My Bf b day is coming up and he keep bothering me about these sneakers he wants. wats going on what should i do??
2007-10-06 10:31:13 · 26 answers · asked by Mymy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For starters, how long have you been with this bf? Are the sneakers within your budget? What I would do is give him a gift certificate from the store where the shoes are from. Make the amount for half of the cost of the shoes. That way you've helped pay for the shoes without going broke. Sounds like a fair thing to do. If you don't want to have anything to do with buying the shoes, do dinner and / or a movie. There are alot of other gifts you could give. I guess it all just depends on your budget and how you feel about the guy.
2007-10-06 10:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by peterbilt197 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? I imagine that these are expensive sneakers.
Does he treat you well. Is sex the ultimate goal when he sees you?
Since you asked this question, you must have doubts. Let his mother buy the sneakers.Get him something that you can comfortably afford.
2007-10-06 10:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him you dont need to buy things for any man if anything if he is a real man he would be buying you things if every time that he sees you you guys end up having sex even if you dont feel like it and he asks you for things too much then yes he probably is do this just pretend that you are going to buy him the sneakers but dont if he gets mad at you and asks like a jerk then screw him you dont need that jerk in your life girl theres plenty of other guys that will treat you better
2007-10-06 10:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by altima 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange! Cultured and decent boys never say anything about birthdays. The day arrives and we're getting older. You probably don't buy him anything, just a card. See his reaction. About sex well I'm of the opinion that true love never seeks sex before wedding.
2007-10-06 10:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by me_always 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the only time he has hinted around to something that he wants from you or does he do it all the time? If it is the first time - or only around his Birthday or Christmas then it is just a normal reaction, he probably learned it from doing it to his parents for years. But don't feel obligated to buy the shoes for him. If there is something else that you want to buy him. If he gets mad and all upset because you didn't buy the shoes, well, then you will have your answer. Because if he truly loves you he will like what ever you give him.
2007-10-06 10:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK to me this would include being together for a long time... like a year or more. If this is the case maybe he is not so subtly hinting as to what he would like for his Bday... I know I know... tacky hu? Sometimes guys can be that way. If I were you and not in a relationship long, I would tell him to get a job... lol If I were in the relationship long enough but they are spendy shoes, I would tell him that I would pay for half, again that is only assuming that you can afford that much.
2007-10-06 10:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Katie K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get him a card and a simple gift.....if his response is a negative one then that should tell you what he wants...If he is looking for sex after then deny him that as well and see how long he sticks around.....I have learned that women are more generous than men when it comes to gifts and that we should spend less time giving than recieving. Even when it comes to sex.
2007-10-06 10:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by hotchotlver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy... How old are you and how old is he? You girls always bring up these relationship questions with no imformation regarding(which is important!). Hopefully you are old enough to be having sex to begin with! And if he is asking for expensive sneakers, he probably is using you! But you are enabling it to happen aren't you!
2007-10-06 10:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sweat the small stuff, give him a few bucks towards the sneakers and tell him to find the rest
2007-10-06 10:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you afford the shoes? I would buy him a card to see what his reaction was and that should tell you if he is just using you or not! I hope not! Good Luck!
2007-10-06 10:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋