If you really were hitting it off with a girl, would it change your opinion of her if she slept with you early on?
2007-09-28 08:09:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I'd think she was too easy and probably had been with 100 other guys so I would just use her then toss her away when I got bored with her.
2007-09-28 08:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K all these guys saying it wouldn't bother them... ask them about their relationship status and history? Ego and bullshit aside. Yes, any guy worth having a relationship with is worth waiting until you have a commitment. A guy will not take you as near as seriously and the slightest thing in the future will make him think you jumped in the sack with someone else as easy as you did him. When you do that you're destroying the foundation of trust before it ever has a chance to be built.
2007-09-28 15:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by davemustang262001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I wouldn't have slept with her until I was married to her. My wife and I were virgins on our wedding night and have never regretted it over 29 years later. We never had sex until it was legal and proper. If she had been the "sleep around" type of girl, I never would have dated her. Sex was originally intended, besides being the means of reproduction, as an expression of love between a married couple. Playboy and Hollywood have perverted what sex was supposed to be. It wasn't intended to be like a neighborhood dog running around trying to mate with all the other dogs in heat. True love found in the Bible in 1 Corinthians13 "The Love Chapter" would have us act differently. Read it and see how love was meant to be.
2007-09-28 15:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by hitting it off. Some guys consider it hitting it off if they sleep together, and a waste of time and effort if they don't.
Also, what is early on? a week after meeting? a day? 3 hours? 30 minutes? Then also consider locale, and other factors....like was oral involved, what about kinky stuff. See all that complicates you question.
3 months after at least 6 dates, eeh, maybe a bit up tight,
1 month. after 3 dates......maybe introduce her to mom
2 weeks, after 2 dates.....second opinion needed
1 week, 1 date..................ah a new toy
1 day..................................mark on the list
12 hours............................ look at each other again in the light
less than 1 hour........pay her, and go get a shot of penicillan
2007-09-28 15:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by fyrecrowe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would. If she's willing to sleep with me early on that means she's probably slept with other guys early on. It would make me question her judgment. If a girl doesn't have good judgment then that leads me to believe she isn't very smart or has little self respect.
2007-09-28 15:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make sense. Why would someone sleep with you and then change their opinion of you afterwards?
The point is that if they dump you after then they really never intended for any type of relationship in the first place.
Here's a way to avoid this, don't do it.
2007-09-28 15:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by m_c_m_a_n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...because I am all about spontaneity and chemistry...if we are having a great time whether it's the twentieth date or the second date...and doin the deed will top off the moment perfectly and we are both feeling the same way...it happens and I don't feel any differently about her.
2007-09-28 15:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by IDIOT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Some people are very intune with their bodies and enjoy sexual contact. It would simply build into my opinion of her that a relationship is more enjoyable for her if it has a physical nature.
2007-09-28 15:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo!!!!! that will worse the case because I don't want a girl to capture my attention on her by having sex with me. but it can also depends on why I'm hitting it off, if it's because she doesn't want to have sex with me, then I can change my mind but if am hitting it off because of something else then am sorry.
2007-09-28 15:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by darlingK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
because somytimes girls just want the same as guys bu we all must remember that we must leave something for us to come back to each other for
2007-09-28 15:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋