Singles & Dating - 24 September 2007

to stop talking on the phone to your ex-gf?

I've been dating my bf for over a year, and he still talks to his ex (whom he dated for 3 years) a couple times a week. He told me she's still one of his good friends, and that he doesn't want me to tell him who he can and cannot talk to.

How would you react?

Is it unreasonable for me to want him to stop talking to her?

2007-09-24 07:27:26 · 12 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3

I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now and we are very turned on by each other. We have done everything with one aonther but have sex. She told me that she is not ready and told me that i would have to be the one to make the first move, how will i know when she is ready to have sex with me when i have to make the first move?

2007-09-24 07:25:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, me and my boyfriend have known each other for nearly 3 years but recently got into a relationship, but when he hugs me or kisses me , i just feel a little bit uncomfortable and i'm 13
Many Thanks

2007-09-24 07:24:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 17 i work in the local supermaket at the weekend,last saturday night i was working on one of the aisles alone because it was five minutes to closing time,there was hardly anyone in the shop.anyway i was kneeling down when this polish guy came up behind me and starting rubbing my waist,i was so shocked.i didnt say anything i just looked at him but he started laughing and did it again!except this time near my chest,i got up,told him to leave me alone and ran to my friend in the next aisle.i was too afraid to tell my manager as he too is polish and is always teasing me.i mean constantly slagging me.i dont know what to do as im afraid this man will come in again,i could be on myown or waiting for my mum to collect me.what should i do?
i know this is in the wrong category but there are more people on here.

2007-09-24 06:57:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He said he was 38 and he is really 44, I am 23 and I had no problem with the 38, but not sure how I feel about the 44 my mother is the same age and she is dating someone thats my age. I really like him but I wonder what else he has to hide.

2007-09-24 06:52:45 · 14 answers · asked by gabbwgville 2

i have a man he works while i stay home with the baby. i understand he is tired but i do everything i cook, clean and wash everything. i give him massages and cut his hair and shave his beard. I run his bathwater cut his toe and finger nails. i wash his dirty A$$ draws in the sink if we dont have money to wash clothes . When I want something little he wont do like get me a drink when i try to relax. he is not cheating or anything he is just lazy and he wont massage me like i want. and i find myself the one asking for XXX all the time. its like Hello taking care of the baby is actually not as easy as He thinks. when he gets paid yea he buys me all these things and takes me out nice places but thats not what im looking for i want someone to cater to my every need. PLEASE TELL ME WHATS WRONG!!!!!!

2007-09-24 06:46:35 · 4 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1

There are these twins at my job i am head over heels for twins i think their the most unique individuals in the world... the point is i am seriously crushing on one......SIGH* i really want to know if he likes me someone HELP!!!! all my friends say just tell him but anyways here are the signs he gives me....
1) i try to keep away from him but for some unknown reason we're always bumbing into one another at work
-i bumbed into him once and i laid my hand on his arm and kinda felt his muscles and accidently stepped on his foot after words he started laughing i was so embarrassed
2) He stares into my eyes deeply whever we talk... i just now started giving him eye contact
3) He has a girlfirend but never talks about her only when i ask or someone else does
4)He always asks me for things
5) He got mad one time when a boy touched me under my arm pits.. but hey he's from the philliphines so its rude to touch a girl without her permission he got offended

2007-09-24 06:42:16 · 5 answers · asked by prevailed_individual 1

Is this falling in love think USUALLY and I dont mean ALWAYS but just usually a mutual feeling? I mean if a guy is falling for a girl, is it usually the case that she also is falling for him? There must be a vibe/chemistry before someone starts having the feelings right? Personal experiences really appreciated!!

2007-09-24 06:34:51 · 5 answers · asked by profe 1

If my 2 year girlfriend, 8 years older than me, insults me all the time and humilliated me. She does things that makes me feel disrespected but in her world are acceptable.... she does not give me 100% attection or respect as a man. And a day like today I could not take it anymore and I decide to go out tonite and meet a woman for a personal encounter.. would I be chetting? I dont feel like cheatting... I just need a break from this woman cause I am not able to even say or express myself to her... If she comes to me like yestarday and ask me what's wrong? and I tell her that myheart is broken cause her acctions.. she transform herself into a devil, loose patience and will tell me that that is my problem and will insult me to make shut my mouth. So basically she gets mad .if I even say that I am sufering..
So tonite I am meeting this other woman.. I dont know I dont know but I dont feel like cheatting.... or am I?

2007-09-24 06:21:04 · 21 answers · asked by enrique v 1

i knew her since we were little i moved and we lost touch 4 a couple of years i refound her like a year and a half ago and ever since we bein really good friend we do everything together movie, dinner chill talk on the phone every night have sex ect. it's like were bf and gf but we don't have that title since we started back talkin we haven't slept with anyone other each other recenlty a freind took me out to chill with him am some friend he meet and they all when to school with the girl that am in love with they say she get around town i asked her about she started to cry and said it no true she said in her 20 years of livin she can count the amount of guys she slept wit on 1 hand i don't know wat i should do i boy is tellin me not to mess with her but i lover i think he like her she said she think her ex boyfriend started the rumor that she get's around how do i handle all of this

2007-09-24 06:20:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

and you lose interest in her as well?

2007-09-24 06:17:42 · 19 answers · asked by . 3

well..i m married since last 4 months...still unable to do sex with my husband..as he is too caring, when ever he tried to penetration and it hurt me tremendous he just stopped there.as it hurt me he also tries less...i feel really sorry for him as i cant make him satisfied.

i took a serious plan...next day i will go to ask him -

1 - hold me hard.
2 - straight insert ur penis inside me - dont do it slowly, do it just quick...just enter it at one chance.
3 - no matter how much i get hurt, dont stop hold me tight so that i cant push u from me....

so...this is my plan. do u think, will it do any harm to my body without hurting tremendous? i m a virgin and i really dont want to delay anymore..i want to serve my husband truely!

2007-09-24 06:13:24 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom had a camera and I used to use it a lot, especially for picures for my sites.But jus the other day[friday] I had it and the camera hit the sink[nozzle] and the screen cracked.Meaning you cant see the picture you just took and...its just messed up ! But Im not sure what to say to her,how to tell her, and when I should.Like she would probably go crazy.But I know sonner or later she will be looking for her camera.So what should I do?PLLLLLLLLLLLLLEASE help me !

2007-09-24 06:05:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

say ur a guy tht likes a guy how do u say i love u???

2007-09-24 05:50:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can any of you mature men who do the online dateing thing tell me why in God's name do over 80% of the men on there think and use it as a SEX SIGHT??

I'm 50, have a few friends the same, and we're getting these complete ******* who lie about what their looking for, and then on the first date expect to have or be given SEX!!
WHY??????????????

I make it a habit to pay for the dinner if the "creep" has drivien a far amount of miles to meet me, and if not, I go dutch.

We're confused..........please answer honestly.
Also, for those of you only looking for sex, why do your profiles say "long term"? Why not run your profiles under.....intamate encounters instead, or just go to the sights where singles are only looking for sexual encounters?

2007-09-24 05:48:58 · 16 answers · asked by peggin_beast 6

He is always calling me he always wants me to be on the phone with him. When i laugh with someone one he thinks iam flirting. I can't go out with my family cause he gets mad.
I dont know i love him so much he is a good guy he is always there for me and says he going to change but never changes.
i would leave him but i dont want to get hurt or hurt him.

2007-09-24 05:43:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today in school, i needed to collect my bag so as i was walking i saw 5 girls coming down the stairs and i saw 1 girl instantly look at her friend (as if to say - Oi LOOK!), then look at me with a smile. I smiled back and she looked away. Then as i was walking up the stairs, i saw her look back at me with another smile.

Was she flirting with me ?

2007-09-24 05:39:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for 6yrs and we bought a house togther about 6mths ago. I'm 27 & he's 32. He's a really good man, but it just so boring at this point. Everything is such a routine. We commute togther a few days a week beucase live far and work close to each other. There is a guy in my college class and I am attracted to him. He is very intelligent and knows what he wants out of life. Were my man doesn't really have any big future plans. Since I go to school he think's I'm gonna be the bread winner. I love my boyfriend very much - does anyone have any advice to makeit better? Should I persure this other guy. I know that he would take care of me.

2007-09-24 05:27:30 · 10 answers · asked by Hope I Can Help :-) 2

I have a friend (he can't decide if he wants to commit) who always has to be right because he is the man. In our life time I have experienced more than he has, I am raising a family (3) children, a home and he has a roomate, and no children. He is a good man but we bump heads all the time.Do I have to be quiet to be happy??

2007-09-24 05:19:09 · 15 answers · asked by Isis 1

Well, there is this guy that I danced with. and he is really
nice. But, well, I am kinda popular, and he is well, way down there on the social ladder, and I know this is really shallow, but I don't want people to think that I am desperate because I am going out with someone that is lower than me on the social ladder.
Yea, even my closest friend is telling me that it will bring nothing but heartache, but I still like him, and i still want to be with him, and I don't know, he seems really sweet.
But my bff told me that if hes as sweet as he seems, he would understand. We come from two whole different worlds, but I don't think I would mind.
The thing that gets me is the way people would talk. I guess we could keep it a secret, but I am not that type, I like hugs and I like being able to talk between classes.

So, my question is. Do I go out with the guy, or hide my feelings and wait 4 someone else.

2007-09-24 05:15:39 · 57 answers · asked by amber 2

2007-09-24 05:07:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

first of all i dont care if you think im too young so please dont post anything say that just please tell me the truth.

okay well im in the 8th grade and the guy i like is in the 7th grade. he is my cuzzins friend and he is always over there when i am. he flirts with me and i flirt back. he somehow got my number and calls me too. but my cuzzin tells me that he is a playa and hella girls like him. but then someone else says he isnt a playa. what do you think should i get over him?



ps. theres this guy in my grade that is hella nice to me and is always compliments me i know he likes me and someone told me that he is gonna ask me out should i wait for him??

2007-09-24 05:06:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why don't the ladies like the fat bloke?

Even if he is...

Charming
Good looking (but fat)
Very funny (as in humourous)
Successful
Clean (I'm clutching at straws here!)

Sometimes It hurts!;-))))

2007-09-24 05:01:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know what I think it should mean. I was just explaining something for my boyfriend and his mate - more for his mate's benefit, about a course I'm doing. My bf doesn't like me doing it - he's entitled to his opinion. But he started spouting off and I just gave him a look - kinda rolled my eyes and smiled, and he went all serious and told me to stop being disrespectful. I said I wasn't being, because I wasn't. He was just being overly sensitive. Anyway, he's disrespected me many times, esp. when his friends are around, but I've let it slide. So I pointed this out. He told me 'it's different though isn't it'. Why is it different? I got the impression he meant because he's a man. Anyway, I tried to continue my explanation, and he told me he didn't want to hear it and to shut up. I then pointed out HE was being disrespectful. He said 'you reap what you sow'. How rude is that? I'm really angry, he shocks me sometimes - his attitude just screams that he thinks of me as his 'b*tch'.

2007-09-24 04:56:50 · 12 answers · asked by tilly 5

she has been dead for years but he still hangs on to her....

2007-09-24 04:34:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anne D 1

I found out yesterday that my boyfriend has an account on fling.com, a site that people go to for sex. When I asked him about it he said his friend told him about the site and said that chicks they grew up with were on the site and he just wanted to see the pics. However when I went to him profile, he indicated that he was 8 inches and wanted to make people *** and that he was looking for a good time. He said he only put that stuff because you have to make the profile believable. Well I think he's lying, but to make me feel better he deleted the account, now he's trying to turn it around like i want to sleep with someone else and I'm using this as my excuse.

What do you think?

2007-09-24 04:31:29 · 60 answers · asked by Pinky 2

2007-09-24 04:24:12 · 35 answers · asked by Rita 6

I have been unemployed for 3 months and I stay with my girl friend. She gets upset when I look through her things. She even had the nerve not to give me her password for her email. I should leave her @ss.

2007-09-24 04:14:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you tell someone you miss them, or you love them, and they ask how much? How in the world do u answer that? Hmm let me get a ruler...Is there a measuring system I don't know about? What do I say?

2007-09-24 04:08:42 · 16 answers · asked by ME!!! 2

when a guy says you're pretty, does that mean you're just ok looking? i had a guy stop me the other day, but i told him i was married, and he said "oh im sorry. you are just so pretty i had to stop and tlak to you". i didnt know guys still used the word pretty, i thought they said "hot" or "beautiful". so if a guy says you're pretty does he not think much of you? or am i reading too much into words

p.sdont get me wrong, im very grateful for the compliment:) just wondering why a guy would say pretty, since its not very common

2007-09-24 04:08:34 · 19 answers · asked by HerR 2