we been living apart from each other for the last 4 months..she broke up with me a month ago...said that she dont love me anymore..since then we never had a conversation
yesterday she message me through windows messenger..
telling me that she will be returning on 26 september 2:15pm..
i replied " ok, have a safe journey home"..out of sudden she was like keep on asking me questions such as how am i doing recently..she even asked me whether is it a good idea to work overseas once she gets home? I asked her to follow her heart as when you gain something you will lose something as well such as a good family relationship
At the same time my friend was chatting with her too...he asked her whether do i still have a chance..she replied that she dont know..she said maybe her life at UK was too busy and got no time to miss me and she said that i was too demanding that time and she got irritated..but dont know how would she feel when she saw me face to face when she comes home
2007-09-24 02:32:59 · 6 answers · asked by LiFE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we been together for almost 4 years....our both 1st love....
Can anyone tell me what is she trying to do?
why she is playing with my mind?
2007-09-24 02:33:56 · update #1
I think she just misses you. I don't blame her for trying to end a relationship knowing that she has to go to school in another country. That is just not fair for you or her if you continue a long distance relationship. Not that it wouldn't work but it would nearly be impossible and selfish.
Everyone misses home one way or another. I'm sure the fact that you two have been with each other as long as you were makes her miss you automatically. You need to be careful that you don't start falling for her all over again. I'm sure she made it quite clear that it's over but wants to know if you are still interested when she needs you around. A break up is a break up. Even as much as you want her back don't let her see that. Do however do what you are doing and be on good terms with her but let her know that you can make it without her.
Good luck, ending relationships is never easy but sometimes its for the best.
2007-09-24 02:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that she isn't playing with your mind
but she's really confused.She want to forgive
u(If she believes that u where truly demanding)
but she don't know if it's right.she is trying to find
her answers within your conversation.now that
you are apart she can remember only the
good times and she doesn't know the reaction
when she'll see u.now the question is if u want
her back ?maybe she's your love.and I really
believe in forgiving.but u must know what she
will truly want from your relationship that makes
her return.Cause if it is just a safe place after she
got her brake to just feel free then eventually she
will leave again.there is no case she is going t tell
u that but ask her and if she says "I miss us,and
our daily root" or she stucks and say nothing then
thats why.for now wait.just leave her make or not
her move when she will return,then she will truly
now what she want's.Avoided contacting with her
alot or answer to these weird questions neutral.
Don't let her know your anxiety and impatients.
2007-09-24 10:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry she's playing w/ your emotions. It seems that she doesn't even know what she's doing... Don't be too available to her though, so she can realize she had something good (which was you), you don't know what you have till you lose it, and maybe then is when she'll try coming back to you... Spend time w/ your friends and keep your mind occupied to keep you from thinking about her as much and wondering why she left you... you don't need that type of stress... if it's meant to be, you two will be back together sooner or later.. Wish you best of luck!
2007-09-24 09:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by N3N@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!my friend i dont think so that he is playing with your feelings for her...i believe that she just wanted to chat with you...because you still to be something special for her life...apart from the end of your relationship i am sure that she still loves you because you spent time together....so i think that if you really want to know her emotions for you just call her or send her a message asking for this...surely its very risky...you can do whatever you want to!!!good luck...
2007-09-24 10:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by kikh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing head games and you need to dump her . she is not worth your time or effort . Move on too many nice girls out there to be with and love . good luck .
2007-09-24 09:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to see if you are still able to be strung along and see how much control she has over your relationship.
2007-09-24 09:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋