Singles & Dating - 4 October 2007

My friend met this guy online. She brags that he is rich and comes from a rich family and he was going to law school and all this BS. At first all of us were happy for her! . Well, Its been 10 years and they haven't met yet and she still keeps talking like he is this wonderful man and how he just loves her and there having this big huge wedding.. and I just blew up.. I was like YOU HAVEN'T EVEN MET HIM.. AND ITS BEEN 10 YEARS!! IF HE IS SO RICH WHY CANT HE FLY TO SEE YOU, OR HE FLY'S YOU TO LA TO SEE HIM..I just got tired of the same old story for 10 years. Everyone is laughing at her and just making fun of her. I told her she was making an *** out of herself and she was just like a deer in headlights.. OMG.. I told her that she was stupid to believe that this guy was for real. Every time they have a weekend to see each other he makes up an excuses. The best one was that his mother died and he cant go to Harvard anymore cause he wants to be near his family, But yet if someone loves you that much wouldn't you think she would get her fat *** on a plane and go see him or him want her to be there. but oh nooooo. I do know he is real cause i have talked to him on the phone! .. So, if im wrong for blowing up and telling her I cant be hear another word about his guy who is from planet don't exist. I will apologize to her. Doest anyone out there belives this! Even her own mother was like give it a rest!

2007-10-04 19:00:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

it doesn't does it?

2007-10-04 18:59:28 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-04 18:58:23 · 18 answers · asked by msflodeen 1

we are going to a a friend bday dinner then going for drink this saturday, this is gana be the possible last chance i gana see her for at least a few months, cause im moving college 2-3km from each other's college. we are just friends so i want to tell her how i feel about her? b4 its too late (never ask a girl out b4 at age 20, so first time). so my question is at what stage of the party/dinner/drink should i tell her? should i wait till the end when we are going to leave. or between dinner (with at least 20 people there)?, or right from the begining? any suggestion thanx a lot.

2007-10-04 18:56:39 · 3 answers · asked by petersmith 2

Okay so I know that a lot of ppl out there might not have the same views as I do but I would like your opinion on something. I as a christian believe in courtship vs dating. I think that responsibilities and views that courtship puts forth allow young ppl and those who are ready to be married to make wise decisions based on pure love as opposed to the sexual clutter of this world. I would like to know your opinion on it as to why you see that courtship is either a plus or a negative in your opinion. I realize that some ppl cringe at the thought of this subject but I would love some honest answers and feedback as to why you feel the way you do. Thank you for all your help, this will be aiding me in a speech I am to be giving to my fellow peers @ my high school. God Bless!

Ps- guys don't hold back ( I want the truth from your point if view)

2007-10-04 18:54:37 · 9 answers · asked by crank dat 1

im 14 and my step sister is 15 and our parents married between 4 years ago and really i havent ever talked to her or thought of doing anything sexual with her until just recently about a year ago. some of her friends tell me she thinks i am really hot but that im her step brother. i think she is really hot and all of my friends are always messing with me saying " you have to get on that man if i were you i would definitely do it". sometimes she hangs out in my room when i have people over or when she has her friends over we drink and have fun. i have only suggested to her 1 time before for me and her to hook up and me n her were both kind of drunk and she seemed like she wanted to but there were like 4 other people there so she wouldnt want it to get out. so she kept saying it would be weird and awkward like after we do it and we might stop hanging out. she flirts with me all the time by like purposely wearing thongs so they show. what do i do and how do i tell her i want to hook up

2007-10-04 18:53:12 · 9 answers · asked by baseballkid 1

Ok so lately my boyfriend and I haven't been seeing eye to eye. I have a lot of guy friends and he has a lot of female friends. I have NEVER talked about any of my guy friends to him...okay once...but never again because i sensed he was jealous. But he talks about his "home girls" all the time, which bugs me a little. He knows it bug the hell out of me and yet he continues. ok digressing a bit.

But lately it seems the only thing we've been doing is "arguing"...i dont mean yelling back and forth and having choice words, but him getting mad because he thinks i have been ignoring him....which i haven't done the entire relationship. and that pisses me off because i dont know why he's upset.

So today i asked him if he was ok and he got so bent out of shape and asked me why all of a sudden im askin if he's all right and what not. And that there threw me over the top. It's like excuse me for caring and trying to fix whatever is going on. Ususally its the other way around.

2007-10-04 18:51:00 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica Renee 3

what are some ways to keep a relationship interesting?

random things... like dancing in the rain!

2007-10-04 18:48:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's so awkward to tell a friend you like them or it can be awkward to ask mutual friends about them... so is there any way I can find out or test to see what a guy thinks of me?

2007-10-04 18:44:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-04 18:39:12 · 2 answers · asked by liquor first, poker later 1

Whats the best bra and undies for a guy to see a girl in? push up bra? heavily padded, contour? thong? boyshorts? normal undies? what do you guys rekon? and what colours?

2007-10-04 18:31:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok 7 months ago I was once engaged to this boy. I was very in love with him. He ended the relationship though. He told me he never loved me the whole 2 years....I was crushed. But I can't help but still love him and I've changed so much since we've been apart. I feel so stupid for even thinking about talking to him again honestly but.....I can't help myself.

What should I do?

2007-10-04 18:23:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 43 year old brother who is lonely and looking online. He is debating whether he should mention in his info that he is scarred. He was burned as a child and his burn scars extend up the lower part of his face. On one hand, he knows that his scars are a turn-off for some and would like to weed out those who could not accept them. He is tired of women who see his scars and suddenly decide that they want only friendship. On the other hand his scars are not who he is - they do not define him. He would like to meet and get to know others as a person, not as a scarred person. He does not want anyone to feel sorry for him; he does not feel sorry for himself. I am sure the same issue comes up with people who have any number of physical problems. So, would you send in a picture that shows the scars or mention them in your description? If so, what would you say? And if not, when and how would you mention them?

2007-10-04 18:20:54 · 7 answers · asked by nel 2

trust issues with me. i made some stupid mistakes, but we still talk and hooked up the other night. i went over to her house tonight because i was confused about the previous night. she says she is the one that calls all the time and has trust issues and thinks that those will always be there. i honestly thought it was over and did not want to ruin her new job and life. i thought i did not deserve her and did not want to ruin things for her. she still text and calls and then we hook up the other night. i thought this was my shot my opening, but then she says i should have been the one calling and making attempts to get to her well i thought it was over. tonight she says there are trust issues and she does not know and i should not sit and wait around for her but also said she was forcing herself to say these things right now. is there a magic thing to say and i know people say move on but neither of us can and i think it is more of a pride thing with her. i love her more than anything

2007-10-04 18:15:54 · 4 answers · asked by doormat 1

We argue a lot =(

2007-10-04 18:13:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-04 18:11:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does it mean if my ex-boyfriend send me flowers on my birthday and signs the card with "love" and then his name? there is soooooooooooooooooo much more to the story than this. short version.....we just had a baby together, his mother (i think, but am pretty positive) wants him all to herself b/c he pays her bills, he has not seen the baby in over a month, he's admitted to being a momma's boy, ask me to marry him now has changed his mind and a lot of other things. anyways...why in the world would he send me flowers on my birthday? the arrangement even came with a teddy bear and hershey kisses!!! i'm so confused. i love him and care about him deeply, but have just gotten used to the idea of not being with him. i filed for child support too. i just know that if we were ever to get back together he would have to move out of his mother's house (it's actually his house). he has acted like he does not care, but sending me flowers? and remembering my birthday? i need some advice.

2007-10-04 18:00:39 · 18 answers · asked by nena 2

Recently, I am single again. Woo Hoo!!! Spare of the moment, I was hungry for some sushi. Went to a nearby Sushi bar by myself for some Heinies and to fill my appetite for raw fish. Two tables away from me, I see this (beautiful) Asian, younger woman. But she was with another man. She was well dressed and her (date, I guess) was dressed really casually. Here in Hawaii, shorts, t-shirt and slippers (thongs) are OK for most parts, but not to a restaurant. Anyway, we caught each other's eyes and we both exchanged smiles. Being that they both had their back towards me, she looked over her shoulder frequently to look at me and smiled each time. I couldn't help myself but to smile back at her each time. She even got up a couple of times and walk past my table with this very seductive smile as if she was telling me to talk to her. Was this a missed opportunity? But I go by a rule that no one should mess with another mans girl and vise versa. I lost my former wife that way.

2007-10-04 17:59:18 · 7 answers · asked by liquor first, poker later 1

someone in a relationship says that they love the other person after a couple weeks or less of dating. They just like how the other person looks.. It is very immature and naive. I see a lot of middle and high school kids doing this. What are your views?

2007-10-04 17:54:10 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-10-04 17:51:30 · 19 answers · asked by Peter 4

What does it mean when a guy just e-mail you 3 days after first date?

2007-10-04 17:48:16 · 7 answers · asked by mimi26 1

2007-10-04 17:45:05 · 16 answers · asked by jen 7

Theres this guy colorado high school that i serve coffee to all the time, i think he likes me, but im not sure yet, hes always getting coffee from me, and he always makes the effort to talk, couple of weeks ago(i havent seen him since hes on holiday), he asked if i had watched a movie(one that i had already seen), and i said yeh ive seen that one already, then i asked why, and he said 'oh bacause i wanted to go watch a movie'and he said it in a real quiet way, life he felt embarrased or something..., was he subtly asking me out?but when i said i had already watched it, he felt stink and left it at that?..i felt really bad.
Weve been talking for ages now, and ive opened up to him heaps, and we really have a blast with each other when we talk now:).he was going to go to the best cinema in America to watch the movie aswell!

2007-10-04 17:40:39 · 4 answers · asked by dinnn 1

small penis, but he's very cute. would you still sleep with him?

2007-10-04 17:39:26 · 8 answers · asked by hahaiwon 2

if i don't be back with him! hes going to cut him self! what should i do?

2007-10-04 17:38:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

say you were a girl and the teacher was ina guy in his his late twentie - you notice he always stares at you and pays extra attention to you, one day he asks you to stay after to talk about a report...when you do, he asks you to pull your chair over to his desk and when he's talking he puts his hand on your hand and leans in for a kiss...you jump up (knocking the chair over) and back away then you say "i gotta go" and you leave....should you tell someone or just let it go? Say you're not a someone who tells on people...but its been bugging you alot and making you feel weird.

2007-10-04 17:28:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been talking to someone on the phone long distance for the past 2 months and it feels like I have feelings for him and he does for me.. We even started saying "I love you".. Is this possible..Without even meeting in person ? Is online dating unhealthy?

2007-10-04 17:21:58 · 20 answers · asked by sweety_8402 1

im embarrased by it...i have small boobs...im just skinny and muscular...i guess ill get my belly button pierced?? i dont know...i want to do it..but im scared my boyfriend wont like my body. and then he will probbaly break up with me.im just not up for getting breast implants either...i think its gross. it sucks cauz my body is whats getting in the way of it and im scared about telling him...this always happens and then i feel like i have to break up with them cauz of it...what should i do??

2007-10-04 17:19:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so i've known this girl since the 2nd grade ever since then we ever like best friends. Since the 3nd grade she would ways open up to me and tell me ALL of her problems and I would listen n help her resolve them. I would always look after her and make sure nothing wrong happened to her. I was their in her tough times in Elemen. and Middle school

In high school I decide to go to a different one then her, at first we remained pretty close. Then one we just stop talking. And we both found new friends. I would see her at friends parties and I would talk to her but it just wasn't the same.We both eventually found "Replacements" for each other and didn't see each other. 1 day I remembered her birthday was coming up so I was going to ask her how she was. Come to find out she was moving the next week. I tired so hard to get back in contact with her but it didn't work

This week something happened to her and I managed to cheer her up but she forgot wat i said and went back to my replacement

2007-10-04 17:18:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm curious about how girls view their breasts...both before and after they have kids. I'm not asking about breast size or whether you're satisfied with your breasts. Rather, I'm curious about whether you view your breasts more as objects of sexual desire or more as a natural provision for feeding your babies. Obviously, these aren't mutually exclusive. I'm just curious about your feelings. I'm curious to know if you have been pregnant or had kids...and then, maybe a percentage...like 60% desire, 40% feeding...something like that. Thanks!

2007-10-04 17:17:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous