I have been unemployed for 3 months and I stay with my girl friend. She gets upset when I look through her things. She even had the nerve not to give me her password for her email. I should leave her @ss.
2007-09-24 04:14:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No!! Just because she didnt give u her password?? OMG, you really need to quit being so dam nosy, into yoiur girlfriends stuff! Wat u need to do is get yo *** up and get a job!!!!!!!!
2007-09-24 04:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have the right because she snoops through your things every time she gets the opportunity. All women snoop. There never has been a woman that didn't. That gives men the right to snoop in return.
Just don't tell her when you snoop and have some excuse or lie if she finds out. There are programs you can put on her laptop to capture keystrokes so you can find her passwords. I would also suggest recording the phone conversations. You can hide the tape recorder in some place she will never look.
2007-09-24 04:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by John 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seeing as you are unemployed and living with her, I don't see you needing any reason at all to look at her personal files. They are hers...if you trust her, you would not care. To leave someone over a password is absolutely ludacris, I have never heard of such!! You had the nerve to even ASK for her password? She should leave YOUR @ss. Respectfully.
2007-09-24 04:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Rachel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have the right to go through anything that is not yours. If there is something you want to know, try asking her. If you don't trust her then it is time to leave the relationship. On some chance that she does let you use her lap top, try searching for a job!
2007-09-24 04:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by charlieshepp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, boy you are getting on her nerves in the worst way and you aren't realizing it. You are not going to work. She is supporting you. Yet, you can't be trusted around her personal belongings. You think she is cheating, but no, she doesn't want you imposing on every part of her life. Emails are often private conversations, likely about you to her friends, if you had the password it may make you mad. Just get over it.
2007-09-24 04:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...no, thats not unreasonable of her. My husband and I have been happily married for 4 years, and we dont know each others passwords. People need SOME privacy.
Would you want to tell her your innermost secrets and thoughts? I bet not!! And even though her innermost thoughts arent in her email, its private in the same way.
I think you should also ask yourself why you need to get in her email!! What possible reason could you have for wanting to see what she is emailing?
I also think you need to start trying to find a job. I go CRAZY when I have nothing to do, and I think the same is happening to you. You need to get out there, and keep yourself busy.
2007-09-24 04:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol yes leave her!!! As she is nice enough to let a bum such as yourself live in her place while she works and you hold down the couch, she is obviously to good for you. Do her a favor and stop holding her back, once your gone she might find a real man. In the future remember beggars can't be choosers, if your not working and she's paying the bills you have no rights what so ever.
2007-09-24 04:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by thundercat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just thinking abut doing so is wrong. No you do not. If you ask her and she says yes then you can. I cant think of any reason you should even ask her. What is in there is none of your business.
I would call you a dead beat to begin with and she should throw you out. Three days without a jib is long enough. There are plenty jobs out there and there are many ways to earn money for yourself.
Grow up and be responsible.
2007-09-24 04:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Not to be rude or to tell you what you should or should not do, but you are living at her apartment, she is the one that is working for both of you, right? But, even if you were working too, her imformation on her computer is not yours to view! Put the shoe on the other foot for a second here. Would you want someone going through your computer looking at conversations you had, or sites you had visited? I think not!
I hope you get it together!
2007-09-24 04:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously man? That sounds like opening Pandora's Freakin box...and I get the feeling that if you asked her for her e-mail password that you might just end up being the one getting your @ss left. Quit being a tool, start trusting people or get used to life crankin one out to reruns of Laguna Beach
2007-09-24 04:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by Joey Crack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well instead of snooping why dont you ask her for the password or for her permission? Maybe thats why she wont give it to you. But aFTER a while if she does not give it you, maybe she is hiding something? Or has some thing she is not ready to share with you? IT doesnt mean though that she is doing something bad though.
2007-09-24 04:17:27 · answer #11 · answered by CORAZON QUE NO SiiENTE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋