first of all i dont care if you think im too young so please dont post anything say that just please tell me the truth.
okay well im in the 8th grade and the guy i like is in the 7th grade. he is my cuzzins friend and he is always over there when i am. he flirts with me and i flirt back. he somehow got my number and calls me too. but my cuzzin tells me that he is a playa and hella girls like him. but then someone else says he isnt a playa. what do you think should i get over him?
ps. theres this guy in my grade that is hella nice to me and is always compliments me i know he likes me and someone told me that he is gonna ask me out should i wait for him??
2007-09-24 05:06:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks to everyone who replied!!!!!
you really helped me
2007-09-24 05:26:00 · update #1
wait 4 the other guy he sounds better 1st off besides i think its so werid 4 girls 2 date guys who r younger then them. u should really think about making that 1 of ur rules 4 guys that u will date that they must be ur age or older then u. its such a turn off to date a younger guy ewww
2007-09-24 05:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by NAF SREWSNA OOHAY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to be committed to anyone, especially in 8th grade (sorry, age does make a difference).
So just keep having fun and meeting people. Don't have sex and then you won't get hurt too bad, even if someone is a playa.
2007-09-24 12:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its entirely up to you. Dont go out with the nice guy in your grade just cause he likes you and he feels like the safe choice. If you really like your cousins friend and he likes you too, try going out with him but just dont get your hopes up. Remember what your cousin said about him being a player. Cause if he does cheat on you, then you won't be too surprised.
Your cousin may also not want you dating his friends which is why he told you hes a player when he really isnt.
2007-09-24 12:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by steffi32086 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you like more? Your cousin may really be trying to help you but you can never know....I dont like judging people so I normally just pay close attention to the person and if I see that they are what I was told then I dont talk to the person anymore. You dont have to get serious right away anyways so go out with him a couple times and if you land up liking him and he likes you then great...if not move on to your plan B...lol
2007-09-24 12:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sales Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant judge a person without getting to know them for yourself-he may be a player he may not....But judging by your post you are more out for the attention than a relationship...you cant keep this second guy hanging around incase the first guy isnt what you want..decide now and no turning back
2007-09-24 12:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by sharon19833 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay all young stuff aside.. Your Cousin warned you away from him.. trust your Cousin. Some of my best friends I would warn my female relatives away from. Doesn't mean i don't get along with them.. They just have relationship issues with women, and I wouldn't want to see my relatives get hurt.
Go for the nice guy. You might like the nice guy as opposed to the "playa"
2007-09-24 12:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by umannjo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i don't think u should listen to anyone for now... just go wit what ur feeling. give the guy a chance. he may have been a "playa" in the past but guys DO change. talk to him about how u feel... i know that's hard but trust me, it'll turn out how its supposed to.. good luck!!
2007-09-24 12:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by jade<33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for the guy you can be yourself with.
I wouldnt go fo rthe playa cause he could play you.
If you go with he nice guy. chances are he wont hurt you nearly as bad as the playa could. If there are rumors that he is a playa its probably true.
2007-09-24 12:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't believe everything you hear, but if you trust your cousin is telling you the truth then you probably should steer clear of him. As to the guy in your class, wait and see what happens. You are young- many guys will come and go in your life, just stay true to yourself and be happy.
2007-09-24 12:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by Suburban Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your cousin is friends with him he probably knows him best.
I wouldn't say get over completely but don't get too close to him be friends with him at first, flirt with him, then when you feel comfortable you can start a relationship with him, just don't make him your world because you have a good chance of getting hurt.
2007-09-24 12:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋