He is always calling me he always wants me to be on the phone with him. When i laugh with someone one he thinks iam flirting. I can't go out with my family cause he gets mad.
I dont know i love him so much he is a good guy he is always there for me and says he going to change but never changes.
i would leave him but i dont want to get hurt or hurt him.
2007-09-24 05:43:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and if i do break up with him
i dont think he will leave me alone
ever.he will keep insisting
2007-09-24 05:49:24 · update #1
winterborn
thats exaclty what i told him that already had a dad i dont need him to decide my life for me
2007-09-24 05:52:42 · update #2
babeheart
my family is always going to be first
no matter what
2007-09-24 05:55:04 · update #3
Hes first girlfriend cheated on him.and he never wants to talk about it..but that isnt my fault
2007-09-24 05:57:07 · update #4
sometimes when you love someone you just dont want anyone else to have them....some guys just really dont want to share the special part of their world (you) with anybody else. Tell him that you understand how he feels but that he is going to have to stop behaving in the way that he is. you have to draw the line, if that means leaving him for a little while so that he can get his priorities straight then so be it. I gaurentee that if he really likes you he will change for you. I hope that I was any help at all, good luck....
2007-09-24 05:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by mr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately some men (and women) are not self-confident enough to have the trust necessary to know you're not flirting or being anything other than friendly. It is a matter of maturity but no matter how much someone says they will change, more often than not, they will remain the same. Ask yourself if you can deal with his jealously now and in the future? What if he becomes possessive because of this? Or worse, becoming angered and/or violent. Jealousy is a deeply passionate emotion, often difficult for the inexperienced (younger adults) to deal with intellectually. Don't become a "prisoner" of someone else's immaturity; if you can discuss this with him, and tell him he either works on this by talking with a professional (counselor, clergy, etc) or you may need to move on. Hope this helps.
2007-09-24 05:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by 3jK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though he loves you-he doesn't trust you, and living or for that matter spending some time with a person who doesn't trust you is a pale relationship. And I think he needs help(Y does he get mad when you go out with your family-makes no sense).
A mature relationship is, when a person cares about you and loves you good but at the same time gives you some room for your personal thoughts. He respects your privacy.
Well hope he will change drastically or you find a new partner.
Best of luck.
Ck.
2007-09-24 05:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by chetan k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. I am of the belief that some jealousy is good, it shows love. But there is such a thing as insane jealousy and if you are involved with a person who is insanely jealous you could end up dead. Check with your video rental store and see if they have a copy of an older movie with Michael Douglas and Glenn Close called "Fatal Attraction." Most excellent movie and will show you what can happen when somebody becomes insanely jealous.
Good luck.
2007-09-24 05:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being WAYYYY too overprotective. Laughing and going out with your family is an everyday thing. Without laughter with friends and family, what is there to life?? If he says he is going to change and he hasn't, he probly will not. When you say you WOULD leave him but you don't want to get hurt...girl it sounds like you are already getting hurt. He sounds like he has some trust issues, and dear without trust you have nothing, period. So laugh it up with friends, enjoy your family, kick him to the curb. You'll be glad you did!!
2007-09-24 05:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Rachel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows why some men are so insecure? I view those types as dangerous. You are probably somebody who is considered extremely desirable. Sometimes I wonder who has the worst problems: Lovely women or toads? I also wonder if some women don't secretly WANT to keep their man jealous?
I'm older, but I've still never had satisfactory answers to these questions...but the issues arise somewhere everyday in every corner of the USA.
2007-09-24 05:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by SaturnMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds very difficult. Has he been jealous in other relationships? Or is this just with you? It might be that he feels really insecure, but that is his problem and really he needs to sort that out. There are so many ways to resolve issues like this....maybe therapy or counselling? However, it does put alot of pressure on you but unless you are going out of your way to hurt him then rest assured the problem lies with you. I suppose time will only tell if you the good outweigh the bad in your relationship. But if he gets abusive, just leave. I wish you all the best!!
2007-09-24 05:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by fruitytuttytutty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently this is a new relationship and the element to trust in your relationship has not developed to full maturity. Do not worry so much as this gets better as time goes on. Try to be as patient a possible and try to help him with this problem if you can. Good luck to the both of you.
2007-09-24 05:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is "inbred' into the nature of all guys...it can't be helped...it's like women and "shoes", or purses..but, sometimes it can be toooo much..and can be dangerous! It's very powerfull..and along with it comes "anger" frustration, and a string of other things that can be harmful..and if left un-attended..not a good thing for a healthy relationship..for either of you, not to mention children....or friends too..you think about this..lol..bye..
2007-09-24 05:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. "Diamond" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl what are you think of . This is a control freak . You already unhappy about it . Or you wouldn't have asked this question . NOW is the time to tell him change or kiss it goodbye .This type of person could be come viloent. Remember the movie Sleeping with the Enemy .
2007-09-24 05:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋