Singles & Dating - 24 September 2007

It's very weird. Everytime i finish workout in my gym and go to the sauna, guyz stare at my body, and sometimes they want to start a conversation with me. I find it very unncessary and uncomfortable when i am only in a towel, some guyz comes and says, hey man nice abs or hey man your shoulder is really tonned.

2007-09-24 20:32:23 · 16 answers · asked by Crises_In_Heaven 3

If a guy likes you, do they firlt by buggin you and doing stupid shyt, but it makes u laugh even if the joke is about you? ANd if they play fight...but its in a cute funny way? Does that mean they like you? And if they stare at you, and when their talking they look at you and talk to you about it...???LOL

2007-09-24 20:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by shannon t 1

When I met him, he was nice. After we dated, I realized that he did not treat me like I was used to being treated. I told him that I did not want to see him again, but he persisted. He is acting more like the person I thought he was now. He has become more respectful, and now says that he loves me. He says that I am different from the other women that he has been with, and he believes that I am the girl he will end up marrying.

I am not ready for the marriage part right now, but my question is this---Do guys sincerely change if they fall hard enough for a girl, or is this just an act? I just hate to waste my time, because I will kick him to the curb if he takes me for granted again.

I am a good woman that is not jumping into the sack with every Joe Blow. I take care of myself, and I always try to look especially nice when I am with a gentleman. I have a good job, and I am fairly well educated. Please tell me what you think about this situation.

2007-09-24 20:26:49 · 20 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7

Tired of the bar scene and online dating services. I'm looking for a wholesome unattached female for friendship and romance.

2007-09-24 20:24:26 · 11 answers · asked by dave 1

how can you worship something that tells you that he needs your undevided attention! that he needs your love ,your worship ,your devotion bla bla bla ! tell me something!!!

is he that greedy that he will threaten you with eternal hell and torture if you don't?? and are you doing and saying what you do because you are afraid that you are going to hell?
he chose the Jews as the chosen ppl ,yup he did! jews that kill others in the name of religion! and that is your God???????
you have got to be kidding me and then you wonder when other give you a hard time!!!!!!!!!!

ARE YOU OK WITH THAT?

2007-09-24 20:21:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the best way to keep a distance relationship and what are some tips and does it work?

2007-09-24 20:19:36 · 13 answers · asked by ajay 1

I mean you meet someone on the dating website,then you and he or she fall in love with each other. Do you have any secruity aout your love and how long can it last? I just meet my boyfriend through http://muslimonly.com , we chat and fall in love with eachother, however , we have a lot of problems now. I don't konw how to solve them and i am losing confidence about our love.

2007-09-24 20:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by Maggie 1

we have been going out for 5 months. He says I am the best girlfriend he's ever had. He spends time with me all the time, tells his friends and family about me. They like me, it seems like. It seems he really wants to have a baby. When we have sex, he often say he wants to get me pregnant. Sex is awesome. He came inside of me unprotected a few times and it seems that he really wants to get me pregnant. One time when I confronted that if I really get pregnant, what he wants to do, he wants to have the baby with me and maybe get married. What does this mean? Does he really like me or does he just want baby? I am very happy with me and I know he cares for me but this really wonders me does he like me that much or doesn't he care and he just want baby? Please help!

we are both in mid thirties and both got divorced more than a year ago and first serious relationship after divorce. We spend everyday together.


I want baby too badly but I don't wa

2007-09-24 20:02:33 · 6 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

wat would u think if ur bf gave u these 2 poems.

1st one

Countless people dream.
Countless people desire.
I don’t.
Not any more.
The things I dreamed and desired,
have come to be reality.
What more do I want than your smile,
that lights up my darkest days.
What more do I want than your embrace,
that warms and relieves up my troubled heart.
What more do I want than your love,
which is my reason to keep living.
I will spend the rest of my life with you,
Because nothing can compare to what I have now.
I love you


2nd one

Let me be your sun,
to illuminate your world
Let me watch over you,
with loving eyes
Magnetically drawn,
to revolve around each other
I will be,
the warmth and light in your life
And you,
Will be my world

2007-09-24 20:01:07 · 14 answers · asked by Amour 2

Would you be mad if he didnt call you for the next couple of days? What would you do?

2007-09-24 20:00:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I accept a girl's offer to pay her half of the dinner bill when I already offered to cover the entire thing?

2007-09-24 19:57:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if I accept a girl's offer to pay her half of the dinner bill even after I have offered to cover the whole thing?

2007-09-24 19:53:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not really sure why, just looking for more insight I guess.

I see all these questions from women asking why men are the way they are and so forth. I also see a few about why women are the way they are too.

Here's my problem. I've been actively seeking what I consider to be the perfect woman for me for about 2 years now. I have met a LOT of girls in this time. I am very good friends with almost every girl bartender at every club I hang out at, and a lot have come on to me very strong.

Don't get me wrong, most of these girls are extremely attractive. I'm also 30 and most of these girls are like 21-24. Every man's dream, right? Wrong.

One thing I've noticed about almost every girl I've met (prob like 200-300 in the last 2 years) is that they all seem to be most interested in one main thing about a guy. How much money he has. I want a woman that would be with me even if I were homeless. So men only want sex and women want only money?

2007-09-24 19:49:34 · 19 answers · asked by David W 2

she give him perfume as present in the holydays!!!

2007-09-24 19:45:34 · 6 answers · asked by raven 1

You tell guys that may not know you that you're sick of guys not treating you right (i.e. not following through when they say they'll call, answering their phone during a date when it shows disinterest) and they sit there and call you "high maintenance." How does wanting to get treated with respect make you 'high maintenance'?

2007-09-24 19:41:23 · 14 answers · asked by fbiforensicsgirl 1

how can you tell the difference between a guy trying to let you know that hes not interested or a guy just ignoring you so that you will want there attention more.
if you understand what i mean please help.

2007-09-24 19:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by yeahhhh 1

I just watched the pick up artist on VH1.

I see these guys getting girls, but It looks like the most they could get was a one night stand or something.

I don't want that but I don't really have a choice do I (Im 19 and virgin)

And all the lying, making up all these fake stories, god I'm not the kind of guy who can bring myself to lie to a girl, I'm a horrible liar.

Where the hell can I find some tips for guys who want a real relationship with love BEFORE sex

I'm not saying I want to marry the first girl I date. but then again I can NEVER get a girl and Im always afraid I would marry the first girl who ever lets me.

ARGHHHH I can't stand it, I know I want a girlfriend and sex WITH love I want that serious relationship

but at the same time I know I would never want it to end

but at the same time I don't want to be some loser who marries the first girl he ever dates

but at the same time I don't want to break up with a girl who WOULD be my soulmate

but at the same time

ARGHH IM SO CONFUSED

2007-09-24 19:06:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know why girls will go out with the stoners during high school. Because when they grow up they will most likely be bank rupt and will be goig no where. Instead of going out with the nice guys who have jobs, are loyal, and are not nerdish.

2007-09-24 19:05:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl in one of my psych classes who sits in front of me. She isn't even that young (maybe 22?) She's very cute, and she responds to me well whenever I talk to you. Today when I saw her underwear popped up (she is usually pretty attentive about whether or not her shirt has gone up too high), she made no effort to bring it back down. I even once took my leg and brushed my kneecap off her jeans that were riding a bit low while we were sitting down(she could probably faintly feel it) from behind like it was an accident and she didn't seem to care.

2007-09-24 19:04:31 · 6 answers · asked by Thesheet 1

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2007-09-24 18:50:36 · 23 answers · asked by jackie n 3

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2007-09-24 18:33:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

he thinks im not really having "fun". i admit i am quite but that is only because i have nothing to say or we are listening to music or something. he asks what wrong and i say nothing because nothing is wrong. then after a few minutes i try talking to him and he doesnt wanna talk. then i get mad. then we dont talk for the rest of the day and then later he calls to talk about it. I usually end up saying sorry when i feel it is not always my fault. what do i do???

2007-09-24 18:30:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-24 18:26:52 · 8 answers · asked by haydos 1

Hi there. I am 30 and met what I thought was the woman of my dreams. She seemed different: wants a family, caring, considerate, funny, cute etc. She just told me that she's been with 16 men. She's a little older. I'm 30 but have only been with half that. Is this too many? Should I just walk away?

2007-09-24 18:22:35 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let me just start off and say that we been together for about 2 yrs now. I never had any issues with my boyfriend and I trust him and I know he would never do anything to Intentionally hurt my feelings. This year we both started college at two different schools about 4 hourz apart. At first he would call and txt me all the damn time but lately gettin ahold of him has been a task. and when i ask he's says it just school and that I should trust him by now. It just that he is always on my mind and I dont know what to do about the situation. All my friends just tell me to move on go on to somebody else but my heart is telling me no. What do you think i should do?

2007-09-24 18:21:20 · 11 answers · asked by ifonlyuwereme 1

ok this girl called today at 9 and told me she spent the whole day sleeping thats why she missed our date and i said ok thats cool so i told her upfront if you dont want to hang out dont make excuses i have beter things to do with my time then chase you around, she said she was sorry but sleeping for the whole day i doubt it what do u think, should i give her another chance

2007-09-24 18:19:22 · 5 answers · asked by dean 1

I found this guy on myspace...he goes to my school, and his sexuality is "unsure". I sent him a message, a few months ago (several months ago? idk) about how I was gay and feel free to ask me any questions. We are the same grade btw. Anyways, he never responded to me. Now that I am back in school, I see him practically every day (it's not a large school, but it isn't really all that small) and remembered his unsure status. I went and found him on myspace again, still unsure. We have never talked (no friends that we both hang out with, no classes that are the same, so it would be weird if I randomly talked to him at school. I want to message him again, but I don't want to be creepy >.< if I ask him about his unsurity, would that be stalkerish? I don't want to make him think I'm creepy, some random guy asking about your sexuality >.< What could I put in a message to him? I've already sent him a message, but that was months ago...ps. hes the only other possibly gay guy in school

2007-09-24 18:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A week or so ago I was having a serious conversation with one of my guy friends, who I adore. During the conversation he said to me: "You have absolutely no idea how much I love you." I don't know how to take this because I have feelings for him and I think he found out. He isn't making any moves though and if anything, things are becoming awkward. How do I know whether he meant it in a romantic way or just a friends-only way? What should I do?

2007-09-24 18:15:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous