my neice is 16 and her b/f is 20? my sister and brother in law approve and they know they are sexually active. She has got the sex talk and even tooken to the gyno for more info. She is very aware as it seems of the consecuences. She is on birth conrtol, but my sister watches her like a hawk, she is well trusted but watched carefully. He is a respectful guy and they have been dating for around a year. Im curious to know how others see it as?
2007-09-28 08:04:54 · 4 answers · asked by jae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where I live girls are married or shacking up and pregnant at 14. Some of the hookers are 16, and it is legal here. Now ask that question from that perspective.
2007-09-28 08:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your niece is 16, so meaning thereby she is not legally adult as yet.
Only her parents have a right to comment or question this relationship of hers with a boy. If her parents are comfortable, then there is no point in passing any judgements.
2007-09-28 15:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Andrep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like they are doing everything right. as long as the parents aprove there really isnt much u or any of us can say to change it. the girl and boy are fully aware of the risks of having sex, and they are obviously aware of the rewards. i think the parents are doing everything they can to educate their daughter and its good that they are keeping an eye on the situation. i dont think u have anything to worry about. i think u are a good aunt for worrying though. good luck.
2007-09-28 15:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by shutupndrive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is treating her well I see nothing wrong with it, although I would carefully watch for signs of problems. 16 is too young to get serious, she will probably date others later when this breaks up.
2007-09-28 15:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋