Singles & Dating - 6 October 2007

I am always sitting home every saturday night - I went to the mall and saw all the guys with their girlfriends and I was alone!!! What is the key! I realize I will never get a hot girlfriend and will have to have one that is just "okay" because I am not good enough for a hot girl, but for the love of god, how do I ask a girl out, because I don't even know if they have a boyfriend already or not!! I don't get it..what is the key!!!

2007-10-06 09:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by Facing Worlds 1

When he sees me he always goes out of his way to high five me and then walks away. He high fives everyone, though. Sometimes when he's walking by me, he'll touch my arm and waist, but he does this to some other people, too. He talks to me, but just about normal things, such as school and sports. I've only started talking to him about 2 weeks ago, but we've both seen each other around for years. He was talking to me earlier and mentioned that his dad knew mine, and that got me thinking to he would've had to bring my name up so he must've been talking about me. When we talk, he looks directly in my eyes, but he does that to everyone. He's sending me so many mixed signals. what do you think?

2007-10-06 09:40:28 · 2 answers · asked by charley 3

I have been with my boyfriend since 2005 we went to prom together and he was my first. But here lately all we do is fight and he's obsessed with the rapper "50 Cent" he carries his cd player everywhere we go. And i'm tired of it when we argue he starts singing the songs that 50 cent raps. He even says he as other women and i'm sick of it. I don't know if he's lien or not and then he starts calling me names. I keep telling myself i need to just move on or either take a break but we always get back together. He says he's sorry and i forgive him he promises he won't do it again but he does. I just wish i could some how stop having feelings for him because i cry alot over him. He Doesn't work or go to school all he wants to do is listen to that cd player. I'm currently taking online classes for Web Design. Now keep in mind we are both 20 years old i just need some advice because i don't know what else to do. I'm just so glad we don't live together or have children.

2007-10-06 09:31:17 · 11 answers · asked by babycheeks 1

the other day he was honest with me and told me that he's slept with 4 girls before me! the thing is.. i was a virgin until i got with him and i'm finding it really hard to think of him having sex with that man girls before me. how can i get over it? how can i push it aside and not get upset about it? Thanks


he's 2 years older than me.

2007-10-06 09:27:00 · 22 answers · asked by cassy 3

i dont have one at the moment :/...

actually, there's my amazing guyfriend that im not really over.
he's kinda skater/emo-ish and he has dark hair and really really deep blue eyes. he's very funny and sweet (and sensitive) and i know him really well.

i liked him for awhile and then got over it. but now were partners in science, and i think its kind of coming back...

anyway, whats ur crush like?

2007-10-06 08:59:48 · 8 answers · asked by A Miracle In Your Veins<3 5

a 5'10", skinny, about 130 pound girl with brown layered hair and blonde highlights who is athletic and has a 4 pack stomach? also, likes wearing hollister and american eagle. has green eyes with a little bit of orange and yellow if you look close?

2007-10-06 08:58:16 · 2 answers · asked by charley 3

2007-10-06 08:52:50 · 4 answers · asked by Stephanie :) 3

What do I talk about with my crush? Like how do I bring up a topic? I don't want to the convo to be like
Him: Hey
Me: Hi
Him: What's up?
Me: Nothing much, you?
Him: Same
and then randomly be like so what classes are you in or have you seen this movie like most people say to talk about? Help!

2007-10-06 08:50:24 · 4 answers · asked by charley 3

when my boyfriend always chooses his mates over me. he doesnt realise how much it hurts me but when i try to talk about it he claims i am clingy.

i know i shouldnt be with him but i couldnt bare to be without him.

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2007-10-06 08:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by cheese_savouries 1

i am 32 yrs old and i have all kinds of problems

2007-10-06 08:47:43 · 4 answers · asked by Madmen22 1

when they like a girl?

2007-10-06 08:43:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 08:43:19 · 5 answers · asked by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4

2007-10-06 08:41:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have dinner with her family sometimes. Other times I help her with homework. She thinks I'm smart and funny. We're just friends, and we've never dated and never would. We've never been alone before. Is anything wrong with that?

2007-10-06 08:35:27 · 17 answers · asked by M 1

My boyfriend threatens to leave me. He says the only way to make him stay is sex, and although I say no, he pressures me into having sex. Is is rape?

2007-10-06 08:17:34 · 53 answers · asked by Poetic Jezebel 3

Ok, so about three years ago I went through a HORRIBLE break up. He was an absolute Jack *A*... and for a while, I couldn't talk to him, stand the sight or thought of him (mainly because I wasn't over him)...

I've moved on to someone TEN TIMES better than my ex was, but I was browsing myspace (yes, I know myspace'll get ya) and I stumbled across my Ex's page. Now I'm uber tempted to send him a message just to say "hey" and see how he's been.

I have NO INTEREST whatsoever in getting back with him, it's just that time has healed old wounds...

So should I write him, or just leave it be? And could I PLEASE have a reason for either answer???

THANKS A BUNCH!!!

2007-10-06 08:03:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy at school is real sweet but not that hot and he's my bestfriend brother! i like him alot and he really likes me to the point of embarresment but he doesn't quite know for sure i like him i want to tell him but i don't know what to say! both our parents are completly aganst dating maybe cause were 12 ! what do i do and say ps i save him seats in class and he shares candy!

(sorry about spelling)

2007-10-06 08:02:07 · 11 answers · asked by madaloopa 1

Alright this is how everything started...My date asked me to go with him as his date but like as friends. he said that he isnt going to dance with other girls and stuff. Then he asked my best friend if she thought it would be okay if he goes and dances with all of his friends and dances with me a couple times. Now I understand that he wants to hang with his friends but theyre all girls!! AND I understand that if we are just friends I shouldnt over react but i'm feeling kinda sad that he wants to dance with all of his friends.How would you react.Would it be wrong to go with someone else?

2007-10-06 08:00:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok im sure alot of these questions appear, but none of them appear to be similar to my case.

ok so anyway, there is this boy i like. im in 7th grade, and i have liked him since 6th grade. his name is cruz, we are both mexican. anyway last year when i liked him, he never talked to me, never looked at me or anything. this year he started talking to me all of a sudden. and about 2 days ago we were walking back from lunch, and me and him were walking together,
nd he was teasing me about being a lesbian, and we were just laughing about it, and then he said "you can tell me anything im ur best friend" nd i was like "oh really? haha" nd we just started laughing, then he asked me who i liked, and i said that i wasnt going to tell him, nd he was trying to guess. but he never did guess that it was him.
and everytime i see him he will look at me then try to shake my hand and ill go for it, then he moves his hand out of the way, and he just smiles and then i laugh.

2007-10-06 07:55:16 · 2 answers · asked by ╚»|ƒ|α|м|σ|υ|ѕ|☆! 3

I had a boyfriend five years ago.. hes always been "the one that got away". Most people have one- the one that they never really stop thinking about that deeply impacted their life. We went through alot in our relationship and he has always been very hard to get over.

I NEVER thought id find anyone to make me happy after him- and then a year ago i met an awesome man. He is my everything and i love him to death. He makes me happier then ive ever been in my life and i cant wait until i marry him.

Problem is.. that ex is always in the back of my mind. i would NEVER leave my current for him or put myself in a bad position of being around him.. but he still crosses my mind.

Im ashamed to say last night it got worse.. i saw him out.. and text him that i didnt think id ever be truly completely over him. I am ashamed to even tell random strangers this b/c i know how messed up it is. I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND!

Anyone ever been in this situation? How do i stop? Am i a horrible person?

2007-10-06 07:55:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 07:52:38 · 5 answers · asked by Dezzy Madden 1

this guy called joshua drake has asked me out and i dont even know him. its only my 4th week running in dat skool ive just moved from another skool and i dot know what to say!!!
HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-06 07:47:35 · 25 answers · asked by Sana A 1

I am a 19 year old young lady and my boyfriend is 16. He looks and acts like he is in his 20's. And i've neer heard anyone guess his age right. Were starting to develop strong feelings for each other, which is already making it go further than we wanted. His mom, as far as i know of, has no problem with me and even lets me stay the night with him. But the rest of his family and my family are all over our asses about the age difference but i really like him and he really likes me. So my question is....is it wrong that were happily together or should will it never work? Should we listen to our family's opinions or ignore them? Thanks to whomever answers this.

2007-10-06 07:45:20 · 4 answers · asked by armesia_combs 2

she will probably get angry and or cry FOREVER because she is like that and she really loves this guy and I want to know how to tell her gently.HELP ME SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-06 07:38:23 · 7 answers · asked by chickey 2

Been seeing a lovely guy for three months, not sure where it is going still. Had the chance for a one night, no strings, with an ex that pressed all the right buttons. Would you risk it or not?

2007-10-06 07:36:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, i dated him over the summer, longest relationship I've ever had. I was convinced he felt the same way about me. But when his parents told him to dump me, and he did, i realized taht he didn't really love me. But the problem is, i still love him and whenever i try to talk to him he just yells at me and tells me to get over him. Well heres another problem, i had my first kiss with him. I know i love him because whenever i think about him i get the most wonderful feeling. For awhile i hated him because he dumped me 3 days after my great grandma died, when i really needed him. I know that i'm only 13 and ppl may say that i don't know what love feels like but i do. And usually after i break up with someone or they break up with me i'm over them in about 1 minute, well he broke up with me in july and i'm still not over him, i haven't had another boyfriend since, thinkig that he may want to get bak together with me, so i stay open and ready. help, i'm about to quit life.

2007-10-06 07:36:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-10-06 07:35:37 · 23 answers · asked by Cybernaut 1

okay so-
(this really isnt that long)

me and one of my guy friends are really close. we do lots of stuff together. well i know for a fact he still likes his ex-girlfriend and i think she still likes him too. well for the past 3 months everytime i go over to his house we will always flirt alot. and during this time period he has kissed me repeatedly on the cheek multiple times and almost kissed me for real but his 12 year old brother walked in. (the 12yr old is in like love with me) but then he goes around and starts to really like his ex again. then when ever i come back to see him he will act like he really likes me. im really confused if he is just using me or if he likes me or what. and i do like him but i dont want to if that makes sense...

i have no idea please help me

P.S.- im 13 and he is 14

2007-10-06 07:32:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a freshmen in HS this year and have never had a boyfriend...ONLY crushes. I have never been kissed and never been on a date..... I am kinda a shy person but I thought that I would have a bf by now. All of the guys I like are preppy and popular and I am neither of that. Did anyone else not date much in high school but later on found some one?? I want to grow up and get married but based on middle school and part of high school...I will probably be an old maid. And I highly doubt I will get a bf in the rest of my hs years cuz i live in a small town and all the people in my grade, i am not interested in cuz i have grown up with them since elementary school. Everyone I know has had a boyfriend....and i haven't. I am scared some people will start to think I am a lesbo even though I am NOT! I know that there are some guys that like me but I don't have the same feelings for them that they do for me......is that okay???? Someone....can you please give me advice? Thanks

2007-10-06 07:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've had my boyfriend for a week & i used to like him a lot but now for some reason i dont anymore & i realized i'm destined to be single(great for me-i was a lot happier being single than i am now) but i cant break up with him!! no way!! all our friends know about it & everyone is loving us together...& if i dump him i'll feel even worse & everyone will be saying im a b**** because the relationship barely started...but i hate being fake & pretending to love the relationship...
help please i'm so lost & i feel like crap. i didnt expect this.

i feel like my freedom got taken away..i loved being single but now i just feel..well...NOT FREE! :-s

2007-10-06 07:23:54 · 12 answers · asked by cloud16 4