Singles & Dating - 6 October 2007

oka this is kinda a rant but theres a question on the end...

this girl who i barely know [friends w. my friends] decided to talk to my boyfriend [now ex boyfriend] and make up lies about me.. she told him that i was extreemly mad at him and that i'd been cheating on him the entire time i was with him.. that of course led to a break up.. but she says that she didnt think anything would happen... i just dont understand how she could make stuff up like that and tell him.. she kinda insecure so she "freaks out" talking to guys.. so was she just running at the mouth? ugh.. im just so annoyed. but what do you think made her do this?!

2007-10-06 17:29:04 · 2 answers · asked by TB eventer! 4

I'm not sure if this guy likes me...I had a feeling he did, but I'm not sure now. He frequently asks me to hang out (we're in college) and a lot of times I can't make it, but I always let him know beforehand. And when he can't make it to something he usually lets me know. Well he asked me to dinner a couple days ago, and he never came. Turns out he completely forgot and was at a meeting for a club...I was kinda disappointed. He apologized though. I dunno, maybe he doesn't like me as much as I thought, or maybe not at all? or am I just overreacting

2007-10-06 17:27:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to offend anybody, but I've noticed through observation that black guys tends to like girls with big butts, more than white guys do... Is that true?? Do only black guys like the big butts, or is it the same all around...???

2007-10-06 17:26:02 · 11 answers · asked by djdanger92 3

well I kindda have self esteem issues.. maybe cuz my mom has a big nose and i think i do to. but i might not.. people tell me i'm pretty all the time and guys wanna hangout with me allot. whyyy!! how can i help my self esteem issues! maybe it's just the teenage years where you start feeling ugly?

2007-10-06 17:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can i get my boyfriend to wear cologne and aftershave.
I would like him to smell nice.

2007-10-06 17:22:16 · 18 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5

Son of a Frick! I'm a 28 year old with morals, I do not believe people should have sex before marriage. I hate the on-line crap, they're pscyhotic as it is in person, give them a computer and it's worse! I find the best way to meet a person is, going for a cup of coffee, or a for a drink like we did in the old days. I'm very proud of my choices in life. God forbid I find the one normal guy in LA. After all the horror stories half my clients tell me, I am happy to be single. I just find it frustrating! In a society where women are as sexually open as men are (somtimes even worse!) does someone who values it stand a chance?

2007-10-06 17:14:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys please help me decipher this......here are the facts:

since the day we met we have been texting a lot everday
we have been spending saturday nights alone together just hanging out
we hang out so often.....watching movies and dining out
we often spend whole day until wee hours during weekends
he listens to me intently when i speak
he shares his inner thoughts with me
we have been having deep conversations
i think we've gone really close in a matter of 3 months
one time he mentioned love is NOT his priority
he's acting like a good friend though
he empathize with my feelings

please tell me guys, with the above facts, is it just purely friendship that he wants or it could be more?

2007-10-06 17:09:35 · 21 answers · asked by damsel in distress 1

ok so i'm a virgin i have a great boyfriend, he's hot sweet sensitive and respects me and my decesions, but lately he has been asking me if we could have sex...i have told him i want to wait till i get married..but he gets mad...he has always done every thing for me and he said its time to give him something fo a change!!...should i make his dreams come true or should i stick with my religus thingy..i really dont want to but...uh soooo confused...and yeah i'm anly 14...yeah crazy! and i'm only in 9th grade! uh help!

2007-10-06 17:03:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 17:02:50 · 6 answers · asked by mmmlong10 3

Flirt with every guy i know or is it unfair i dont want to be a tease but i dont or nor do i want to do anything do i have to explain that or is it an unspoken rule

2007-10-06 16:57:52 · 6 answers · asked by rosedel83 2

2007-10-06 16:38:47 · 2 answers · asked by Nicole 1

why does your boyfriend cheat on your i don't understand

2007-10-06 16:31:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 16:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by greysanatomylover3 1

2007-10-06 16:27:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I still see and have sex with my ex. We dated for 2 years on/off. At one point we were so serious he was talking marriage to me, but I broke up with him. We started seeing each other again, but he left me for another girl who isn't really his type. He lied to me by telling me they were going to break up, to have sex with me. This hurt me so much that now (a year later), I still feel so hurt. I'm seeing this new guy but he's a freshman/I'm a junior (we're in college), and he doesn't seem too serious with me. Anyway, my ex is jealous of this guy and it's getting in the way of my social life (we have mutual friends, and my ex has a problem with me bringing this new guy to our clique's parties, etc). Now my ex is ignoring me. What should I do about both guys? What should I do, period?

2007-10-06 16:16:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

A woman friend just ended her relationship with her boyfriend yesterday. For a year i've been acting as a confidant to her. I call her the night she broke up to cheer her up, because she's been crying all night. I've known her for over a year.

How long do you think I should wait for her to calm down to ask her out to a movie or some sort of a friendly date? I really like her.

I'm good friends with her ex, and i know any move i make could end my friendship with him. But i don't really care.They had been dating for over 3 years until they broke up.

2007-10-06 16:14:51 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa Peterley 1

My girl wants me to hang out with her and her exe and I wont do it because it makes me uncomfortable. Is it me, should I open up and have a little bit more confidence and do it or should I stick to my guns and stay away from that situation. I dont want to deny myself of time spent with my girl but I dont want to b a fool either. What do you think? What would you do?

2007-10-06 16:10:00 · 2 answers · asked by marc21 1

I'm in high school. I was walking to class and i feel someone pinch my butt so I turn around and this guy was standing there smiling at me and he says something like "oh sorry". So then i think "whatever" and keep walking. He does it again and i told him to cut it out. and then he did it again. So i was pissed off and I thought about punching his face but then i didn't see him anymore.
I've never seen him, but my friends who were walking with me saw him too. I found out his name and he's a year older than me. I told my mom and she called the school and reported him.
so was that right thing to do? or what should I do if he bothers me again? can i punch his face without getting in trouble at school?
eeewww creepy!!!




btw i put this under "singles and dating" cause i didn't know where else it should go

2007-10-06 16:02:05 · 29 answers · asked by e-kay? 3

Over the summer my bff told me that he liked me and has liked me since 6th grade. Well we couldnt go together because he had a GF. Well, I talk to him everyday because he is my BFF but I dont know what to do. It is weird. What do I do? how do I kno if I like him?

2007-10-06 16:01:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

tonite i went over to my girls house. Most awesome, pretty, girl ever. I love her soo much. So i went over to see a movie (1408) and we cuddled and kissed and held hands and everything. Then she looked up at me and i looked up at her, and we had like a 2-3 second open mouth, not tongue, kiss. So basically, is there a basic way to start a real makeout? we were infront of her sister and friend, so that may be part of it.

For those of you that NEED to know to answer im in 8th grade. NO TELLING ME IM TO YOUNG, NO I DONT HAVE SEX WITH GIRLS! IM A 1/4 GOOD LIL MORMON BOY ok.. just answer..ty =)

2007-10-06 16:00:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've known this girl for a long time now.....and i really like her alot.......im 13 shes 14......my dad and her dad are great friends.......my dad invited them to go see my soccer game....thing is....im not very good at soccer and im afraid i will look like a sucky player in front of her.....WHAT CAN I DO???????

2007-10-06 15:59:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

without hurting their feelings and letting them know you love them very much and that the reason that you are doing this is because you are trying to do the best thing for them, you are only looking out for their best interest. they know somethings up and have for a while. i mean with you because you have been acting sad. and just about a week ago or soo something tramatic had happened and that you were trying to make things better and so was another person but the person with the prominent problem isnt trying to do a thing about it, doesn't think that they have a problem and they blame other people about doing things and blame them about blaming them about doing something..

2007-10-06 15:56:31 · 1 answers · asked by me(: 2

how can i show a guy that i really like him. i'm kinda shy and is very good in class. i don't want to come off as a nerd.

help me please

2007-10-06 15:32:14 · 13 answers · asked by sexy baby111260 1

especially around ur crush?

2007-10-06 15:29:57 · 23 answers · asked by asian_chicka 3

that we have a baby on the way?

2007-10-06 15:26:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was dating this guy for around 3 months, I know not a very long time, but I really did like him. He was an army man, due to ship out to Iraq in December, and was living where I live because he was helping his grandfather with a bussiness venture, and would only be here temporarilly. Again, I know I shouldn't have let myself attach, but this guy, is like prince charming, no joke. Now I'm not trying to dwell on it, or be together despite the odds, I do have some realisim, but I just wanna know if he's missing me like I'm missing him.
We haven't really talked since he left, like 2 weeks ago, though he always acted like he cared and told me he would miss me. The night he left, as he could tell I was starting to get upset, he says out of the blue, you know I didnt sleep last night, and couldnt give me a reason, so I interpreted it as his way of verbalizing he was upset about leaving, and though we both knew we wouldnt he says as I'm leaving, I'll see you later...CONTINUED IN DETAILS!!

2007-10-06 15:26:07 · 1 answers · asked by Lady 3

Last night people were dancing at a club. There was this really gorgeous girl made eye contact with me, and kept gazes and smiles. About 10 + times over 2 hours. Finally, cause I didn't want to go over to her, I motioned to her to come. She turned her head away and pointed to the dance floor, from what I could see. So, then I dropped the whole ball, and said for get it. I don't phuking dance! And I didn't pay her much attention afterwards, nor her me. As much as women like to dance, I don't like to dance. Dancing for me is a sign of silliness. I would only dance if I was taught how professionally. I tend to like to keep my aura of confidence and cool rather than dance.

2007-10-06 15:22:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this guy... He stares at me in class, and we talk sometimes, and its always fun... We love the same music. But I'm not sure if he likes me back... I don't want to ask him, because it would get awkward afterwards... What should I do? Any advice will do... Tell me how I should flirt too!!

2007-10-06 15:21:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think it is safe?

2007-10-06 15:16:14 · 4 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

5'3, long brown hair, brown eyes, full lips, high cheek bones, larger boobs, petite. That's the physical.

Here's the rest:
Cheesy sense of humor....sometimes a little dry and offbeat
Incredibly intelligent - one that can and will discuss philosophies, religion, fantasies, human conditions, anything really....
A little shy but opens up when intimate (safe and comfortable)
Enjoys silence and being alone but loves company too
Has confidence but sometimes doesn't
Very loving, romantic in ideals and the way she sees life and people
Caring but not clingy......gives space and enjoys space given
Sexual but not slutty w/ a ton of people....only when very into the guy (will explore almost anything)
Only has a few real friends
Loves to just dream most of the time......gets lost in writing and music
Mysterious sometimes
A chase, not easy......

Is this the kind of girl guys like or not? I'm trying to figure out why guys would ever go for a "Paris Hilton" type of girl.......

2007-10-06 15:11:43 · 20 answers · asked by kittygoespeeps 1