he thinks im not really having "fun". i admit i am quite but that is only because i have nothing to say or we are listening to music or something. he asks what wrong and i say nothing because nothing is wrong. then after a few minutes i try talking to him and he doesnt wanna talk. then i get mad. then we dont talk for the rest of the day and then later he calls to talk about it. I usually end up saying sorry when i feel it is not always my fault. what do i do???
2007-09-24 18:30:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need to break out of the quiet girl shell and open up more to him! be fun..act silly with him...joke with him! laugh! have a ball..thats what i do when im with my guy because there is nothing fun about someone who wont open up and be more relaxed.....i used to be quiet but now i just dont care..i try to make the best out of life and the little moments and u should too.
2007-09-24 18:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by So Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys are on two completely different pages of the book. If he can't accept that you don't always need to be talking to indicate you are in a good mood--then that's his bad. Have you sat down & explained your personality to him? If you have--and he still doesn't accept it..then I suggest you start thinking that maybe you aren't meant for each other. the guy that you are to be with, should be able to figure out what it means when you're quiet, or when you're talking--and definitely if you TELL him up front what it means. Good luck!
2007-09-24 18:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certianly sounds like communication issues to me. you just have t learn how each other works in that department. Sit him down and tell him why it bothers you when your days end up like that. Explain that you mean what you say when you tell him that nothing is wrong, and tell him that if he feels there s something wrong, you want him to talk to you about it. You can either learn to work this out, or you can go your seperate ways.
2007-09-24 18:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too plenty communique could be a burden to a pair relationships. I used to have a lady chum that we communicated usual. and it decelerate the line it have been given extremely uninteresting. we would be on the telephone or sitting with one yet another and we would possibly no longer have a clue to chat approximately. and we've been the two bored out of our minds. So communique usual isn't too stable. enormously if yall variety new to the relationship. yet because he needs it like that, what i might do isn't communicate with him or do something until he's the only that contacts me, because he needs it that way
2016-10-19 21:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just speak to him about how you feel when you are not in that situation. Tell him that you are just not the kind of person to just talk and talk when you really have nothing important to say. Tell him that he has nothing to worry about, as long as you are with him. Tell him that if you did not want to be with him, you would just say so.
2007-09-24 18:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to be more talkative. you and your bf have communication problems. he's your bf you should try to have fun or make it fun somehow. there has to be something you guys can talk about. you need to talk to him or it'll get worse!! just try..he's your bf...he doesnt care if your wierd or anything..do whatever to have fun! good luck!
2007-09-24 18:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds weird
get a new bf
2007-09-24 18:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about how you feel and if that doesn't work cut him loose, you two aren't going to make it otherwise....
2007-09-24 18:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your b/f may be gay
2007-09-24 18:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by ajriggs26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋