Singles & Dating - 4 October 2007

i asked my ex boyfriend if he still loves me.. (cause i know i still do).. he just told me that he loves talking to me.. and that his answer to my question was: "i don't wanna say no, and i don't wanna say yes.." that's just how he feels.. btw, we were in a long distance relationship..

but when we talk, he seems to be funny and all that.. he tends to give me his full attention..

what does that mean?? HELP!!

2007-10-04 02:09:16 · 15 answers · asked by ღஐ Lacey ஐღ 2

see me and my boyfriend keep fighting and he says hes not changing but we used to be so close talk and laugh about everything but as soon as school started back he just up and changed i love mr. damin curry with all my heart and every body keeps telling me to just leave him but its not that easy i love him to much to let go...he keeps hurting me and i havent seen him in a month yet all his friends see him everyweekend and he lives on 128 and i live on 146 and we still never see eachother and his friends live all the way across town yet they see eachother ever weekend..i love him so much but honestly i dont feel as if the spark that once lit the flame is still there i try to talk to him about it but he wont listen...so help me out is it time to let go?

2007-10-04 02:09:13 · 11 answers · asked by alwayslovely3 1

I ask this because I went to a Velvet Revolver concert last night and I noticed that the crowd (which included LOTS of ppl under 30) went apeshitz when they played Ol' Guns N Roses songs...The GNR songs got more response then the VR songs

2007-10-04 02:06:34 · 8 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2

Would you date a girl if she refused to have sex before marriage?

2007-10-04 02:02:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my husband 3 years ago due to his cheating and drinking. I since started living with my boyfriend (yeah I know I'm an idiot) but, when we first started dating things seemed great until I found out he masterbated all the time and now it has ruined our sex relationship. I don't think having sex once every month or two months is very healthy for a lasting relationship. Does anyone agree or am I just being stupid. Sometimes he makes me feel like I am not good enough or something. He is a great guy but I don't know what to do to get him to want me sexually. I have tried and I don't complain about it. I feel complaining could make things worse. I have (for the past few days) been sleeping on the couch and he woke me up this morning saying, how do you expect us to have sex when you sleep on the couch. My responce was we don't have sex anyway. Then he comes off with it takes two. I don't understand this because I give alot in this relationship. Together 2 years and it hurts. Any advice

2007-10-04 02:02:25 · 5 answers · asked by cutiepie 2

2007-10-04 02:01:55 · 15 answers · asked by bud 1

when me and my boyfriend get loved up hugging and that kissing watchin telly he gets turned on and he said its because he loves me? should i believe him imnot sure?

2007-10-04 01:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing my boyfriend for only about a month. But lately, he's been a bit distant with me. This got me thinking and it occurred to me that throughout the 'relationship' he's only ever phoned me once and the only time he texts me is if I text him first. It's also the case that if we're going to see each other I have to make the effort to go and visit him - he's actually only bothered coming to see me once... Every time we speak lately, he's just really non-committal and sounds distracted, I know he has a busy social life (he's in 2 bands) but it just feels like he doesn't have time for me - or when he does I should act really grateful that he's found a window in his calendar!

I wonder if he's distancing himself because he just can't be bothered with the relationship? (Though, surprise, surprise, sex is something he seems to find time for...)

2007-10-04 01:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Volcano Grrl (aka Emby) 3

2007-10-04 01:55:12 · 15 answers · asked by that_chic_at_da_beach_xoxo 1

Right, there's this woman you've known and liked for a while. Finally after months of flirting, you go out and have a great time and she kisses you. All good so far. She returns to her city...far from where you live and you chat few days later..she wants to meet up but you're pensive and no decision is made . Then YOU contact her few days later but dont mention meeting up or the kiss. Its very friendly thought and she's not asking to meet you or coming on strong. Say you're a very laid back man..what is the meaning of this behaviour. Does it mean you only want her as a friend or you're trying to digest the new status of your relationship? Do you have feelings for her?

2007-10-04 01:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by this girl wants to know 1

so i was casually seeing this guy. lately though everytime i ask him to hang out he's doing something. i brought it to his attention the other day and he kinda freaked out and said he wants to hang out still and it was because he had work to do and couldn't hang. but everytime i see him with other girls or the possibility of him hanging out with out girls comes up, he acts like i'm going to be upset with him. like i saw him with 2 of his girl friends yesterday. i was with a guy pal of mine. his friends recognized me and told him. he turned around and did this awkward wave. i want to tell him that you can hang out with other girls...i can't get mad. i mean i could but he's not my bf. what do you think his deal is?

2007-10-04 01:49:23 · 11 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

theres this girl i kinda like she told me that i was a really good freind like a brother to her what does that mean do i have a chance or no

2007-10-04 01:46:02 · 11 answers · asked by eggz11 1

Look men, please help me understand you. Now I know not all guys are like this, but I know some who are and so please advise: What if you meet a woman you're really attracted to and you get friendly with her over a period of months and then you realise that she too is attracted to you! This is where your 'fear' seems to start. Then you 'get together' you know have a kiss. She's NOT coming on too strong. You really like her but you kind of act really casual even if she asks to meet you again, you can't give a direct answer. You keep contacting her by the way but sort of 'friendly' as opposed to heavy love affair. Are you in shock? Please explain this! Are you afraid of love?

2007-10-04 01:40:40 · 7 answers · asked by gentle girl 1

me and my gf have been dating for almost a year and a half. I really do love her but it isnt like we r marryed or anything. Now i know some people r going to say "if you really loved her you wouldnt of cheated" well the girl was really hot and she told me it was just one time sex, no strings attatched. Well i was week sorry. my question is , should i tell my gf, who dosent even suspect it ever happened, about it and risk losing our relationship or really damaging it. Or should i not say a word as long as it was a one time thing. and go along with my life like it never happened???

2007-10-04 01:37:04 · 30 answers · asked by joshua d 3

When your doing the bussiness with some one (sex)?

Do you prefur if the girl has her eyes open or closed? or make a noise or silent?

2007-10-04 01:21:36 · 8 answers · asked by Pinkywinky 1

I kind of felt like we had moment. lol He is shy and he brings what little shyness that I have out. So I'm kind of thinking we are just having truoble breaking the ice. I walkeed past him and told him I liked his shirt that it looked nice on him. Then I walked off...

2007-10-04 01:19:43 · 7 answers · asked by mama_05 1

I've been with my man for almost 2 years and still have not had sex with him (his choice). He's been living with me since day one and not once had a job. He always seems to come up with these different excuses, I really don't get. First he said I don't listen like I should, so I changed and I was a really good woman. So of course I was expecting sex, but NOTHING! Ok...then he says I should let him hold my money, because Im bad with it. So I do that and still NO SEX..I know its not me becuase I've never had this problem, and he gets aroused even if I don't touch him....what is wrong with him or me? So since he hasn't held to his word, I've been a *****. Now he doesn't understand why Im being this way and now he's using my bitchiness as yet another excuse for not having sex with me. HELLPPP!!!! what should I do???

2007-10-04 01:18:22 · 18 answers · asked by MONIQUE P 1

For Me it's Eyes, Smile and Shoulders!

2007-10-04 01:02:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am writing this book to help woman and men understand sex from a different point of view, I am not a girl around thats for sure but I have been in different relationships and wanna write about it. Thoughts???

2007-10-04 00:56:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is a guy and he is 13. he is on our road trip because his parents are away. he is really wierd. lately he has been sitting next to me alot and trying to talk to me.

I AM REALLY REALLY NOT INTERESTED. EW EW EW

1 im 14


2. i just dont like him!

he is realy starting to get on my nerves so if you could give me some advice on what to do!?!?!

just remeber

he is 13 and is away from his parents and an only child who is a step behind everyone else in trends and stuff.

i mean, i am too, but thats not the point

HELP EW

2007-10-04 00:45:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

we both haven't done it yet. we've basically done everything except sex.

2007-10-04 00:15:58 · 16 answers · asked by snowangels 2

i like that prson & dated him once when he moved to another city that was 2 weeks ago he did not replay to any of my massages but later i was surprized that he sent me a massage saying that he is going to a vacation & how r u?...
i already thought that he forgot about me & it is over how to deal with it for comming days????i used to like him much

2007-10-04 00:01:10 · 5 answers · asked by manar 1