should i dump my bf coz he does not have money? he wants to marry me but my family seem not to lik hm coz poor

Question

my love for him is developing and he is a hard worker- doing his own construction business but am also begining to feel insecure tho he plans to go and further his education. he really loves me and treats me well with respect. he is down to earth, God fearing and helps me with my education (am studing accounts)... are poor men not supposed to get married and be love

Answer 1

I your Heart has tremendous Love for this Poor man, you will not wait to ask for any opinions about poor and their right to marry. Your Action will decide what you felt and what you thought about him.

Your Insecurity about yourself should be seen clearly that you are not using the poverty of your b/f to dump him by asking opinions from Strangers who are just Quakes dishing out any advice for 10 points.
Do what your heart tells you. Experience your life with this man. who knows he may turn out to be another Carnegie or Bill Gate after your Love and marriage to him lifts up the spirits of this Poor Man.

Answer 2

Money, should never be apart of true love. Well when you met this man and fell in love with him did you let others tell you then how or how not to feel? When you find love, you find yourself with a smile on your face; no worries in the world can hide your love from anyone that knows you! Love is the one thing is life that can snap you right back into place no matter what else is going on in your life, love will be there stronger than anything else in this entire world. Try not to fall into the trap of letting other’s tell you how you should or should not do! Are you a grown lady? Then why would you even ponder the idea that someone else knows you better than anyone else! You should know what is and is not best for you! You should now and understand how your heart feels! How much has this one person changed your outlook in life? Ask yourself some few short questions. Is this man the one man that makes you smile, laugh, do you share everything with this one person? Are you ready to open up your heart and soul to share the rest of your life with this person and be happy in love? Do you both have the same feeling and goals in life? Look into your future and ask yourself, “Am I ready to love just this one man, have a family, be responsible, trust him, have respect, dignity, honor, and love”, “Does he share the same things and outlook as I do”. Love is the one thing no one person has control over. When we do find it no one can or should be able to tear it apart, if this does happen someone has a scare on their heart for life. Make sure you love one another before you look to anyone else for the answer. If you love this person you should stand side by side and love hold you together no matter what happens.

It shouldn’t matter whether he is rich or poor, when you love someone you love them no matter what. Do you know a lot of rich business men started out just like your boyfriend? We all have to start somewhere and it helps to have the love and support of a great lady. Have you ever thought that this man maybe your one true love and that you both can build a loving relationship, family and business, all at the same time?

Money does NOT buy love!!

I wish you the best of luck:):)

Rags37:):)

Answer 3

Money is a big issue. If you are going to worry before marriage, you might worry after marriage. Getting a husband liked by your family is very important. But i believe your family just want the best for you, if the guy can give you happiness and love, you have nothing to worry about. You are marrying the guy, not your family.

You say poor men not supposed to get married and be love. This is just a bias statement. Think it through what you really want. If you want a rich hubby then dump him, stop wasting anyone time. If you are happy with your life, continue to grow this relationship and be happier.

Good Luck! =)

Answer 4

I think you should stay with him at least he has a job and wants to better himself poor or not!
You sound as though u are in early stages of relationship so I wouldnt worry about marriage just yet until u have ajob and things too. We have come a long way since the days that the male are the sole providers was the only way of life. His business may take off you never know! He sounds like a keeper hope u have a happy relationship

Answer 5

When you first started dating this man, you knew he was wealthy but now that your family has voiced opinions you now have doubts about him. It's said that he may not have money but you're a lot poorer than him. He's not spilling money out of his pockets but he treats you well and those are your words. He could be rich and treat you like dirt. Guess what Sweetie Pie he could be rich and not have interest in you. It sounds as though your family wants you to be a gold digger. If he has his own business that he's working to build and you're obviously not making a lot of money since your taking some sort of classes why not build a Fortune 500 life together. You listen to your family and I promise you the next guy will treat you like dirt.

Answer 6

You shouldn't even be asking this!! Yeah go and dump the guy that works hard, treats you well, loves god, helps you out and find you a rich man whom will treat you like crap. He'll also prob cheat on you and use you like a trophy. Oh but your parents will love a rich guy, and what your family thinks is way more impotent then true love right?

Answer 7

i think you should stick with this man . if he treats you right and loves you and shows you respect that should be all that matters not whether he has money or not . without being rude this sounds to me like your family is very shallow if all that matters is the material things . look at it this way if you met someone who treated you really bad would you stay and be unhappy just because he had money .do your own thing and more important the thing that makes you happy .

Answer 8

if he has his job and he works hard then there's no point for you to dump him. you should be supportive about his plans. you should not let your family be the one to decide for you but ask for their suggestions. you and your bf are the ones involved in this situation and both of you should decide. tell him how u feel about this and make solutions. but if you're sure and willing to give this a try then go and marry him--money should not only be the factor in building a relationship. if you have doubts on this and you're not sure, then think twice.

Answer 9

I'm dating a working man,who is not rich with money. The love we have for each other makes us rich with happiness. I can't put a dollar amount on our relationship. Its a blessing to even find someone.

Answer 10

My dad told me once, when you look for a partner, look for someone who knows how to "do business", (someone who knows how to earn even if life's hard, even if everything seems so down & hopeless), he didn't ask me to look for someone who's rich. - coz 'Easy come [money] easy go.'

You love him, he loves you. What's the problem? and.. Everyone deserves to be loved!!!!

And oh, I'm sure that because he loves you, he'll strive hard to give you whatever you need.