Singles & Dating - 28 September 2007

I am in love with him, but it is one-sided. He does care and we talk almost everyday, but he cannot reciprocate my feelings even though he is attracted to me. He is a good guy. This has been going on for a year and a half. I have guys in my life who love me but who I try to not get close to, I have people I meet who want to date me, but I feel frozen - anytime I get in such a situation with another guy. Coz I don't know what to do.

A part of me says "go for it. your guy considers u just a friend. u need to have ur options open. if he isn't committed to u, why should u be". Another part of me says "stay true to him. U love him!".

What should I do?

My guy isn't dating anyone nor does he love anyone.

2007-09-28 09:26:55 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6

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2007-09-28 09:25:03 · 17 answers · asked by roy 4

Seems to me she's a little harder to get, more mysterious and full of suprises. And I repeat............not TOO shy, just a little.

2007-09-28 09:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by smokymtnheaven 2

Are they okay, I really like someone, but they live far away, is it okay to have a relaitionship? Im 16 if that helps...

2007-09-28 09:21:26 · 11 answers · asked by Elise. 2

My sister is 11 years old and she hasnt even started to shave. I really want her to and she wont cuz shes scared she is going to get cut and it freaks her out. Who knows a good age to start shavin?

2007-09-28 09:17:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend went out to the bars last night after work. I can't get into the late night bars yet because I am only 20. I also work at 8:00 in the morning. I guess he ran into an old friend. He said she just reasently got married. He told me her name and that she would like to meet me sometime. "She wanted to meet the girl that stole his heart." I asked if she was an old **** buddy. He said yes. He said she was my first...I said your first, he said not my first but my first for something. I guess he really got her hot and had her on the edge. If you understand what I'm saying. What would you say and how would you react? I was upset and we got into a fight, not just about that but a few other things.

2007-09-28 09:15:23 · 26 answers · asked by Don't be taken for granted! 3

i mean if it was under a dress and you couldn't suspect anything and suddenly you realize she is wearing garters and it's a thing you don't expect her to wear, would you like it or not? would you think it's slutty? or just fun?

2007-09-28 09:06:09 · 22 answers · asked by sarah kay 5

2007-09-28 09:03:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

like i got dis ex and recently he started calln me again, wantin 2 hang sayn nothn changed btwn us but the title and he want2take me 2 da movies and its just alot. and inside alottta feelings r gon on

2007-09-28 08:55:43 · 10 answers · asked by reeldeva 1

i ask this questions cuz i think that my friends think that so yeah....can any one help me....please..thanxz pplz

2007-09-28 08:54:54 · 4 answers · asked by Cassie 1

2007-09-28 08:54:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 08:54:19 · 12 answers · asked by NICOLE 2

Hey everyone I am 13 years old, and I just wanted to know if 13 is an ok age to date? I mean, I know I am still kind of young but next year I will be in High School. I don't know what to do! Can you guys help me?

2007-09-28 08:37:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy says he'll either kill me & himself or kill himself if he doesn't marry me. I no longer want to be with a guy like that. He says he'll change after marriage, but I know that men DO NOT change after marriage. So how do I break up with a guy who claims I'm his life & that no-one ever gave him love before? He has 3 sisters and a mom and his dad left him when he was young but he acts like a martyr & acts as though life has been SOO bad to him. I can;t put up with this melodrama anymore. Hell, even my dad has been having an affair with my aunt for 16 odd years & still is, but I;m not complaining ALL the time. He says he needs me he says I;m his life &on top of that if my dad finds out about this so-called 'bad' relationship (in his eyes) then him & soceity wil kill me. But my mom & the guy;s mom know of the relationship & say we'll HAVE to marry. If I refuse he'll post my intimate emails to him & give them to my society meaning I'll be 'defamed' n be called a ****. How to break up

2007-09-28 08:14:37 · 59 answers · asked by Jealous 1

If you really were hitting it off with a girl, would it change your opinion of her if she slept with you early on?

2007-09-28 08:09:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

lol...whats topics or what to to talk about with a girl?? if u talked about so much with her...that u dont even kno what to talk about anymore lol.......sum1 help me out lol...

2007-09-28 08:09:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 08:09:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked him if he was going to homecoming through an e9mail at school, and then i saw one of his so called friens come over and read my email. Now my intention was merely to see if he was going and if so with who, and if he wanted to go to dinner afterwards wth a group of people but he said he had a date. I said " Ok thanks anyways, thought it'd be fun", and then affter class the girl tells everyone I love him.. I was just asking, and I was okay with him having a date. I held my cool then, but I'm just wondering why she was like that? And I knoew he's lying bout the date he has, he does like me but made that up and I'm also wondering why..?

2007-09-28 08:07:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a girl on here the other day and we swapped naughty pics etc. I am 28 and live in Halifax, she is 19 and lives in Brighton. Is it fair that she would be looked on a slag when we both had such a fun time? I think there is nothing wrong with that kind of behaviour myself....

2007-09-28 08:05:32 · 24 answers · asked by Carl M 1

I personally know a teacher that teaches the 4th grade and she's very good looking. Aside from the little boys having a crush on her, she is exemplary in her professional demeanor. In getting to know her, I found out that she moonlights as a dancer and just wondered if there is anything that can be "conflicting" about the two. I mean, what if the kids find out?..What do you all think?

2007-09-28 08:04:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my neice is 16 and her b/f is 20? my sister and brother in law approve and they know they are sexually active. She has got the sex talk and even tooken to the gyno for more info. She is very aware as it seems of the consecuences. She is on birth conrtol, but my sister watches her like a hawk, she is well trusted but watched carefully. He is a respectful guy and they have been dating for around a year. Im curious to know how others see it as?

2007-09-28 08:04:54 · 4 answers · asked by jae 2

ok.... im single mom with a 1year old would it be wise to tell a guy on the first date that i have a daughter or should i hide it and tell him a couple dates after??? not that i want to hide it cuz i love my little girl but i find that many guys dont want to deal with the aggravation of a daughter thats not theirs. what should i do????

2007-09-28 08:01:13 · 29 answers · asked by singlemama 2

like old loves and stuff like that. well just wondered i always did and got the chance to talk after many years

2007-09-28 07:57:31 · 9 answers · asked by LOLO 3

i am "small" and it is embarrassing. What can I do?

2007-09-28 07:55:43 · 2 answers · asked by i_smith_2007 1

We broke up not that long ago but he still calls...i've told him many times that i dont want to talk to him....we moved in together and lived together for a couple months but right after i did that i found out that it was a big mistake all we did was fight and he would get mad because i wouldnt want to have sex with him, so i moved out....and we broke up but he still calls me and textes me ....i feel so bad for him....i dont know what to do : (

2007-09-28 07:51:18 · 22 answers · asked by new mel 2

Hi, I have been hiding something from the person I recently met. I feel like he won't even touch me if I tell him. I really like him and I don't want him to find out. The problem is I don't know how much longer I can hide it from him (he's eventually going to want "some"). I was born with a defect and I have both the organs of a man and a women but I totally look like a women. I feel really guilty about not telling him. I don't think he notices but every time I hug him from behind I rub my willy on his peachy butt. It feels so good. Please, give me ways on how to delay the inevitable.

2007-09-28 07:50:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

and my friend also kisses me on my lips and she always want to play with hair what is she trying to tell me

2007-09-28 07:49:05 · 19 answers · asked by sambaking900 1

2007-09-28 07:48:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help!

Not knowing what to do, I took the poor dead thing home with me, and cried all night. They've been looking around all day for it. Should I bury it, take it back and leave it by the bushes, or tell them what happened? I love my boyfriend so much, and I don't want to lose him, but this cat was his baby.

2007-09-28 07:45:44 · 15 answers · asked by Becca 6

Why are guys on the net so much different than guys who you meet in person? It seems like their are more jerks on the net. Why do some act nuts here? not all but some?

2007-09-28 07:45:15 · 17 answers · asked by hiss 1