My ex and I split accrimoniously, after months of him treating me badly but insisting his behaviour was normal and I was the one with the problem (shouting, swearing, pushing, humiliating, controlling, intimidating, telling me I was f*cked up in the head, pathetic etc).
I asked him back a couple of times, in low points... For which I am really annoyed at myself for. He emotionally abused me for months on end, and it's only taken me a while to get over him.
I have to, regrettably, remain in contact with him as we have many mutual friends and there are a couple of birthday's coming up with parties and then going back to his house afterwards.
I e-mailed him to say I would like to be there, but would only come to the bar bits, not back to his house. He said I had to get over him, and that he wants to be friends.
I sent him a very detailed e-mail listing all the things he had done to me in our relationship that had hurt me and said that if he apologised for them, then I would
2007-09-28
01:58:40
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