Ok, so about three years ago I went through a HORRIBLE break up. He was an absolute Jack *A*... and for a while, I couldn't talk to him, stand the sight or thought of him (mainly because I wasn't over him)...
I've moved on to someone TEN TIMES better than my ex was, but I was browsing myspace (yes, I know myspace'll get ya) and I stumbled across my Ex's page. Now I'm uber tempted to send him a message just to say "hey" and see how he's been.
I have NO INTEREST whatsoever in getting back with him, it's just that time has healed old wounds...
So should I write him, or just leave it be? And could I PLEASE have a reason for either answer???
THANKS A BUNCH!!!
2007-10-06 08:03:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just let it be for forget about it. If you send him any kind of message at all, he may think he can get back together with you and even if you don't want that, he can become a nuisance and pester you to the point it can cause ripples in your happiness now. better to leave the past back in the past in this case.
2007-10-06 08:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you say you are over him, but i don't think so. Your asking for trouble.You say you have a good relationship, why are you trolling on my space? Are you going to tell mr. nice guy about this? Most people forget why they broke up in the beginning. If you go back to him it will only be a matter of thim before you have another nasty break up. All the old issues will eventually surface again, & you will realize you didn't resolve them then,& your probably not going to again. #
2007-10-06 15:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you can and if you had NO INTEREST in getting back with him you probably wouldnt have took the time out to write out this question and wait 4 a answer...So just talk to the man...
2007-10-06 15:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Blond3 BombShell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try ,move on with your life,think of your new lover and forget about the past.In any relationship what you put in is what you will get in return.Will you be happy to find that your lover is contacting his ex behind your back?
2007-10-06 15:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by misslee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a person who thinks it's great if you can get along with your ex, why hot?! But if your breakup was horrible why bother to want to contact him? Do you want him to know he's been replace with Mr. Wonderful? Again, if he was a jerk, why bother to contact him?
2007-10-06 15:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by IWTK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hurt u 1 time he do it gain stop the language girl.
2007-10-06 15:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by cinncinn95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋