I have been dating this guy for a month and he wanna do it with me. I wanna ask if it's too soon? Should I tell him to wait longer? And I heard that guys don't really treasure the relationship if the girl gives him that too soon and too easily, is it true?
Thanks people.
2007-09-24 22:26:43 · 16 answers · asked by An ordinary girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be too soon. You need to have some more weight. You need to be the one in authority and let him know that you're not that easy. My girlfriend (4 yrs relationship now) never gave it easy to me. Took me ages to land her in bed. It was friggin annoying... but yeah, now that i look back to it, i treasure all those "moments of wait" and i truly look up to her as a "Not that easy" kinda person! And yea... I still really really love her...
Well, as by my own experience, a month IS too soon. And yea, a part of that "relation treasuring" bit, it might be true. Coz you know, easy girls are easy to get and (for)get. Personality counts. Take your time and keep it on your side!
2007-09-24 22:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by tenZ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex too early makes men think that "If she'd sleep with me that quick, she'd do the same with someone else." No man wants to be in a relationship with a woman who will sleep with just anyone. The longer you make him wait, the more "special" he'll feel about act when it finally happens.
I'm new to this site, can only adults post here? Because if you're under 18 then I have a different answer which is: Don't have sex until marriage.
2007-09-24 22:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a thing called 'The right time' And such right time means that, both knowing each other, feeling comfortable enough with each other, it seems a natural course to follow for both of you. If this guy likes you as much as you think he does, then he will not want to push you into something that you may not feel comfortable with. And should he suddenly tell you it's over, because you declined his offer to have sex with you then you'll know! His attraction to you was only sexual, thus he wasn't serious.
2007-09-24 22:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so that it is too early one month is a quite long time if u ll want to do it than dont waste time and by the way its nothing like that guys dont really treasure relationship if the girl gives early and all if u love him and he also loves u than everything is fair in go ahead.
2007-09-24 22:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by S S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem very young, so I'mma have to go with what the 1st answerer said. Not all guys are the same, wouldn't matter one way or another, and if you're just holding out to keep him around longer then you will be disappointed and confused.
2007-09-24 22:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by Hater2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends upon the situation....there's nothing to do with giving up to so soon or making it a little bit longer, as soon as you are in-love or liking each other, there is no problem my dear...just keep it up and think positive!
2007-09-24 22:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by hottstuff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you want to look at it from a religious stand point then no because the bible tells us not to have sex until we are married. but if you want to then yes but if you are asking this question and are unsure wait a little longer to find out if you really love each other.
2007-09-24 22:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by soldiers99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have sex until you are both ready. Don't let him force you to do something. A month isn't that long. I know that it is hard to resist sometimes but sometimes it is better to wait. If you aren't ready then just explain that to him and wait.
2007-09-24 22:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by ltcypress_7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it until you are ready. Don't give it up, just because you'll afraid he'll dump you if you don't. If he does dump you for not having sex with him, then he really didn't care about you in the first place, he just wanted sex. If he truly cares about you he will respect you enough to wait until you are ready.
2007-09-24 22:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is far too soon. You should know him at least 16 months before having sex.
2007-09-24 22:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋