me find legal help for bancruptcy and everything but has done absolutely nothing at all. I don't expect anyone to just do stuff for me but if someone offers help, I expect them to keep their promise, especially when they call themselves christians. He keeps taking on more stuff to do and as a result has lost several big sales in his job due to his lack of concentration while he is out saving the world (he has a soft spot for sex offenders and drug addicts). On top of this he brings parolees into his home around his 2 young children.

2007-09-24 03:20:40 · 3 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

Say you have this friend (girl) and there's been some flirting now and again..then one day you kiss and make out but not full sex even though you (the man) wanted it of course (being a man)! Next day you feel awkward...usual! Well and here's the question for the men, if you don't contact her, does that mean that you see her as a 'one night stand'? Like you only wanted sex from her? Does it mean that you're not interested in her and that you were only 'friends' with her to get a little bit of action but didnt want her as a girlfriend? I mean surely you were attracted to her in the first place to get physical. All of this with no alcolhol by the way!! Would you be waiting for her to contact you /take the next step? Tell me what you think?

2007-09-24 03:16:20 · 2 answers · asked by Stefania 1

And I havent had the morning after pill.. What do I do if im pregnant? Im 16 years old.

2007-09-24 03:13:56 · 58 answers · asked by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3

i was with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, we were engaged and everything. everything was great between us, then he passed his driving test in may and things went downhill from there. he started acting funny with me and not coming in till late and would neva let me go out with him. he ended things with me a few weeks ago and im deverstated. his reasons were that he wasnt happy no more and things werent the same between us. but he never said anything to me about not being happy or anything. ive told him i still love him and always will and he said he still loves me but hes meeting other girls and its really getting me down. all i want is to have him back. HELP!!

2007-09-24 03:11:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and this guy had a little thing going this summer. it wasnt anything serious we just went on little dates and stuff. i thought he liked me and i was thinking that maybe it could turn into something more. but then the next time i talked to him he had a girlfriend! we talked for a while and he said that her really likes this girlfriend but that he still thought about me. the problem is i still have feelings for him even though i know he has a girlfriend and is clearly a jerk. i have to see him everyday at school too! how can i stop my feelings for him even though he talks to me all the time and i see him everyday??

2007-09-24 03:07:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

and that..you will consider her to be the last woman in your life....

2007-09-24 03:06:16 · 10 answers · asked by The Sexytary 3

Am i a tease ?!? Be Honest?
Well me (female) and my best freind (male) have always flirted around each other, and we always play around. One night we were at his house having dinner, and we were just like touching hands (under the table) and then i started to get more playful by stroking his inner thigh, but not touching his penis, and i thought he liked it, so then i started playing with his zipper, and kinda reaching in, but not touching it, and then i took my hand out when i felt it get hard. About 5 minutes later dinner was over, so we went to his room, and he picked me up and threw me on his bed. and he started to take his pants off untill i told him to stop beacuse thats not what i meant by it. Then he got pissed and called my a tease and made me leave.

AM I A TEASE?

2007-09-24 03:06:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend now, doesn not answer like 90% of the times when i call, i know sometimes she is busy with work, or school, or the kids, but i know sometimes she isn't. Yet she expects me to answer the phone everytime she calls. What should i do? sometimes i want to bring it up but i dont want to feel like i'm whinining, other times i want to ignore her calls, but i'm just not revengeful like that and feel bad for playing these games, any suggestions?

2007-09-24 03:01:53 · 6 answers · asked by jack a 1

2007-09-24 02:50:00 · 33 answers · asked by mz.anna_09 1

Is thats the only way they can get attention?

2007-09-24 02:43:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a very attractive woman--thin, in shape, long blonde hair, a pretty face. But I feel like my boyfriend isn't attracted to me. He rarely wants to have sex with me, and he looks at porn and checks out other women. Why is he with me if he doesn't find me attractive?

2007-09-24 02:42:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats your biggest worry in your relationship now?
if you not in one what was your worry in your last relationship?

2007-09-24 02:33:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

we been living apart from each other for the last 4 months..she broke up with me a month ago...said that she dont love me anymore..since then we never had a conversation
yesterday she message me through windows messenger..
telling me that she will be returning on 26 september 2:15pm..
i replied " ok, have a safe journey home"..out of sudden she was like keep on asking me questions such as how am i doing recently..she even asked me whether is it a good idea to work overseas once she gets home? I asked her to follow her heart as when you gain something you will lose something as well such as a good family relationship
At the same time my friend was chatting with her too...he asked her whether do i still have a chance..she replied that she dont know..she said maybe her life at UK was too busy and got no time to miss me and she said that i was too demanding that time and she got irritated..but dont know how would she feel when she saw me face to face when she comes home

2007-09-24 02:32:59 · 6 answers · asked by LiFE 1

I know i shouldnt like her because she is my best friend but damn she is beautiful and smart and all that... I love hanging out with her i love being around her. she makes me smile and laugh and everything. the only thing is she is a co worker of mine but we dont see much of each other while were at work unless she needs my help. reason is because she is a supervisor. im 23 and shes 24 she is the coolest person ever. Its itchin at me to tell her how i feel. any pointers or tips on what i should do???Oh by the way she might have a boyfriend...might she hasnt told me that...everytime i ask her if she has a boyfriend she says maybe with a smile on her face then asks me why i want to know...please help

2007-09-24 02:27:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 wks ago my ex moved out with a dear jon letter while we were in the middle of couseling and had just filed for a marriage license. well this past weekend he sent me a letter in the mail professing his love to me along with a check to help me out with somethings that he promised when we were together and and asking me if I wanted to finish counseling that he would and if i would sit down and meet and talk with him. should I meet with him? i'm not sure if i should because this is the 2nd time he's walked out please help.

2007-09-24 02:11:55 · 6 answers · asked by nikki 3

do guys really prefer the larger, more curvy women? i know, well, according to the media, big hips, large thighs and a full rear are apparently attractive, but do some guys prefer the smaller girls?

l'm only 5"1 and l'm 40 kilos, not underweight, but there's not that much devoted to curves, l'm got pretty slim hips although i feel obliged to mention l'm not at all flat chested, l'm about a 12C. so do guys mind the small skinny girls like me, or do they all prefer the curvy and luscious women?

2007-09-24 01:53:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-24 01:29:58 · 20 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4

i learned things about him while we dated that could get him fired. we have mutual friends but now he is telling me that i better stay away from everyone that he knows and i better not say anything to anybody. i'm keeping quiet, but i don't like being threatened and i'm scared. what should i do? he is a policeman

2007-09-24 00:42:36 · 24 answers · asked by philly 2

I am a young widow so I don't really consider myself single. To me I was never divorced. Some day I would like to have another boyfriend/husband but I am not quite sure how to go about meeting someone. After being with this one man basically all of my adult life to this point I don't know where to begin. I have not had the opportunity to meet people in a long time. Now I am able to. Does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks.

2007-09-24 00:41:46 · 2 answers · asked by redwidow 5

right ive liked this girl since school but i didnt say anything then , we started chatting on the internet n i told her how i felt about her n she told me after a while that she liked me when i found this out i was soo happy but like the moron i am i didnt do anything about it because im a very shy person ,
we stopped talking for a while because som1 told me she had a boyfriend which i later found out wasnt true ,
we started talking a couple of months ago n i told her that i still liked her she sed she liked me but now she saying lets just be friends i still love her and always have what shud i do

we both act shy around eachother i think she likes me but because i didnt do anything last time when we liked eachother i think she is scared that i will not do anything about it again

i think she is seeing someone over the internet who shes never met and i am scared that she will go meet him and he uses a private bebo account with no pictures and he lives miles away :( i love her

2007-09-24 00:41:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Talking about the penis of course. The porn industry would have us believe that every woman wants some huge multi foot monster but I've heard that around the 8" mark is perfect. Is this true? I've read that guys that are too big cause more pain than pleasure and guys that are too small don't cause anything. So what's the official answer? Do we have a porno reputation that we have to live up to or do us average guys actually have a chance?

2007-09-24 00:38:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a guy.. He send me a message on my account.. And he said that he's interested with me. N want to build a relationship with me..

He said ,"i would never want to hurt ur feeling not will i break ur sincere heart...
i would want to be given a chance to nurture and water ur heart with shower of love....
i want a chance from u to love and be loved till the endless of time ....
it sounds just like a fairy tale ...
but if we let our heart to be pure... a fantasy can be reality...."

"i promise not to break your heart ....
i promise to love u with my heart and soul ....
i promise to make you happy ...
i promise to care for you .....
are u ready to go on this relationship with me?
i want the answer form ur heart pls..
thats why i wanted to build a relationship straight away b4 someone else swept u away."

So what must i do?? He touched my heart..
Pls help me?
But i afraid he is a liar..
I really need an answer..

2007-09-24 00:26:19 · 43 answers · asked by Lovato 2