Singles & Dating - 6 October 2007

now he has come back to me. i feel wonderful, but i understand that this euphoria won't last long, because soon i start to suspect him without any reason. what should i do?

2007-10-06 23:45:15 · 11 answers · asked by dryada 1

i'm 15 (not going to lie about my age)

i've been going out with my boyfriend for over 7 months now. and i've been talking to him and we both want to have sex but there a problem...

i don't know if i can trust him.
i live 20 miles away from him and have no idea about what he does when i don't see him. we both go to a club called young carers because we both have desabled parents,
my friend (who also goes to the club)let me go on her mobile and i was looking through her text and found she had been texting my boyfriend,
asking him if he was still going out with me. they both said love you on severil texts.

i dumped him straight away, shouted at her. she said it was all him. he said it was all bull ****, and he says love you at the end of a text to every one. so i started going out with him again. he said that he did mess around with someone after i dumped him (not my friend) but it ment nothing...

should i trust him completly, i don't know if i can.

2007-10-06 23:42:03 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just find out that my good friend's gf is lesbian........
Still not believe my eyes, but she is a beautiful girl..
ohhhhhhhhhhhh my god!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-06 23:03:31 · 5 answers · asked by Nesh 1

I'm 18 and I've always been single. I can't get anyone interested in me; everyone I like from university just blanks me half the time-they literally turn their heads away like they're disgusted by me or summat. When I go out to clubs I dont ever meet guys either, (except one time, then he walked off). So I want to know, how do you meet guys? Like, in a club or something. I dont wanna look like a barbie doll, but from what I've seen it looks like thats the only type guys are interested in. I really dont want to sound arrogant (sorry) but I'm told I'm really pretty, and I'm always nice to people because I myself hate mean people. So I dont know what I'm doing wrong. Some one help me out please? xox

2007-10-06 23:02:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 22:12:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

The woman I love insists on his and hers facing toilet bowls so we can spend more time together. What to do?
The darling woman I love and I are building a new home, the home of our dreams. I have always wanted a master bedroom suite, complete with a luxurious bathroom. In the plans, there are his and hers sinks, a jacuzzi garden tub, and a huge shower, with many shower heads to spray you all over at once. The commode (toilet bowl) will be separated, which is a plus. But, she wants two commodes, in there together, facing each other, so we can talk and spend even more time together. Ok, I love the woman, but I think expelling bodily functions together may be a little over the top for me. What do you think?

2007-10-06 22:02:09 · 10 answers · asked by Flux Capacitor 2

I am very serious. I have been under severe mental tension.
I just can't handle such things. I feel uncomfortable with the things that he has been doing with me.

Should i give him a chance or is it time to break the relation?

2007-10-06 21:47:42 · 12 answers · asked by Daniella 1

ok, me and this guy we like each other.we hardly talk in class n only see each other once a week. so we havent spoken/texted for 5 weeks. since our exams are coming up and classes are ending, i thought i texted him to ask him how he was doing and between texts, casually mention that we should hang out.

after he replied asking me how i was, i replied the necessary and mentioned that we should hang out since classes are ending.i ended with somethin else.and he didnt reply!! ok i know the exams are really important (GCSE A levels),but since a girl you like is texting you why wouldnt you reply?!

he doesnt get like that when he doesnt have exams.he once texted me and i didnt reply, he texted me again asking if i did. is he just

busy? scared off by the hang-out thing? or thinking i know he likes me and doesnt have to put in effort?or what!?

2007-10-06 21:16:25 · 9 answers · asked by Nat 2

And also jealousy in relationships. But people can't help being jealous right? Just mainly as long as they don't take bad actions.

2007-10-06 20:42:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 20:15:31 · 4 answers · asked by Teria R 1

Is it okay to give a guy I really like my AIM through another guy who is his best friend? Or will he think I have serious issues?

2007-10-06 19:57:18 · 5 answers · asked by The Universal Brain System 1

What kind of attributes do you find attractive in men??
Also when do you feel he is sweet and get to like him??

2007-10-06 19:51:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in 7th grade (single of course) and i have had a crush on this girl 4 some time now. BUT idk if she likes me back and i would truly like to know if she does. She doesn't stare at me i think (because all of my classes with her i sit in front of her so idk). I rarly talk to her becuse i'm to scared to. her locker is one away from mine. I don't know what to do. So can someone help me? PLEASE????

2007-10-06 19:30:28 · 15 answers · asked by Just a kid 1

okay me and my ex-bf brooke up along time ago like a year ago. i was at my friends house help her with her sister then my ex-bf came over and start hiting on me. the thing is he gots another gf. im singel girl now and i dont want to keep on talk to my ex any more. he has cheated on me three times and my heart was in so much pain. i dont want to go throw this again. but he is on yahoo every day try to tell me he loves me. what should i do it hurts to keep on talking to him. i try to tell him i dont want to see or talk to him any more. so guys if ur ex gf/bf where like this what would you do? i need answers i need to know what to do. its been a yeaqr and i have no feelings for him any more. HELP!!!!! im going crazy. i would like to add if any guys want to talk to me they can email me.

2007-10-06 19:16:19 · 15 answers · asked by Gothic Queen 2

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months and I am horribly in love with him. 3 months ago, I moved away to go to school and we still see each other, on average, every two weeks or so.
There are times when it gets really hard, though. Like right before I go to bed and he isn't there with me.
How do I hurt less?

2007-10-06 18:52:12 · 5 answers · asked by Harley Q 1

i had a problem with the school work and was never able to complete anything! now i want to go back to school but i don't know how to get started because i think i have a learning disabillty. is there a program for people like me that want a dipolma or ged! if so want do i need to do.

2007-10-06 18:39:38 · 2 answers · asked by Danyelle J 1

i just broke up with my bf yesterday. well, he broke up with me coz it was kinda my fault..well, it was my fault. we argued yesterday night and i tried talking to him about our problems, if we can fix it..but he cusses me out and say all those horrible mean things to me and i couldnt take it and handle it anymore. so, i created a myspace account and messaged his friend that i had a little interest in him, which i know i shouldnt have done that coz it was so wrong for me to do and i regret doing that..i guess coz he yells at me and cusses me out and stuff. anyway, his friend called him and told him about what i wrote...then he called me and he said it was so over between me and him.

I dont know what to do. does that consider cheating, coz he said that was cheating and im a cheater. now that were not together..its like i cant help being alone..its like i have to have a bf and someone to be with. should i move on already and fine someone new? plz help me.

2007-10-06 18:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by chellcie 1

2007-10-06 18:31:49 · 9 answers · asked by Bada Bada 1

ok so there is this guy i USED to like and i work with (i am18 and he is 17) and he does a lot of drugs. I mean a lot. I want to be friends with him now but he wont even talk to me and I don't even know why. he literally hates me now. I have just started to do some drugs but not very often and nothing hard core and he is starting to get mad at me for that. I went to go smoke with him and he just said that he didn't want to smoke anymore.he just got up and left. i don't know what to do. please help me

2007-10-06 18:23:56 · 19 answers · asked by wintennis91 2

okay im single and theres this guy i really really like. but he has a girlfriend who really doesnt desevre him. shes young and immature and she starts fights and talks behind everyones back. and hes the sweetest guy i know and never said anything bad about anyone and hes never beenin a fight and tries to avoid them. I get the feeling she doesnt really like him even though she blabs on myspace about how sweet he is. it seemslike shes using him to show off. just cuz hes 2 years older than her. i dont know why he likes her shes not good for him. me and him are a better match. i wish ican make him see that. what should i do??

2007-10-06 18:18:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay...I've been talking to a man in PA, for 2 weeks that I met over the phone on 'vibeline'. One day he is so sweet and talking about relocating to the city I live in to be with me, and the next day he is mad at me for small things, like not returning his call fast enough, and being very mean and a couple days later he is so in love saying, "couples go thru rough spots", I have to deal with it. If I bring disagreements up he shuts me down, but when he brings it up it's all good. He's very moody. He is 42 and I am 29.

2007-10-06 18:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by erica19771996 1

what do you think of friends with benefits? a good or bad idea?

2007-10-06 18:10:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you more likely to be the person not returning love or the person not having love returned? It has been both ways for me. =)

2007-10-06 18:06:41 · 8 answers · asked by xılǝɥ ⋆ 5

ive know this guy for a while now , we had a really great connection but unfortunately he has had a gf for about 4 years. I told him nothing could ever go on with us because i dont mess with people who are taken. Ive just been out of town for 8 weeks when i came back my inbox was flooded with emails from him , he sent me an email just about everyday saying he misses me etc. He also says he wants to marry me he loves me more than anything and thinks were going to be together forever. He knows hes not going to get anywhere sexually with me and he also knows im not silly and am not waiting around thinking were going to be together. So why does he bother with this?. He calls me a lot as well and sends messages to my phone , hes even given me gifts ( which i sent back). why is he doing all this? he even stays home some nights to see if im online.

2007-10-06 18:00:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean what the hell is wrong with the politicianss? they hav no traffic system, no balance in the economy and i was watchin indian tv wit my mom and it showed little children, specifically girls being sold to other families for money...what the hell- selling babies to make money?! thats crazy....i mean i reallly think they need a strict ruler to impose better laws/regulationss
and the prostitution system in india is really bad, they hav specific towns for prostitues...and also the caste system is absurd, who the hell cares wt god u worship, its all the same!

and wy not use thos smart brains to solve the poverty there!! jesus if they cud jus all get along equally wit out all those castes, none of this wud happen. and dont even get me started on their prostitution townss...

2007-10-06 17:47:18 · 9 answers · asked by apple 5

I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months, and we recently just had sex for the first time and we suck. It doesnt feel good for us, and it hurts me every time. I really regret having sex and i really dont enjoy it. Everyone always tells me how good sex feels, but i dont really kno what they are talkin about bc it doesnt feel good. im sick of my boyfriend complaining on how we suck.

2007-10-06 17:44:11 · 6 answers · asked by curioussssss jackie 1

10 points for the most articulate answer.

2007-10-06 17:43:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would bet anyone £1000 that they couldn't find someone for me...any takers?

2007-10-06 17:38:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is soooo sweet and romantic sometimes, but other times he can be such an ***! He wont call me for like a week or two, when i say I love you he goes "ditto", and he pisses me off on purpose! We have broken up many times, but always end up together again. I do love him, I just dont know what to do. Help?

2007-10-06 17:31:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you know the real reason,
why being gay is considered a sin?
I know why, I would like see if any of you know the real reason why.
It's in the bible is NOT the answer. so give it some thought okay thanks. I've only told one person so lets see what you say. when it is done I will tell you and you will know if you don't now.

2007-10-06 17:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by nahrutu 1