Singles & Dating - 6 October 2007

I'm sitting here, after one of toughest fallouts of seeing this guy I though was perfect. I'm sick of these guys who use me as arm candy, or try to "get some".

I have mastered the skill of getting guys to notice me, with the eye contact, bumping into them and touching there shoulder, telling them how nice they smell, dancing with them, wearing cute outfits, staying fit. basically I have figured out if I wanted to I could leave with any guy one points out.

Every guy i have ever dated has been a pig.
I can't stop getting the attention of guys who end up breaking my heart or using me.

I wish I knew how to because so far out of all the guys who's attention i have gotten have never cared about me for who I am.
How can I go about meeting people who arnt just the obnoxious college frat boys. How do I get the nice guys attention?

i'm turning 20, i'm a virgin, and i'm clueless on how to find a nice guy

is there really such a thing?
if so
How do I meet them and flirt w/ them?

2007-10-06 13:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4

My mom doesn't want me liking a certain type a guy and thats basically all I am attracted too, and I really want to be with this guy that she doesn't want me to go with, what should I do?

2007-10-06 13:01:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I starting seeing his guy and we been hanging out almost every night. One night things got kind of serious and we had sex. Now I Have ask him to be my boyfriend but in return he said friendships last longer than relationships. So I was like okay. He still treats me nice and still comes to my house almost every night.What can be the reason he don't want to be in relationship with me?

2007-10-06 12:55:57 · 26 answers · asked by asia 1

2007-10-06 12:51:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

has anyone else ever felt this way?

2007-10-06 12:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 12:43:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

striped shorts and sandals, and a cowboy hat. Need all the help I can get.

2007-10-06 12:41:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sporadic 4

of course i know the literal meaning

one of my buddy commented by photo sayin 'ur not too shabby'
and it was a good photo
was she being sarcastic, or something else?

i think she meant 'hey, u look pretty nice'

anybody got idea?

2007-10-06 12:40:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

how should i do my hair to get my crush to notice me? please help asap!!!

2007-10-06 12:35:37 · 8 answers · asked by pinkgirl5 1

2007-10-06 12:28:45 · 2 answers · asked by calliegirl93 1

Ok, I really like this guy, and he knows that I like him, and I dont think he likes me, but I want him to get to know me, and I want to know him. How do I do it? The thing is I am Major shy too, and if I went up to him, I think he would walk away... I have tried to talk to him ( Help him ) in Science b4, and he only glanced at me, and spoke so low I couldnt hear him. What do I do? Expecially if he wont talk to me... HELP!!!

2007-10-06 12:27:08 · 4 answers · asked by Star 3

What are the signs tat a guy wants to kiss you because my friend told me this guy she liked wherelike nose to nose but never kissed and she got really upset.... So y didn't he kiss her she really needs an answer and i would really appreaciate if i could give some to her... But yea y didn't he kiss her and what are the signs that he wants to kiss you but doen't know if it's the right time but you somehow show him without saying it...

2007-10-06 12:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

when we are walking down thehallways he loves to hold my hand...what does this mean?...and he also like for me to sit in his lap

2007-10-06 12:23:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need help cause my friends tryied setting me up with this guy. but i seriouslt don't like him. and i was in my bathing suit and he came over. and my frendz told him to come in the pool with me. and they left me with him!!! and he was staring at my chest the whole time. i was seriously scared. and then at school he asked me out but i said yes but then i said no and now he keeps staring at me weirdly. and my frend is mad at me and now where in a fight but i don't want to be cause she is my best friend ever but she said the only she is going to forgive me is if i go out with that guy. and now i don't know what to do. cause i don't want to lose her. and by the way that guy is my best friends older brother. please help me cause i'm confused.

2007-10-06 12:19:58 · 14 answers · asked by Nika 2

2007-10-06 12:15:45 · 5 answers · asked by Kelly 4

i heard on this website that guys like hyper (but not rude.) girls, but it was written by a girl! i think that guys like sweet and calm girls! a better answer would come from a guy though! just curios ^.^

2007-10-06 12:13:52 · 24 answers · asked by .... 4

I have been crying for 4 hours. My heart just got broke for the first time.....How do i deal with the pain. I am still crying, and cant stop.

2007-10-06 11:50:28 · 46 answers · asked by ♥MeGaN♥ 3

We're pretty good friends, and she's always nice and seemed excited to talk to me..... I asked her out this week, and she said yes... (we have a 4 day weekend and she said she would be busy saturday but would probably be able to go out monday or tuesday)....
I kinda think she only said yes cuz she didnt want to hurt my feelings though, cuz ever since i asked her out she's been a little more stand-offish....
So im pretty sure she doesn't like me as much as I like her; any advice to help change that?

2007-10-06 11:39:11 · 6 answers · asked by d h 1

2007-10-06 11:12:00 · 4 answers · asked by Madmen22 1

I found the perfect guy! tall, muscles, blue eyes! kind, funny, great kisser! we had a good friendship and both of us were impress with each other when we met! So he is leaving for Iraq as the third time. I am having mix emotions! I truly want to wait for him and be loyal to me! but he is telling me to go on with my life! and that we have no strings attach. I told him that I will be there for him when he is gone and when he comes back we start again. I am a reck because now I am wondering if he is telling me this because he knows something I don't, or he is trying to tell me not to wait for him in case he dies! its terrible because we talked about what to do in that case. Yes! I shouldn't think this way! I need to be strong for him and be positive for him too! but what about me? how can I deal with these emotions? anybody else has the same motions?

2007-10-06 11:03:28 · 1 answers · asked by Deyla C 1

we live in different states but while he is driving from job to job Monday thru friday, he calls me cell at least 5 times and if I dont answer he calls my home phone, and I always answer ( maybe I shouldnt?) but then saturday and sunday comes and he only calls once at night? and thats when we have more time to talk, he doesnt see anything wrong with this, but I do.unless im making a big deal out of it,? oh and if he is out with his friends on saturday he doesnt even call at all. why am i good only during the week and not the weekend, how can i explain to him that it upsets me, or should I just act busy ( i live in the country not to many friends out here close by . I dont like to make up storys but he knows I dont go out to much,( i was married but lost my husband now Im single for 1 1/2 yr. and working on meeting new friends but its not easy.and oh and he is moving down here next yr. we are going to live together

2007-10-06 10:49:57 · 6 answers · asked by JOY Z 1

-------------------------------------------------------------
Don’t forget to star if you like this question ... Hey this is only a reminder. I am not demanding. Don't star ... if you don't like it

2007-10-06 10:49:44 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4

how do know if a boy likes you?
some signs what they do?
but signs they would do if there like shy?
please help thanx!

2007-10-06 10:49:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yeah....Im dateless...and all my friends have dates..or there just got going..
any advice to keep me having fun?

2007-10-06 10:42:29 · 5 answers · asked by cabsleeper 4

My Bf b day is coming up and he keep bothering me about these sneakers he wants. wats going on what should i do??

2007-10-06 10:31:13 · 26 answers · asked by Mymy 2

Well is because not too long ago about for weeks ago this guy wanted to date me he said he loved me and everything, he was a sweetheart and everything but the only thing that buged me was that he was childish and i did let him know that. And so he invited me to the state fair i said ok ill go but that day i could nt go i had stuff to do, but to my surprise he was already over there i called him and told me that i couldnt go and my phone ran outta battery so i couldnt finish talkin to him the. The next day at school he looked mad and sad he made me feel so bad i really dont think he deserves this because he has been nothing but nice with me , n so my best friend that has him in all of her classes asked him if he still cared about me and he said he didnt give a **** anymore but supposely he was having a really bad day that day but i just really hope he doesnt hold a grudge against me because now that i see i do like him he is the one!!!!!!

2007-10-06 10:25:05 · 10 answers · asked by neli91 1

into a monster and completely dfferent person in a year's time?And if someone is paranoid secretive,won't let anyone in,picks fights with women,and things of that nature,is it safe vto say that drigs are thye cause?Especially if the guy used to be very polite and well mannered?

2007-10-06 10:22:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 10:17:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do guys start to flirt with you when they find out you like them? is it because they dont want to be rude, or is because they like you ,or another reason?

2007-10-06 10:09:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

A little boy goes running to a brand new candy store, wishng for there to be this ONE candy that he has been waiting and hoping to have. But when he gets to the candy store, he see's something else that looks better...but he puts it in his mouth and finds out that it tastes worse....wouldn't you figure he would spit it our and go for what he KNOWS will taste good???

But you would be wrong.

Take that situation and put it to real life. Why do we go for a person that we know will be great and will make us happy, but we see someone that looks better on the outside...and go for that instead. We know it wont "taste good"...but for some reason...we dont always spit it out?

If you would NEVER eat a peice of candy that you NEW you wouldn't like....or it would taste good at first but leave you with a horrible after taste...Then why would you date someone you KNEW wasn't going to make you as happy as someone else??

2007-10-06 10:06:49 · 8 answers · asked by Megan 3