Well is because not too long ago about for weeks ago this guy wanted to date me he said he loved me and everything, he was a sweetheart and everything but the only thing that buged me was that he was childish and i did let him know that. And so he invited me to the state fair i said ok ill go but that day i could nt go i had stuff to do, but to my surprise he was already over there i called him and told me that i couldnt go and my phone ran outta battery so i couldnt finish talkin to him the. The next day at school he looked mad and sad he made me feel so bad i really dont think he deserves this because he has been nothing but nice with me , n so my best friend that has him in all of her classes asked him if he still cared about me and he said he didnt give a **** anymore but supposely he was having a really bad day that day but i just really hope he doesnt hold a grudge against me because now that i see i do like him he is the one!!!!!!
2007-10-06 10:25:05 · 10 answers · asked by neli91 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, whats your question?
2007-10-06 10:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Bri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be more polished than that and be relaxed. The worst thing that could happen is she say NO. The world will not freeze over. If she did say no. All you would say in a very cool and confident way, It's disappointing but I respect your answer. This way you look socially well adjusted and you save your dignity by being dignified. Another thing that comes to mind is the refrain - it is not the first time and Im sure this will not be the last, also showing you are well adjusted and not afraid of being told no. That is important because if she says no and you are cool. later you can talk to her as a friend and become friends. Fearing rejection makes you look like a geek loser. Not good and nothing to gain. Talk to this girl about anything under the sun. When you see her next ask how she is did in her last semester. Then tell her how you did. Please, no grades. Then ask her what this new semester is like for her. Is it a heavier load for her than last semester or does it seem like it is going to be about the same. Give your answer. Then say well gotta go, I will talk to you later. From there you should get more material from your small talk to approach her again and say Hi. So whats up? If things seem slow say well gotta go, I will talk to you later. Before you can even think of asking her out you must talk to her several times until you are relaxed.m If you do not than you will be a boring bundle of nerves when you go out with her and she will not want to go out again. Girls like a fun date not an awkward one. A kiss on the cheek and a thank you for going out with you is appropriate at the end of the If you ever hold her hand you ask permission the first time you do it but not on the first date. Also, you must always go up to the door and knock if picking her up at home. If introduced to a parent you shake hands and say - It is a pleasure to meet you. Hope this is some of the kind of info you were seeking. LOL :)
2016-05-17 21:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your best friend to explain how bad you feel that your cell phone battery went dead and you couldn't tell him that you had these other things to do. then call him yourself and apologize as well. If you are still in school, it is too soon to get into a relationship too seriously but you can be friends with the potential for more in time if the feelings last.
2007-10-06 10:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best move to make is to go and talk to him. Let him know what happened and that you feel really bad about it. You made a mistake and now you want to correct it. He needs to know that you are sincere with your apology and want nothing more than to be with him. Let him know how you feel and do something special to make up for your mistake. If he doesn't forgive you, respect his decision and allow him time to mend and then try to work on a friendship.
2007-10-06 10:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by chante n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does "the one" mean exactly? You sound a little young to have found "the one". You mention that he says he loves you. You haven't been on one date and he said he loves you. Don't you find that odd? If he doesn't give you the chance to explain what happened then he is too immature. Imagine if a more serious situation arose and you were dating him. I don't think his response was a positive one. You have many years ahead of you to find a boyfriend, so take your time.
2007-10-06 10:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by aj's girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel. explain 2 him what happened n that it was all a big misunderstanding. if he doesnt change after that then u need 2 move on cause petty stuff like dat aint even worth getting worried stressed out over
2007-10-06 10:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly how old are you? If he's going to get mad over petty crap that you couldn't avoid from happening then he's not worth it and if I were you I wouldn't waste your time!
2007-10-06 10:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by bktp37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k what u need to do is talk to him.. tell him what your feeling and how ur srry basicaly tell him what u just wrote on here.. he would definatly forgive u trust me.. what u just said sounds great!.. and true!.. so call him.. or find a moment where its just the two of u and tell him everythin u just said!
good luck!
kesha.
2007-10-06 10:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel. if he really likes you, then he will understand, just write a note, and tell ur friend to give it to him, trust me you dont want to miss ur chance with a possible loved one !
2007-10-06 10:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Boy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him & explain that your phone battery went dead & that you didnt mean to hang up on him, he should understand that it wasnt your fault...
2007-10-06 10:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by simply_adorable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋