and you lose interest in her as well?
2007-09-24 06:17:42 · 19 answers · asked by . 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. It's not. That's old bitties talk to make girls follow the old christian society line. If that were true, then why wouldn't married men fool around one week after the wedding? (In fact, why should anyone bother getting married?) Guys like girls who like sex, sure. And if you like sex, what the heck does it matter what some guy thinks anyway? If he doesn't respect you afterwards, aren't you lucky to have found that out? And if he respects you, are you glad you found THAT out?
2007-09-24 13:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. That's a falsehood mothers tell their daughters to keep them from putting out, because they don't want to be grandmothers too soon. Now, sex can cause a man to lose interest in a girl, but this isn't because she has sex as much as how she acts during sex. For example, I will lose interest in a girl after sex if she shows no enthusiasm, acts like it's a chore, or acts creepy afterwards. However, I've never respected a girl less for having sex with me. If anything, I respected her more because I didn't feel like she was playing games with me.
2007-09-24 13:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for all guys, that is absolutely false. In no way would I lose respect for a girl that I share something special with, nor would I lose interest in a girl that I found to be highly interesting initially. I hold sex has the highest level of intimacy, therefore don't do it with every girl I find attractive. Since physical attractiveness is the first and most superficial form of intimacy, why would I let that determine my decision to jump to the highest form, sex? no way...if you save sex for someone who you hold special and vise versa, they will never get tired of you, and definitely won't lose respect for you.
2007-09-24 13:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on what stage of your life that you are in. if you still have an immature mind and only think "how many girls can i have sex with" then yes they will lose respect and interest in the girl.
but if the guy is more mature than that and believe that they could spend the rest of their life with this girl then probably not.
i guess it all comes down to if they respect girls in the first place then they probably wont lose that respect for the girl.
2007-09-24 13:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by jbob30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, why would my respect for anybody depend on consensually mutual sexual experiences?
If she never had my respect in the first place, then she won't have it after we have sex.
Is it true that once you have sex with a guy you lose respect for him and lose interest in him as well? Same useless question.
2007-09-24 13:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is true if you are a goof brain out to use a girl for sex only. If you have an ounce of respect for yourself or the girl, you will never use a person like that.
2007-09-24 13:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest guys they like a challenge and some girl that is going to have sex with a guy that they went out on 2 dates with doesnt have any respect for herself...hope this helps....
2007-09-24 13:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by durtyboyz2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will answer for them because they are going to say "of course not" or some other nonsense......YES, YES they do lose respect for a woman once they have sex and lose interest, because that's all they wanted to begin with, and then when they get it, what else is there? So they move on.
2007-09-24 13:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I depends on the intentions of the guy. If he wants to just chalk another girl on his 'to do' list, then of course he'll loose respect for her.
Now if the guy is truly interested in her, he would not pressure her or move on to the next girl because sex isn't the 1st thing on his mind.
2007-09-24 13:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES definately..its way better if u love the person before you do it...if not than they just say that was easy and dont respect you and move on....the best thing i think is for her to play hard to get and not put out for a while and when you love each other put out as much as you want
2007-09-24 13:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by NobodyMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋