I've always been a good girl, kind, considerate of others, etc. And I date good boys. But they never satisfy me, because my 'sexual' life seems incompatible with my 'normal' life -- it's embarrassing, but I'm actually very submissive and have always fantasized about being with dominant, aggressive men, or being someone's 'sex slave'. I like being dominated and 'used' to a certain extent.
Only problem is, the 'good boys' I date would never fit into this category, so I'm always left sexually dissatisfied in my relationsips. I don't know what to do. I don't want to date some asshole jerk who is awful in every area except for sex. But at the same time, it seems like asshole jerks are the only kind of guy who would be able to satisfy those desires. Help! Has anyone ever encountered a problem like this? What can I do?
2007-10-04
02:57:49
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cajun m
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