We incidentally went to the same restaurant for breakfast ( i was with my mom he was with his mom and grandfather) he totally gave me the cold shoulder and i felt really upset by this so i asked him why and he said his grandfather made some rude comments about me after i left and that he didnt want to expose me to the environment...
2007-09-24 03:47:56 · 26 answers · asked by me_myself173 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a number of things that could be going on:
1. he could have another girlfriend and they've met her!
2. he could be embarrassed about his family members
3. he might feel its too soon to meet the family
4. he may be stoopid!
In either case, he should've talked to you. Giving you the cold shoulder was insensitive and unreasonable. He could have sent a quick text message to explain. Better yet, he could've called - even if he had to go to the bathroom to do it.
2007-09-24 10:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by James D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either embarrassed by you OR them.
Ask around...see what kind of environment he comes from.
He may be ashamed of his family.
Since his grandfather was making rude comments about you...maybe your boyfriend knows that if you had stayed long enough, his grandfather would have been rude to you and would have embarrassed his grandson.
2007-09-24 11:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by ANewLife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the grandfather is rude I wouldn't waste my time trying to get myself introduced. Look for a new boyfriend. Doesn't seem like he feels the same way about you.
2007-09-24 10:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by shellshell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,u kind of have two questions. When a guy doesn't want you to meet his family, that means he is not serious about you or just waiting for the right time. In most cases it is the first. As for the situation, I believe he just want to guard your feelings for now and maybe introduce at a later time. good luck with everything.
2007-09-24 10:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by scn8419 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth of the matter is that your boyfriend is ashamed of you. that was an opportunity for him to introduce you to his family but he couldnt.
maybe he doesnt really like you well enough, if not the introduction would have been the first thing. what did he say was his comment after his grandfathers rude comment. i guess is nothing, he pretended he doesnt even know you.
2007-09-24 11:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by agasco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not his fault then...its his grandfathers...i was going through somthing similar to that at first! The guy i'm talking to at the begining he didnt want to introduce me to his mom or family at all! I didnt push the subject. I gave him time and he delivered!!=)...Just this weekend out of no where he invited me to go to his moms b-day and they had small gathering wit just his family!....Be patient...the guy will let you kno when hez ready!!
2007-09-24 10:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he's embarrased by you or something. Not trying to sound racist but is his family black? I know my sister, who is white, was with a black guy, my grandparents gave her the cold shoulder b/c he was black, which I think is bullsh!t. How do you dress in public? What has your boyfriend said to his grandpa for him to think of ignorant comments?
2007-09-24 10:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend really cares/loves you then you need to talk to him about this matter. Has he met your family? How long have you two been together? I can understand he doesn't want to expose you to that environment but, it has to be done eventually. Ask him what you should expect if you do meet them. Just let him know how you feel about this matter?
2007-09-24 10:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would say he is not all that into you or his grandpa is really old fashioned and set in his ways and he might not be that way and not want you to think he is ask him if you can meet his mom and dad or something,without his grandpa and see what he says if he says no then dump him and move on
2007-09-24 10:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's ashamed of you or them. Would you rather had been openly embarrassed by his grandfather? I think the guy did you a favor. You'd be surprised at the number of people who don't get along with their in-laws. It's not that big a deal, so don't go there.
Stop looking at the negative side of this situation.
2007-09-24 10:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋