i need help cause my friends tryied setting me up with this guy. but i seriouslt don't like him. and i was in my bathing suit and he came over. and my frendz told him to come in the pool with me. and they left me with him!!! and he was staring at my chest the whole time. i was seriously scared. and then at school he asked me out but i said yes but then i said no and now he keeps staring at me weirdly. and my frend is mad at me and now where in a fight but i don't want to be cause she is my best friend ever but she said the only she is going to forgive me is if i go out with that guy. and now i don't know what to do. cause i don't want to lose her. and by the way that guy is my best friends older brother. please help me cause i'm confused.
2007-10-06 12:19:58 · 14 answers · asked by Nika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't like him, end of story. Tell him sorry, but you aren't looking for a relationship right now and you aren't interested. Really would you rather have a friend mad for a few days or lead a guy on? The answer there should be easy. Best of luck!
2007-10-06 12:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by Meghan C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your so called "Best Friend" says that she is not going to be friends with u if you don't like some guy she is not really a good friend and tell her that you don't think this guys is right for you and he keeps on looking at you in the wrong places if you know what i mean or if you are mad at her then play the 2 can play at this game and say i wont be friends with you if you don't... But just try to explain to her that you really do not like this guy and id she cant expect that then you are just going to have to let her go as a friend untill she can figure out if that's what she really wants! Well i hope i helped cause my hands hurt now but if it helps you its worth it Hooray!! lol Good Luck! b<3
2007-10-06 19:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by BRITTANY☮ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice is, if she's really your best friend she should understand and except any decision you made. You shouldn't have to "try" to like someone just so you don't lose a friend over it. If he's truly this weird imagine if you were dating, he kind of seems stalkerish... Of course, thats just an opinion. Anyhoo, have you tried sitting with her and explaining why you're not attracted to him? If so and she still persists with this childish attitude you really need to rethink your position in this so-called friendship. Ask her to put herself in your position right this moment, and see what she would say or do it to her, find someone you know she would not even look twice at and try and hook them up and see how she likes having to be put in that type of position... Basically turn it around only than maybe she'll understand where you're coming from. Good Luck to you.... I lost a best friend but I've learned from it and I gained more.... Oh well... Life goes on.....
2007-10-06 19:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by O' wai kou inoa? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the best friend's brother the best friend you're fighting with? if not then ask the friend if its ok to go out with their brother. is the boy cute? is he nice? then go ahead and maybe things would be ok after a while. but if you feel really uncomfortable around him don't. hope it helped. good luck!
2007-10-06 19:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by claudia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend you really appreciate what she tried to do, and are flattered that she thinks you're good enough to be with her brother, but you have decided that he's just not right for you. Just say that some other girl will be lucky to have him ... but if she's really your friend she won't base your friendship on whether or not you date her brother.
2007-10-06 19:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Eagiusti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This mad my laugh ok your friend isn't your brain or heart say no i do not like this guy don't go out with him really im a guy and i really think you should not go out with him
2007-10-06 19:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that he's just not the right guy for you and you rather find someone you like more!
If she's mad still shes not a very nice friend!
2007-10-06 19:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by nicki 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok that last part kinda got me. So here is what I would do don't listen to me if you don't want. So just tell her "I just don't like him." And then tell her of she was a true friend she would understand. Good luck. (Man that guy sounds like a creep.)
2007-10-06 19:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by The Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I would try to explain to her that I want a B/F but it is not him. And If she wants to be a True Friend she will respect the way you feel.
2007-10-06 19:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sista Grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably putting pressure on her to pressure you to go out with him. Look at this another way, if she was your best friend she wouldn't be putting pressure on you to go out with anyone, especially someone you say spent so much time staring at your chest. Tell her is she was your friend, she wouldn't ask you to go out with him. You may even tell them that you need your parents permission to go out with anyone and he has to ask them, and then tell them to say no.
2007-10-06 19:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋