I am in love with him, but it is one-sided. He does care and we talk almost everyday, but he cannot reciprocate my feelings even though he is attracted to me. He is a good guy. This has been going on for a year and a half. I have guys in my life who love me but who I try to not get close to, I have people I meet who want to date me, but I feel frozen - anytime I get in such a situation with another guy. Coz I don't know what to do.
A part of me says "go for it. your guy considers u just a friend. u need to have ur options open. if he isn't committed to u, why should u be". Another part of me says "stay true to him. U love him!".
What should I do?
My guy isn't dating anyone nor does he love anyone.
2007-09-28 09:26:55 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um, I think your my best friend bcuz your profile looks to be her and she has the same situation. Email me please :)
Like I would tell her " How long are you going to wait for someone to prove that they care about you?" A year and a half is a long time. He already knows now that he does not need to commit to you because you have let this go on for so long. Maybe he is afraid of it, but that is not your job to try and make him commit for the rest of your life. You only live once and why waste waiting for him when so many other great guys can make you happy. Maybe if you really STOP hanging out with him, and make it known that you need a commitment or nothing, you will see what he really wants from you. But you have to do it long enough for him to think, " shi& she really means it this time and I could lose her" ....just my opinion....
2007-09-28 09:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by holiday♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, get on get moving. He is using you. If he wants you for a friend then be his friend but do you want to wake up one morning and find out that you want to be married and have a family and you wasted all this time on someone who is your friend? It is not necessary for you to waste your time being true to someone who is not in to you. Go live life take a risk have some fun meet a man. It is not right to love someone who does not love you back.
2007-09-28 16:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by teresa m 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on. why "stay commited" to a guy that doesn't even love you back? you need to find a guy that's gonna love you as much as you love him. go out and find him. good luck hun :)
2007-09-28 16:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want the true answer, ask him....say do you love me, see his response.....you should be a lot more clearer on what is going on after that.....should be a big conversation....I hope for the best, best of luck!
2007-09-28 16:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by DN1503 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋