she must not know about me I can have another her in a minute?

Question

ok this girl called today at 9 and told me she spent the whole day sleeping thats why she missed our date and i said ok thats cool so i told her upfront if you dont want to hang out dont make excuses i have beter things to do with my time then chase you around, she said she was sorry but sleeping for the whole day i doubt it what do u think, should i give her another chance

Answer 1

hay you never know. sometimes the truth sounds like a lie. give her a 2nd shot. you know whats up if it happens again though.

Answer 2

Man, look. Some of us are forced to spend our lives on the sidelines because we just dont have the guts or the looks to treat a woman like that. So, she made an excuse- have you never done the same? Take some time to figure out who she is before you decide you can have another 'her' in a minute. Maybe she's more special than you think.

Answer 3

is this the first time that this happened?

well, my bf sleeps until noon. And he doesnt function well at 2pm. thats about the time he goes to gym. I get crazy, missing him the whole day since i work. Coz i cant stop thinking of him.

But thats the way he is. And I accept that. But missing up on a date... is kinda hard to deal with. Forgive her. She must be really tired. Next time ask for reasons first. Don't go jumping to conclusions that she doesn't wanna hang around with you. :)

Besides its the first time. And if it does happen for the second time... try to schedule your date on a later time that she can make it.

Best of luck.

Answer 4

She called at 9:00 p.m.? Or 9:00 a.m.? If she's sleeping until 9:00 p.m., unless she has the flu, she has bigger problems than missing a date with you. You could try giving her another chance, but she might be depressed or have other problems: I'd watch out, that might be a red flag.

Answer 5

maybe she really was sleeping? that's a lame excuse but it does happen....especially if she's a career girl or was out drunk the night before.....