2007-09-24 04:24:12 · 35 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I definitely would. In the sense that love is worth maintaining in a relationship, I would certainly take whatever steps necessary to salvage a loving relationship. I am an optimist. I also give with all my heart, soul and spirit. There also must be patience, mutual respect for one another, and that love encompasses all, including mistakes in judgment or because of misunderstandings or motives. This does not mean that deliberate acts of control or violence should be maintained or fought for--anything unhealthy would not be a good reason to maintain a relationship. But, much could be attributed to better means of communication; to become cognizant of one another's space and independence; while at the same time having an innate knowledge and security of what love should consist of in a relationship. "Fighting" to salvage a relationship also has much to do with much introspection and reflection, a lack of selfishness or arrogance, and a willingness to become flexible and compromising with your partner. If love is the cornerstone of the relationship it will burn just as brightly from the beginning and even through hardships. So, in that aspect, love is definitely worth fighting for.
2007-09-24 18:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Certainly I would if I knew that the person I love would rather be in my arms...then LOVE is worth fighting for. However, if I see that she would be in a much better life with the other guy, I might as well step aside and nurse my wounded heart. I wouldn't ever want to drag her to my side foreseeing her brighter and happier future in another love.
Sometimes, letting go doesn't mean being weak;..It just means that your love goes beyond all self-centered reasons,..and your fight with yourself is gracefully won.
2007-09-24 13:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is incomplete without the scenario. If I have to fight with the world that is coming in my way and trying to separate the two of us then I and my partner both will fight the world together. But if he is going willingly to some other girl, then I will not. I don't believe in keeping someone with me forcibly when his affections are shifted elsewhere. I'll set him free even if my life without him would be painful..
2007-09-24 06:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by P'quaint! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the situation. I would fight for love as long as my lover is the victim of some outside influences. However, I would never fight my lover to be in a relationship with me!
2007-09-24 04:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by Andre L 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, we fight for the things we love. if love for a person, someone whom i feel will make me complete, then yes. i'll fight even if it's hard. but i guess, one thing i also have to consider is if what i was fighting for is good enough and worthy. what if in the middle of the battle, he just waves his white flag and surrenders? where will that leave me? . . hmmm. . . i don't know. still figure it out. but for other things like success and family, i'll definitely fight for them. they have absolute worth. =)
2007-09-24 22:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by the lioness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No love should not have to be fought for! It should come easy with out hate or anger remember if it dont come easy you better let it go! That is hard to do, but love should be all about being happy not fighting!
2007-09-24 04:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by just me! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont like fighting not saying that i cant fight its just that to me a boy is not worth fighting over
2007-09-24 07:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by jeminishia w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I stopped fight for lost causes 30 years ago and have enjoyed peace and serenity ever since!
2007-09-24 06:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by THE Cupid HATER 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I am the kind of girl who is very proud, but it depends in what way I should fight. I never tried to compete another woman, I'm scared of the mere thought that maybe one day I will
2007-09-24 05:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by larissa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What's the situation? Love shouldn't have to be fought for, although work may be involved to keep a relationship together.
If someone loves me, I won't have to fight for them...if someone else is trying to lure them away, then they most likely aren't worth having anyway. Someone who really digs you, wouldn't be looking at other options.
2007-09-24 04:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋