Singles & Dating - 4 October 2007

wel last week i was chattn to an old mate of mine and he asked me if my frend who iwas tryn to set hm up with is still single. myfrend was on an off with her bf so i thgt i shud ask her and see what she says.
i txt her and she told me to giv hm her other numbr whch her bf doesnt knw she has....
wel wen i start tellln dis guy abt my frned he realises dat he already knows her and knows that she has bf!!!
so i jus say to hm she broke up with hm last week..but told hm to leave it for now...
then my frned she txts me sayn my bf read ur txts and hes really pissd off with you!!!!
and he wants me to choose between u an hm becasue he thnks im not a good frned to hav wantd to ruin her relationshp by gettn anothr guy involved...
now she xt me sayn that shes goin to send me a mean msg telln me that her bf doesnt approve of her talkn to me so she wants me to stop txtn her an stuff and wantd me to send one sayin dont worry il leave u alone for good now!!!just thngslik that so she cud prove2hm

2007-10-04 23:51:37 · 10 answers · asked by bushra s 1

2007-10-04 23:44:11 · 10 answers · asked by Beautiful Glory 4

I was dating my b/f for nine months. I was really into him, and I thought he was into me. Right toward the end, rather unexpectedly, he broke up with me. He says its because he doesn't want to be a stepfather/can't deal with my kids. He can't see his own children much because of the custody problems. I've tried to include him with the children and we all love him. I told him we should seek counseling and I would try anything to keep things together. For awhile we didn't speak. So I gave up. He got a new g/f, but apparently that didn't last. He called me about eleven months after the fact, and wanted to come over. He said he still thinks about me and misses me, etc.. He spent the night. He said he would call. He hasn't. I called once but didn't leave a message. I still love him and I haven't wanted to date, meet anyone new. I want him to make the move since he was the one who broke up to begin with (this was the third break up). I want to call him? should I? any advice?

2007-10-04 23:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by hawaiiwahine71 1

How can i get this guy who isnt in my classes or grade to notice me? i only see him round school at lunch or interval. what small things can i do to get him to notice me? should i try waking in to him "accidently"? i need tips :)

2007-10-04 23:14:39 · 11 answers · asked by Your A DWARF ON STILTS!!! 4

Many people say that theres no need to worry if your beautifull or ugly, cause one day you will find a guy/girl that will love ya! Well i think thats Bulls**t, cause i dont want to find a girl when im like 25 years old, and i realy think its unfair cause ugly people to find a girl they have to realy try hard for it but beautifull people dont need to do anything about it, it just comes every day, why did god made it this way ffs.

So basicly ugly people are like always sad cause they cant kiss or make love with the girl they realy love and that is realy unfair. But some people dont even care about girls and dont even care about them selfs, and thats stupid.


There has always been a girl that, the only think i want from her is to like me, and i dont want to be with her just to f**k her, i want to BE with her to know her to hug and kiss her nothing else, WHY CANT THAT COME TRUE!! WHY SO UNFAIR!

and here is a pic of me http://photos1.hi5.com/0006/248/290/UiFtZ5248290-02.jpg

2007-10-04 23:11:04 · 13 answers · asked by dionisis50 1

A guy I have been seeing for a bit, we have been arguin a lot and I dont really think he sees me as a priority. He has been treating me rather coldly and he says its my fault as I insulted him now he is quite cold to me and rude. He lives put of town and he is coming to town this week end, I got mad at him and called him a B*****d cos he has really been treting me like crap and we have had sex. Any way last nite he was like he will try to see me this week end and he is not making any promises. I rang him to talk to him then he tells me we should take a break in the presesnce of his friend. He then txt me saying "Now you are getting on my nerves I have dealt with you in a mature manner but u seem to not understand me, we had sex, everybody has sex I did like you which led to lur passion but your attitude stinks, when you grow up give me a call, we are still friends." This coming from a guy who I spoke to and said he would try and see me. I replied him saying no worries about seeing me

2007-10-04 22:44:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do people think about this:
What age is too young for sex? I am 16, and my boyfriend is 18. We have been been going out for 4 months, and we both love each other, and have never felt this way about any other previous relationships and are both into long term commitment.

2007-10-04 22:13:29 · 11 answers · asked by bloodyy_beats 1

HI, tonight is been a horrible night! I know my husband for 1 year and 9 months we had a daughter 8 months ago everything was perfect before we had our baby we used to have sex almost every night, I mean wild sex! and it seem to e that he loved it, well After I had my baby we had sex maybe 3 times a week, but is been like 4 months that we only have it three times a month!
He comes from work watches TV for like 30 to 45 minutes then he eats then play the play station, spends a little bitof time with our baby! then do homework for like 2 hours then gets in the shower, he goes to bed sometimes and doesnt say good night! and today we had and argument because he doesnt want to do anything with me, and he says that he's very tired and needs to get some sleep for next day to work! I told him that sex is very important in a marriage and he said that it is not important to him, and I say that he was very wrong and imature for saying that, because sex is one the the things that keeps marriage!
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31 minutes ago
Sex is one the the things that keeps a marriage alive! anf he said that I was the childish one cause I dont understand that he's tired and we should have sex early, but we live with my parents, so we cant have sex early! and the baby doesnt sleeps until 12:00 pm, so we cant do it anyway, I dont know whats wrong with him, I feel like he doesnt love me or see me atractive! I know hes not cheatig on me but a man cant live without sex either! Help me please!

21 minutes ago
I dont like to be the one who always starts the sex! when we have sex he goes straight to you know where, Im sick of it, I wish he was the one who kisses me all over, but no Im the one who does all that, I have talk to him about it many times, all he did tonight was left the room and sleep in the couch didnt say good night to our baby either like everyother night! is wierd cause Im his 3 girls that he has sex with,
I am a very sexy woman Im not fat, I dont know what Im doind wrong!

2007-10-04 22:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Ursula M 2

Im 18, my girlfriend is 16. We've had a long distance relationship for over 2 years and get to see eachother about once a month. anyways, I love her and my plan was to move to Missouri (She lives in Missouri, I in Kentucky) after I graduated and go to college there to be with her, and then we could be together you know? Well I have been talking about my career choice to her for a while, and at first she was okay with it, untill i told her shed have to move with me to L.A. or Nashville for the career I want. (I'm going to be a recording engineer and eventually a producer of a recording studio and one day found my own. I know people will say "dont have big expectations in the music industry, but I have family that actually work in a recording studio in Nashville as a stuido musician, and in L.A. that work on post production audio for Dreamworks, so I have connections. Im getting a major in buisness, a minor in music, and going to recording school) Well when she found out that we would have to move she said that if I chose this career choice, that she would not go with me. She said she wouldnt move for me (although im moving to missouri for her), because she doesnt want to be away from her family. I dont want to give up my dreams as I love audio engineering (I currently do recording work in a studio in my basement i built). Should I follow my dreams, and pursue this carreer, or give it up and stay with her?

2007-10-04 21:55:15 · 10 answers · asked by Maxwell 1

theres a guy in my school who isnt in my grade or ANYTHING how can he notice me? i need little things i can do. like little things to make him remember me. :)) this boy is totaly cute. :P hope he isnt the jerk type, im pretty shy so dnt get too outrageous lol.

2007-10-04 21:17:07 · 7 answers · asked by Your A DWARF ON STILTS!!! 4

i have a boyfriend but we have a long distance relationship because he was working. he was 21 and i'm 16.. we only meet each other once a month.. one time we meet at the hotel and we almost had done sex.. but thanks it dit not happen.. what we did is just making each other's body happy.. yes, he had seen mywhole body.. the problem is that my parents don't want me to have a boyfriend that's why our relationship is in secret.. i feel that i am fooling my parents.. what shoul i do? should i broke up with my bf? but i love him he even ask me to get married but i'm still very young.. help me plz...

2007-10-04 21:11:27 · 10 answers · asked by tin 1

WE fight for everything and anything

2007-10-04 21:01:48 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1

I always have the last word in the relationship. I need someonewho will not do what i say all the time. How can i like a guy more that he likes me? please help.

2007-10-04 20:57:55 · 20 answers · asked by bebe4u 2

A survey shows the last one are more amazing. Is it?

2007-10-04 20:51:39 · 14 answers · asked by told.y4! 3

I got a guy friend who has told me he has only been in 3 relationships two lasting a year each and the one at the mo bout two yrs so far. Anyway he said he dumps them as soon as they act different ie have a hissy fit. The girl hes been going out with has been in uni for the past yr or so so he sees her on breaks and two days aweek other times. Do u think it will work as this is the second time he has been engaged to a gal and people think theyre not a good match. Why he told me this i dont know as i havent known him that long.

2007-10-04 20:31:28 · 2 answers · asked by jesabel1234 1

I'm 34 and I've been seeing this much younger guy, he's 22. It was supposed to be a no strings sex thing between us then we got more personal. We both were acting like we were actually in a relationship. Then he got scared and said that i am too attached and now he just wants to be friends, etc. ( i know that's not true cuz the sex is great!!!!!)
We have not talked in over a week now and i've ben sending texts and called twice and he only responded ot 1 of my texts. my friend said i should stop sending him desperate texts and lay off for awhile, then apologize and say i was just tripping and all i want from him is to have booty calls from time to time. do u think he'll buy it cuz that is all i really want. i just got carried away. do u think it's too late or what can i say for another chance?

2007-10-04 20:28:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know i already asked this before but i didnt really get any good answers so i ask agan

i tend to retrieve peoples information accidentally, like i see a phone number and its like branded into my brain. and i know where they live and that stuff is this considered stalking its not on purpose i am just really good at retrieving info

2007-10-04 20:21:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend accidently went overboard.. to the extend we almost had sex.. we promised not to but well it was an accident..
anyway, we realized it could not go in.. as in we tried so many times but it jus wouldn't go in.. why? we tried so many positions.. lying down, standing up, sitting down, dog style.. and alot of other ways but it wouldn.t go in..
he said when he wanted to go in, i suddenly was dry.. is that a reason to why it cant go in? or is he jus too big? or were we too frustrated that we weren't relaxed enough? what's wrong with us?
the funny thng is we both have done it before with previous partners and it went in before.. it's jus we cant.. whats wrong??

2007-10-04 20:15:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

WE HAVE A CLIENT. I WONDER WHY HE ALWAYS COMES BACK IN THE OFFICE. THEN ONE DAY, HE ASKED MY OFFICEMATE(JUN) ABOUT ME AND IF I CAN GO WITH HIM FOR A COFFEE. THEN MY OFFICEMATE TOLD ME ABOUT IT. I JUST SAID HE SHOULD ASK ME PERSONALLY. AND THEN THE OTHER DAY, HE COMES BACK AND PERSONALLY ASK ME FOR A COFFEE. WE SET A DATE AND HAVE OUR DINNER TOGETHER. I BRING MY SISTERWITH ME COZ I STILL DON’T KNOW HIM THAT MUCH YET AND AT THE SAME TIME I’ M KINDA SHY WITH HIM. HE DID NOT COME TO THE OFFICE FOR 5 DAYS. BUT WHEN HE CAME BACK, HE JUST TOLD ME THAT HE GOT A PROBLEM WITH HIS HOUSE THAT’S WHY HE FAILED TO VISIT OFFICE. BUT HE DON’T NEED TO EXPLAIN. SO WHAT IF HE DIDN’T COME BACK! EARLIER THAN THAT, MY BOSS TOLD ME THAT HE SAW HIM WITH OTHER GIRL. MY GOD, I DON’T EVEN CARE IF HE’S DATING OTHER GIRL. IN THE FIRST PLACE, I DON’T HAVE ANY AFFAIR ON HIM. THEN HE CAME BACK AGAIN IN THE OFFICE AND TOLD AGAIN MY OFFICEMATE (JUN) BOUT THE GIRL HE DATED AND HE SAID THAT HE DOESN’T LIKE THE GIRL ( I DON’T KNOW WHY HE’S EXPLAINING ALWAYS). HE’S ALWAYS IN THE OFFICE NOW. AND JUST NOW, HE SAID I LOOK GOOD TODAY.

2007-10-04 19:49:45 · 7 answers · asked by mitchy 2

It's been 6 months since I broke up with my ex-gf. She was super gorgeous, I was lucky to have her.

I am an average guy, I am average in sports and almost in everything. I am looking for a new gf, and move on from my past. I know I don't deserve very nice looking girls, because I just an average guy.

The thing is I can't really find average-looking girls attractive, so, how to make myself interested to average-looking women?

2007-10-04 19:48:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thank you to every one who helped me with my first question, but i still dont understand why my friend would keep going back to this guy who she knows is only going to cheat on her time and time again? Does anyone have an explination?

2007-10-04 19:34:22 · 4 answers · asked by ZoZzA 1

We are really good friends. But I like him a lot. I keep trying to covince myself that I don't like him, but I can't seem to get him off my mind. He always talks about this other girl who he likes. And he asks me how to get her to notice him. But I wonder: How do I get him to notice ME?

2007-10-04 19:32:25 · 16 answers · asked by Annie C 1

2007-10-04 19:29:16 · 10 answers · asked by hannah 1

i broke up with my boyfriend or 5 months a month ago, and even after we broke up, we kept talking on the phone for about a month. i still loved him and i know he still has feelings for me too. he was constantly giving me hopes for a patch up.

until one day after a quarrel, he stopped calling me.when i asked him why, he said he had moved on and he doesnt feel like talking to me.

i am very heartbroken, i tried to move on. but i cant. i just cannot forget him.what should i do now? should i tell him that i will wait for him or just act like it doesnt affect me?

2007-10-04 19:26:55 · 19 answers · asked by thegangygirl 1

ok so who do you think should pay the bills at the start when a girl moves out of her house to move in with her boyfriend? or what do you think of those selfish mans that say girls are suppose to pay to?

2007-10-04 19:18:40 · 31 answers · asked by my 3

me and my ex still have sex and hang out a lot. but i've been seeing this new guy recently and he acts so jealous. the thing is, when i talk to my ex about it, he says he has feelings but doesn't want a relationship. he won't really explain in detail. he's about to go to med school though, and will be about 4 hrs away from me. nevertheless, he's always been sort of a jerk to me during our relationship (talked about other girls a lot) and left me for some other girl that i thought wasn't his type (but apparently was). anyway, i'm just confused bc sometimes i have feelings for him and sometimes little things he does annoys me. what should i do? also, what's a good way to meet new guys in college (as a senior)? i go to a lot parties but i'm not interested in stupid guys who drink all the time. I'm also in an organization, but the guys in there are too nerdy. now that i'm a senior there really seems no point in starting anything new with someone, but i still want something. what to do??

2007-10-04 19:08:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-10-04 19:06:22 · 6 answers · asked by zoro 1

Everytime i see her, i get that feeling inside. Every night i just sit there and think about what to do and what it would be like if we were together. I have a few dillemas though. Shes 16 and im 15, however were still really good friends. We dont go to the same school but i see her every weekend. We are great friends, we talk every night and our conversations are funny and great and all but i still want to be something more to her. I dont wanna just be her friend i want to be WITH her. Im scared as hell to tell her how i feel and im not really sure if she likes me like that back. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-10-04 19:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by Cameron Malakouti 1

What are some specific questions i can ask my bf? Like to get to know him better, he says he'll tell me anything so give me any questions. I wanna know lotsa stuff bout him but idk how to be specific enough so HELP plz...thanx

2007-10-04 19:01:55 · 8 answers · asked by mrz.charmed 2

im 14 and im going to be singing this song on stage soon with a band. ive got the agressive voice for it. http://youtube.com/watch?v=ymxbkmiojlu...

its by iron maiden. what shoudl i wear? leather pants, denim vest, spandex leopard tights? what you rekon?

2007-10-04 19:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous